Anybody else feel like they're good looking, like a solid 7/10, basically good looking enough to get a gf but just doesn't have any game? My charisma is a complete 0 when it comes to talking with women. They expect you to keep making conversation or they'll lose interest or think you're weird. How do normal fags talk endlessly about stupid shit that doesn't matter?
Anybody else feel like they're good looking, like a solid 7/10...
Jose Walker
Angel Kelly
yes autism is worse than being ugly
Christopher Ward
I've been told I'm literally male model tier. I overheard some girls at college say "he'd be hunky if he wasn't so weird"
Noah Flores
I don't know OP i wish i had a solution for our situation. I've been called everything from handsome to super cute to stud, but it doesn't really mean much when you're on the spectrum. Normalfags don't understand you can't just "learn" to be social when your brain is literally not wired to make those connections. At best you can learn what NOT to do and maybe work with that.
Kevin Gray
Try being an autistic manlet.
Dominic Hernandez
Everyone has told me I'm good looking my whole life but I dont have any motivation to put effort into my looks or maintain them. I'm not good looking enough to have ever been approached by a girl.
Ryder Evans
I feel like I have what it takes to be pretty attractive but I have a few things holding me back, mainly my bad habit of skin picking and my weak chin which I plan to get surgery for one day
Kevin Barnes
Not on the spectrum myself but I feel like I understand you guys better now. When you say you can't learn it, it doesn't mean it will be a bit challenging it's actually factual. Good looks can take you extremely far, where you just reciprocate and it's a done deal. If you don't know how to though it's pretty much useless. Not the best apology but it's like you were given a Lamborghini that is manual. Beautiful exterior that attracts a ton of attention and makes people want to know more about you and think highly of you. It's pretty much fucking useless though if you can't learn to drive it (driving navigating a conversation with a girl).
Caleb Green
Yeah it sucks, I had always been pretty attractive and got comments for it, I'm tall, have nice eyes etc. I can tell women found me intriguing but autism is a helluva drug, some chick can approach you and then you can basically watch the interest fade from her face as you start to talk and she realizes she's made a huge error of judgement. Or when I get a match on tinder, sometimes they even message me first, then I send a message. Unmatched.
Now I'm balding so my body finally caught up with me. In a way it's freeing.
Nathan Diaz
Explain how it's freeing? You don't think you'll regret never having used your luck?
Juan Smith
Kinda ugly and short but I agree that my autism is my worst trait. Hell I don't even care about getting a gf I'm more concerned with the fact I can't talk to people.
Jackson Adams
You at least get superpowers (really smart) with the deal?
Colton Davis
Ah yes. Everyone here is actually very handsome but are somehow virgins.
Everyone here is also a genius. The most intelligent people in the world are robots. Yet robots are NEET/broke/dropouts.
Y'all are actually the masterrace. It's the rest of the wrong that's wrong.
Isaiah Wood
Sadly that isn't always the case. Some of us can be hyper fixated on a particular thing and it may allow us to thrive in that area, but it doesn't mean you will be gifted with a 140+ IQ.
Blake Foster
>user's so smart and handsome!
Oliver Cruz
For me, it's the opposite
No matter who it is, I can talk with them and get close very easily.
But it's one-sided and I don't really care about the person so I inevitably drop them except for a few exceptions.
What's worse than being a social outcast is to be a misanthrope with good social skills.
Grayson James
Um no, honestly I think severe anorexia might've given me brain damage but I can't confirm. The lowest healthy BMI is 18 I think and 15 is considered fatal, I was 14 once.
Grayson Martin
There probably are smart and or handsome people here but something didn't go right (or went way wrong) in the adolescent / developmental phase and there's just a lack of confidence or being too introverted that ruins it for some people
It's not really a matter of being right or wrong but the one's who are most wrong are the ones that think looks alone will lead you to a good life (in some rare cases or career paths there is some truth to that but usually not)
A lot of young people even look like shit or lack self esteem in their primary school years but puberty and aging manages to make them attractive but they still have the personality and self esteem of being hideous..On the other side of the coin there's a lot of people who were really attractive while they were young but aging and lifestyle ran a train on them and they're left with being hideous looking but still have the inflated self esteem / confidence (and perceived worth) of a beautiful person
Jeremiah Stewart
Looks are the real cope. Fat manlets get laid more then autistic models
Bentley Gray
Don't bother replying to a dumb tripfag anons. It's below you to do that.
Joseph Edwards
Looks aren't really a cope though, straight up being better looking will net you better results (as long as you are normal). Which isn't too hard when you were given attention from an early age and were presented opportunities to learn (given no actual mental disability).
Connor Nelson
i lost a bunch if weight and did that self improvement meme
im outwardly pretty attractive but on the inside im still a weird fat kid
sometimes women approach me and talk to me and i can watch the slowly dawning confusion play on their face. one girl even half jokingly declared "why are you so weird?"
Jackson Hernandez
>there's a lot of people who were really attractive while they were young but aging and lifestyle ran a train on them and they're left with being hideous looking but still have the inflated self esteem / confidence (and perceived worth) of a beautiful person
This is why the dating game can be so skewed too
Lot of stacies were hot when they were young and thriving off of just being naturally pretty but then poor lifestyle and the wall came and now they're washed up but still expect a 8-9 / 10 Chad
Jaxson Rogers
Yes. But I never go outside and women don't exist on the internet. And I'm not interested in most of them anyway. Also the world is absolutely fucked, so there's not much I can do. The few women that are compatible with me will probably all be dead in a few years.