Anybody else feel like they're good looking, like a solid 7/10, basically good looking enough to get a gf but just doesn't have any game? My charisma is a complete 0 when it comes to talking with women. They expect you to keep making conversation or they'll lose interest or think you're weird. How do normal fags talk endlessly about stupid shit that doesn't matter?
Anybody else feel like they're good looking, like a solid 7/10...
yes autism is worse than being ugly
I've been told I'm literally male model tier. I overheard some girls at college say "he'd be hunky if he wasn't so weird"
I don't know OP i wish i had a solution for our situation. I've been called everything from handsome to super cute to stud, but it doesn't really mean much when you're on the spectrum. Normalfags don't understand you can't just "learn" to be social when your brain is literally not wired to make those connections. At best you can learn what NOT to do and maybe work with that.
Try being an autistic manlet.
Everyone has told me I'm good looking my whole life but I dont have any motivation to put effort into my looks or maintain them. I'm not good looking enough to have ever been approached by a girl.
I feel like I have what it takes to be pretty attractive but I have a few things holding me back, mainly my bad habit of skin picking and my weak chin which I plan to get surgery for one day
Not on the spectrum myself but I feel like I understand you guys better now. When you say you can't learn it, it doesn't mean it will be a bit challenging it's actually factual. Good looks can take you extremely far, where you just reciprocate and it's a done deal. If you don't know how to though it's pretty much useless. Not the best apology but it's like you were given a Lamborghini that is manual. Beautiful exterior that attracts a ton of attention and makes people want to know more about you and think highly of you. It's pretty much fucking useless though if you can't learn to drive it (driving navigating a conversation with a girl).
Yeah it sucks, I had always been pretty attractive and got comments for it, I'm tall, have nice eyes etc. I can tell women found me intriguing but autism is a helluva drug, some chick can approach you and then you can basically watch the interest fade from her face as you start to talk and she realizes she's made a huge error of judgement. Or when I get a match on tinder, sometimes they even message me first, then I send a message. Unmatched.
Now I'm balding so my body finally caught up with me. In a way it's freeing.
Explain how it's freeing? You don't think you'll regret never having used your luck?