Grab a drink and share what's on your mind.
Friday night feels bar thread
Camden Ross
Liam Morris
Im tired of being looked/stared at while showering in the gym. Its not even an insecurity thing, just rude as fuck should I Karen mode and complain about it? Idk, might just shower at home.
Connor Mitchell
reposting from yesterdays thread
every day i wake up ashamed to be myself
i am not in school, and my last 2 years of highschool were online due to covid
now i work at a liquor store and my dad is my manager. it is humiliating. i hate the customers, and the music, and i hate myself. i am so embarrassed and humiliated of myself.
i dont know how to fix it. i cant seem to bring myself to do anything like talk to girls, get a new job, or apply for college. i am miserable i cant stand this
Samuel Foster
I hate my sex drive I spent the last two nights instead of being productive snapping some domme girl nudes of myself
I thought I made it but there's a 20% chance it was just a homo larping as a woman, or she's just way too freaky and enjoys torturing me for her amusement and won't be interested in any kind of relationship. I don't know if she might dox me for fun if I tell her it's not gonna work out
also I fucking fat fingered it yesterday and sent one to my buddy and it's fucking embarrising. at least I hope he was mirin
Noah Stewart
I want you to invest a little bit in stocks investments. Pick a company or industry that you like and follow it. Seeing yourself progress in terms of finance gains or overall information could give a dopamine response. By the looks of reading this, worth the shot fuck it right?
Juan Jenkins
>be me, never watch porn but have trouble with masturbation habits
>almost had sex 2 times
>couldn't get it up either time
>nothing changed since then, think it might be tied to fapping, this is a constant source of anguish for me
>fapped last wednesday
>right after this girl invites me and some friends to a barbecue happening tonight
>same girl has been showing interest in me
>just found out her parents aren't home
What do I do, I'm fucking terrified. This girl is hot and there's a chance she'll make a move on me. I'm not ready for this but I don't know if I'll ever be
Luke Williams
>live in-between two fairly large metropolitan areas in my state. So still, technically in the country.
>on tinder, not getting any matches.
>Decided lowering dating radius might help exposure, so do that.
>all of the women are either fat, black, trashy with gaudy tattoos, overly politicized interested in 'activism', have a weird sexuality like "pansexual", or various combinations of such.
Jesus Christ, I knew it could be bad but this is horrific. I swipe left on literally 80% of the girls I come across, and the off chance I do see someone appealing I never match. I don't feel my standards are uniquely high either. Just don't be fat, don't be trashy and post pics of yourself flicking off the camera, and don't seem like you'll lecture me on BLM and LGBT when going on a coffee date. Please for the love of God tell me the demographics of women are different on other apps.
The amount of suffering I endure living in the rural southern US is off the charts. Give me some coke and rum to drown my sorrows bartender.
Jordan Walker
Had a 7 day NOFAP streak until this morning. Last night I had a dream in which I was rewatching porn vids that I've already seen but in the dream decided that I wouldn't masturbate and turned off my phone.
When I woke up I felt proud of myself but then beat off twice. I feel like my brain is just fucked and I'll never rewire it from having such a high priority on pornography.
Going forward I'll be waking up earlier to cardio and get more calories in. I already miss that motivating sense of dread that comes with NOFAP.
Oh also I got one semester of computer engineering left and the jobs I've applied to have all not gotten back to me. Im thinking about going into cyber because the recruiters all seem super aggressive to hire new contractors but I'd have to learn an entirely new skill set and I would just be discarding 75% of the stuff I spent the last 3 years learning.
Don't have sex with her and tell her that you're more interested in having a committed relationship, not until marriage per day but definitely something long term.
Angel Williams
just do it pussy, if you don't she'll lose interest and it's game over anyway.
Noah Wood
I LOVE FAT GIRLS, AND YOU SHOULD TOO, FAGGOTS.
Nathaniel Wright
no negroid they fucking STINK
Daniel Lopez
Like I said, I don't know if I'll ever be ready for sex at this rate. I'm an adult now, there's not gonna be any "let's wait until a few dates in to have sex". There aren't any girls my age over here that would realistically be ok with that
Alexander Campbell
wrong thread buddy?
Landon Collins
I'm 30 today and friend got me the Any Forums monkey shirt. Best gift ever.
Josiah Sanders
lel that's a good friend, happy birthday user
Brayden Martinez
I'm not interested in having a gf I just want to be able to say I'm not a virgin without feeling like I'm lying my ass off. If I can't get it up I'll probably lose a good friend and maybe some others.
Aiden Nelson
If it's this big a deal for you then hire an escort. I've known people who did this. Didn't change much for them but whatever
Adrian Johnson
bro if you don't fuck them they'll see you as a pussy bitch, it's fucking classic, women have infinite options. You don't have to date the chick to fuck her and if you enter the friendzone you're never leaving.
