Wrong place to put this but I'm not about to simp in front of the homies so

Wrong place to put this but I'm not about to simp in front of the homies so

>be me
>socially retarded 23 y/o sophomore college student
>shit at dating (5 dates and all were terrible bc women be creepy and I'm shit with women)
>barely passing, decide to change habits
>decide "fuck it gotta change"
>decide to repress attraction for the sake of focus
>decide to not ask anyone out cuz that doesn't end well and my emotions suck when I fail, which then fucks with my focus
>decide to study hard
>get to class
>immediately fail at goal #2
>cute Malaysian chick site right next to me in calc 3
>like a year older than me but shorter, culturally Muslim as well, very soft spoken, quite mature tho
>start studying with her, get homework done like a WEEK early and understand the content cuz of her
>get to know each other outside of school, interests and the like
>she's into the same shit I am, music, vidya, anime
>she's so sweet omg it fuckin kills me
>she somehow asks me to the gym in a few weeks and I say yes
>go to doctor and find out I've got a bacterial infection on my leg from the gym cuz some tards decided not to clean up after themselves on one of the machines
>she's alright with postponing it
>not entirely sure she's into me but she's def a good friend
>realize she's the only reason I'm passing rn
>feelsgoodman

I don't even care that I can't date her rn, I'm just glad she's a part of my life and that I don't creep her out. If I ask her out it's gotta be after I'm done with the class.
Honestly, don't even care at this point she's so wholesome I'd be happy just being her friend.

You can go ahead and insult me in the replies now.

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you sound like a grade A soft bitch, OP. eat her ass and never talk to her again like a man.

impregnate her

kys normie

Filthy disgusting sandnigger this website is for whites only

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I think some women can sense desperation. Or at the very least, desperation can make you behave in ways you might not realize. By going through life focusing on yourself, I think that attitude will play a role in how people see you.

Thanks for the advice user! Yeah I can def tell that that's why I didn't get anywhere in high school, started working on that and it got somewhat better.
I hope I'm not like that now, if I'm being like that you're more than welcome to tell me where I can change, always looking to improve.

I think at this point I'm more focused on passing and having friends than chasing women.

This is gonna sound hella gay but hear me out man, in life some bitches you're not supposed to fuck/date, I learnt this the hard way a few times. Sometimes the smarter way of doing things is just staying friends if it really does mean that much to you, also girls are really attracted to guys that don't look for the relationship first so if anything does materialise make sure you don't instigate it by making things awkward but if she moves like she's keen try not to be scared to pop the question.
Now back to you're usual programming

Gay ass autistic nigga fuck you

bump

this

The correct answer

Fuck, I wish I was just best friends with my partner of 3 years. She’s the person I care for more than anybody in the world, and we play MMOs together and have the best time, but fuck she’s ugly as shit, and I’m missing out on so much pussy while I’m at university…

best way to not fuck it up is to not think about it so much. don't obsess. don't think its something super amazing like a once in a lifetime thing - it isn't. there are millions of people out there who are exactly the same as her. don't be a dick, but don't idolize her. just be friendly and interesting, but when it comes time to seal the deal don't pussy out, just go for it the worst that can happen is she isnt into it

ok. let me give you some acctual advice. as a muslim guy myself. muslim girls do date guys but only other muslim dudes there are afew that date white guys but they are usually the slutty type and arent worth your time user. she seems genuine but as a friend she most likely will reject you which might suck ass as u seem into her but some girls are just not dateble if u arent from the same religion or culture. im white passing (even though im like 100% sure im completely asian)
and ive noticed muslim girls like guys who are white looking but not acctualy white. so the only real choice you have is to either
A) convert which isn't something realistic tbf and is most likely not worth it
or
B) tell her how you feel and hope shes fine with dating outside of her circle.
but then again the situation could be completely different and things might play out differently

I only really mentioned it cuz I'm muslim as well, albeit mostly culturally atm (I'm half southern Filipino and my dad's a convert).
But yeah I pray, and observe holidays n shit.
I'm also kinda white passing ig? Idk if that actually matters but yeah i'm prob gonna wait until after the semester's over if I even decide to do anything.

I'm ready for the rejection, but just not atm out of convenience sake.

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Listen here retard, while someone may have neglected to clean the gym equipment after using it the only reason you ended up actually developing staph is because YOU didnt wash yourself immediately after exercising. Listen to me you sweaty nerd you better at least shower before you do ask her out.

> muslim girls do date guys

no way i thought they were all lesbians

user ill be honest don't think about it too much you probably only feel like this because she 'saved' you in a way from your struggles. also as someone who goes to gym i never date a girl who would seem like the type of girl who invites guys to go gym together. gym girls are thirsty user and are usually go out with guys alot. you might be fine with that but after my teen years ive only been out with girls who i know for certain im their 1st. i might just have high standards tho so dont take my words for facts

you wouldnt believe the amount of muslim girls who dont date at all and wait till like 24 for an arranged marrage