Do you pick the girl or does the girl pick you? I really don't get the dynamic

Do you pick the girl or does the girl pick you? I really don't get the dynamic.

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doesn't matter either way for virgin incels like you

>also reported

you pick the girl, how often do girls ask you out?

If u wanna be a perma virgin you live with the thought that girls will pick you

>no thanks
>yes i'd love to
Sounds like they have the final decision

Unless you're literally a 6'4 chad with handsome face, a good body and a ton of money + radiating confidence. Girls really approach, you just gotta shoot your shot til you run into a girl that picked you

>you just gotta shoot your shot til you run into a girl that picked you
How do you not kill yourself after 1000 rejections though?

It's unironically exactly like the animal kingdom. You work to make your feathers as beautiful as possible, then you strut and dance in front of the girls until one of them picks you.

Your goal is to make your feathers and dance high value enough that you have access to the best females. Otherwise, men just settle for the best they can get.

Most of the time girls will pre-approve you to make the first move so In reality they’re really making the first move but you have to be the one to approach

True, but usually the girl is already sending signals or responding positively to early, subtle advances before the man makes his move. Like if I see a girl I may be interested in and I test the waters and the feedback is positive, that's when I decide if I want to actually shoot my shot or not.

>How do you not kill yourself after 1000 rejections though?
Don't give a shit
Also work on yourself so you don't get rejected 1000 out of 1000 times

Women have more at risk because you might not stick around. Even if they say yes and get attached, you can and may fuck off very easily. As a man, single at 35 is doable, but as a woman, this needs to be avoided.

It's easy to think they are the deciders, but they have more at stake, and thus are more selective.

>Also work on yourself so you don't get rejected 1000 out of 1000 times
I cannot work out my height or face.

This is true. I’ve rejected plenty who wanted a relationship because I wasn’t feeling them like that. It takes two to be in a relationship at the end of the day

>I cannot work out my height or face.
Then max out everything about you, game, body, wealth, how you dress, money, etc
People who think it is only height/face that's holding them is usually lying about how unattractive their other parts are

That’s exactly how you minimize rejection. You send out feelers and look for feedback before asking out

You are right but the other parts take years and years to develop, e.g. building a truly Any Forums physique or getting an education plus career going. And then what? I can get some used-up ex-whore at 28 while I built everything on years of loneliness?

Girls are never gonna live up to your expectations of them, nor will they ever love you like you visioned. Just be the best man you can be and fuck whatever is available

This is not even beta anymore.

How about you work on yourself and date a few women yourself, before you complain about your non existence waifu?

My current gf had 3 relationships before me while I had dozens of women before I met her, we're in our late 20s.

I knew right away that she was unexperienced. But she's the kind of cute I know from my two long term relationships. Innocent, cooks for me, washes my things, gives me the feeling I can just trust her, without me needing to tell her to do x or y so and so.

She also has her own job and circle of friends and apartment, so I know she's not about the money or attention.
>tfw qt 3.14 azn gf

Sage and hide

>How about you work on yourself and date a few women yourself
I cannot date a few women because I first have to work on myself which takes years until I am actually enough. That's the dilemma.

if you'd really been rejected 1000 times, you wouldn't be asking
by the time you've had 100, you become immune and realize there are too many fish in the sea to eat them all

You can take the first steps, which are really just making sure you have your shit together and that should already be sufficient.

>you have your shit together
I am in college right now getting a bachelors and then want to go for a masters. I will be 28 by the time I am finished and can get a career going. How am I supposed to have my shit together NOW?

>How am I supposed to have my shit together NOW?
Because you're bitching on Any Forums instead of working on yourself, I was in the exact same position not too long ago and did the exact same shit and people around me tried to help me but all I did was nothing and bitch

honestly pretty pathetic