How do i stop being >pic rel?
>be me, 24
>software dev
>code my own project all day every day
>no reason to go out because i get money from crypto
>no reason to do anything really
>getting up in the morning is basically impossible because my dreams will forever be better than my life
>wish i could sleep forever
what do?
What are your dreams?
kill yourself
they're most often just dreams where i have a family, a wife and kids, theres an overwhelming feeling of being loved and accepted but its all gone when i wake up
Fuck...
Bumping for answers user
Thats a very attainable goal spend a few years looksmaxxing and getting in amazing shape and practicing talking to girls and youll eventually be able to get your dream gf
Pursue the dream, you got the cash now. Treat life like a video game and build your character. You start now
Drop a thread in a week of your regrets from action, it will be a better thread than this one, one of no action. And you will be a better man
>Go forth and rise space cowboy, you have permission
if you develop any sort of discipline, any at all, you'll almost instantly feel better about having done something you didn't want to do.
this is that shit that as a kid you think is the most bogus shit an adult ever tries to teach you. almost like they're lying. "what's the point of living unless you're happy? i don't wanna do that shit if it doesn't make me happy." because your idiot brain thinks that if the direct action doesn't make you happy, it isn't worth doing.
The thing they were trying to teach you is that doing a thing you don't necessarily enjoy doing right now rewards you with something infinitely more valuable later, and makes you almost 10 times as happy as any fleeting action like jerking off or eating can give you.
literally, suffer the pain of discipline or suffer the pain of regret. you're at this point of regret without realizing it. you are tired, unhappy, unsatisfied, dopamine receptors are fried, and now you don't know what to do, because all those little things you used to do don't make you happy anymore. you might has well kill yourself now, right? wrong. literally right now, go do a thing you would never see yourself doing. go roller skating at a local rink on some rentals, go fucking play basketball even though you're shit. pick up skateboarding if you've never tried. talk to someone you never talk to and try to have a real ass conversation with them. you're going to learn very quickly just how comfortable in your own misery you were, and how exhilarating doing literally ANYTHING you have never done before can be. you almost feel like a kid again. then you're going to want to get good at whatever that thing is. a brand new outlet.
this was initially what brought so many newfaggots to this board like 12 years ago. realizing their lives were shit, they looked like shit through a lack of discipline, and actively sought to rid themselves of these weaknesses. roids or no, they wanted change. and a lot of them were successful.
the thing is, im not ugly, i have a gf
but the feeling is simply not there - were together 4 months now but i haven't said "I love you" yet simply because i don't feel it, and I'm afraid I never will, that i'm simply incapable of love
i wake up and im an empty shell
You're probably like this due to lack of purpose, and/or you are disinterested in your current occupation. Also seems pretty clear that you don't interact with other people in real life much. Fix those two things
This is ultimate truthpill
thanks user, its 1 am here so i cant simply go do something outside my house but ill try it
i like my job, but the lack of purpose is definitely there
but then again, why would i ever have purpose? all of this is ultimately meaningless, makes no difference if I die today or in 25 years
Don’t waste her time and find someone you will love, she will want the same. No girl wants to be with a man that doesn’t love her, even though it happens often. And you will both be immensely happier
why would i ever have purpose? all of this is ultimately meaningless, makes no difference if I die today or in 25 years
Then kys today. (You won't)
I gotta go do shit, life drives passion when you look for it. But if anything user you’re not hopeless or a bumbling idiot. You’re at a low point. You’ve gotten dubs almost every post, as arbitrary as it sounds in this moment the universe is showing ME you are blessed in this moment. I wasted the time writing this just to mention it. And I feel it. Go do something blessed, it’s in you whether you believe it or not, faggot.
killing myself would also be meaningless
literally nothing matters, might as well just keep "trying" to live each day but doing an ultimately very shit job at it
>its 1 am here so i cant simply go do something outside my house but ill try it
doesn't have to be something outside if you don't want it to be, but be patient with it if you want, but get it in your head that you literally NEED to do something you don't want to to be happy later.
is this how you train discipline? by finding things you know you need to do & won't enjoy and then doing them? how long should i be doing them before i can go back to things i like?
i could right now at least clean the kitchen
>is this how you train discipline? by finding things you know you need to do & won't enjoy and then doing them?
The idea is that you're going to do it eventually, so it might as well be right the fuck now.
dirty kitchen? go clean it. it'll suck because you've let shit build up for so long, but immediately after you'll sit down, take a look at it and go "fuck this is nice." then the idea will be that you just don't let it get to this point again in the future. you'll realize that every fucking time you say "meh i don't feel like it" that if you just did it, it would be less and less work every fucking time you need to do it. that's building discipline. all those little things will take less and less time out of your day, to leave you with time to do other things you enjoy as well.
thanks user, ill simply go clean the kitchen and then go to bed instead of staying up late, hope thatll be good enough first steps
the satisfaction you'll feel from it not only tonight but the morning after will be a reminder of why you bothered. trust me.
good luck broski. we all gonna make it.
Well, what do you want to do faggot? Stop letting others decide your reality. Most people do this and end up cogs in the machine of life. Is that how you want to live and die? as nothing? For God sake, be honest with yourself.
>I want beautiful women
Then go figure out how to get them. Women are easily manipulated
>I want a high status job
Then work for it. Destroy others if that's what it takes. The world favors the strong.
>I want a great body
Then work for it. Stop putting your heart and soul into things that don't matter to you but what others say is the "way out" (that includes me)
Ultimately you must answer to yourself at the end of the day. Did you achieve what you wanted to? Did you maximize your potential? No? Then go get it retard.