Easton Rivera
I've wasted so much time. I started lifting at my 24s. 6 years later my body didn't change I'm still the fat weak one. I've been following 5x5 stronglift but it's an infinite cycle of deloading reloading. Right now I just fail to lift 5x5 1pl8 benchpress. I'm pathetic and feel ashamed i didn't make any progress at all. I admit it i took breaks but it was at best 3 months. Abd I'm still struggling at 1 pl8 benchpress. I'm drinking right now and have suicidal thoughts. But i know i will do nothing because I'm a weak coward that can't achieve what I want.
Noah Miller
I'll have a moscow mule with a lot of lime please. Uni coming up in 2 months and I'm excited but kinda nervous at the same time because I've never been terrific at math and I'm about to do a bachelor in compsci but it is what it is. Other than that life's good. Coming up on 6 years with the gf and I'm strong and heavier than ever.
Zachary Martin
I'm happy enough in my relationship but I wish I could fuck around some specific girls I know. Not gonna do obviously, can't control your wants or thoughts, just getting it off.
Nathaniel Barnes
You've been lifting for 6 years and legit can't do 5x5 1pl8? Damn bro, you aren't even doing the program
Hunter Morris
>if you enter the friendzone you're never leaving
Fine by me
Jace Thompson
>tfw not making any progress despite working out 1 hour per day
What do I do?
Mason Robinson
I'm doing the program. At 1.5pl8 i failed 3 times in a row, deload 10% go back up then deloading again
John Adams
gained 7kg in 2 months but it feels like it all went to my stomach. Been making nice progress in the gym but now a lot of my work trousers don't fit
Angel Brown
Some advice: Uni is mostly about networking. Who you know is even more important for STEM when it comes to placements and jobs.
Also do something in your first year that you'd never thought about doing before. Join the Roller Skating society, take up amateur dramatics, join a painting or sculpting class. Early years at Uni are basically when you're only allowed to really push the boat out and have fun.
Tyler Russell
Take some pride in the fact that you are working and making your own money. Start thinking about where you want to be in the future. Do you need to go to college? Trade school? Neither? It's just really important to think of what you want so you can start working towards it. It doesn't need to be specific yet if you have no idea what you want, but you need to position yourself in a way that will benefit you. If there's nothing in particular that you want to be doing then just think about how you can make enough money to thrive.
Benjamin Carter
Not many states come to mind where those criteria would fit. Where are you from exactly, user? Also don't expect to find quality on Tinder. It's like searching for an iPhone 13 in a pile of old Nokias at the junkyard. If you're still in school/uni I suggest trying your luck there. Pick up a sport maybe martial arts or smth. If it really is irredeemable I'd suggest you look into moving somewhere truly rural or at least non-liberal.
William Evans
Okay you need to change from 5x5 to 3x5 instead. What's the progression? Bench will stall faster than other lifts. You may have to switch to microloading the bar like 1lb a time
William Allen
checked
Hudson Johnson
Where were u when anime die
I at home
Phone ring
Anime man is kill
No
Aiden Murphy
I'm not from the US so sadly there aren't as many extra curricular clubs at every tertiary institution. But we have a good amount of socialising events organized at random so I think I'll be fine. I have no troubles with socialising anyway.
Hudson Phillips
Other lifts are also no good. I'll try 3x5.
Xavier Brooks
I'm from the UK so I don't know what American Unis have. Either way take whatever opportunities is all I'm saying. I knew too many who waited until the end of Uni to do that and it fucked them
Colton Sanchez
I'm slowly starting to fall back into old habits and it sucks. I've been spending way too much time on social media and liking pictures of fat hoes.
I've been pretty good about doing resistance training in the morning and going for daily walks for an hour, but the during the rest of the day I get sidetracked hard. It's been cutting into my time pursuing my creative endeavors (music, video editing, etc). Need more willpower.
Cooper Parker
Why do you talk like a retarded person? Must be from UK or ESL, possibly both
John Hall
On holiday right now so I have been finally learning to swim, feels good. Other than that it’s the usual shit , I see multiple chances to approach women and maybe at least have a fun exchange but since I’m a pussy that hates himself I would rather drink and fap in my room. I know it’s all on me but I can’t figure out how to escape this spiral. Anyway thanks for ready my blog, hope you lads are doing good.
Asher Robinson
>a guy from my gym invites me to his friend's party
>party probably full of qts
>finally a chance to meet new people
>I turn down saying I have things to do
>I don't really have anything
>I'm just extremely retarded and anxious to be surrounded by people who know each other but I don't know anyone
>Fear of being like pic related
Fuck bros, being retarded and social anxious is exhausting.