How we holding up guys, nearly at a month now.
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i was gonna go to the gym but i smoked weed instead
Pretty easy.
I found a simple tip on an alcoholics forum. Whenever I feel my mind wandering towards liquor, I remind myself that I don't drink.
It has worked so far.
28 days no weed. Pretty proud of that. I've been stoned from.18 till 33. Dreams are becoming wilder. Booze is not an issue for me but I hope you find strength in others struggling with you
I'm in a gulfie cunt so it's not hard. The gf sent me a bottle of vodka and honestly I look so good and my gains are coming so easily I haven't even touched it. I did break down last night devour two pieces of pie. Going into the desert to tan and spend it the rest of the afternoon at the gym.
I've used basically the same mentality the past year+ (I made my own resolution New Year's 2021). Except for me it isn't about drinking, but about gay sex. I kinda had a breakdown at the end of 2020 and I told a friend, I said "I can't stop thinking about cock even though I know it's wrong" and he said sympathetically "whenever you think about cock, just tell yourself you're not gay." So I tried it. I'd think about penis and sticking it in my ass or sucking it, and I'd tell myself "you're not gay, you're not gay" and then later "you're not a faggot, fags go to hell and you're NOT a fag." Most of the time, it DOES work. Sometimes it will not, like one time at a bar there was a little mexican twink and I couldn't stop thinking about this little spic's cock and I ended up sucking it dry and later he gave me a prostate orgasm but aside from that particularly degenerate event, the year was a success. Point is, stick with it, but don't blame yourself if you have a couple moments of weakness. The point is to make progress, not get it perfectly right off the bat. I believe in you.
In my defense tho, the Mexican twink was feminine in appearance so I consider it a victory desu. I had sex with a woman at the end of 2020 who kinda looked like him so, ultimately a step in the right direction.
Almost 400 days now. Life is so much better.
We’ll done user
1 year pot in March
1.5 years no alcohol
Good luck doods.
it has been 3 years since i've consumed any recreational drugs/alcohol
im still a fligu gigu turbo ultra mega coomer gooner though
I just wanted to post this.NALTREXONE, cravings stopped IN THE FIRST HOUR, all the years of fighting are over. you'll just feel weird for a few days. it changed my life.
been sober for 24 years :)
Wouldn't it be nice to have a drink right now?
user…I….. you’re gay.
I've had 3 non-drinking days so far this year. I'm 21 and get through almost 2 bottles of wine a night. It's over.
You sound extremely gay. It's like you have literally zero interest in girls.
I sometimes have gay masturbation fantasies too (especially when I feel like shit) but I still don't feel attracted to men in real life and felt good having sex with women. At most, I might be a bit bisexual. You, on the other hand, actually had sex with men and enjoyed it. That's what makes you full on gay.
It'll be 3 years in March
Keep going, it's worth it
Sure, sure, I hear you. None of us are gay either ;) ;) ;)
Having an isolated homosexual experience doesn't make you gay. I should know I have had dozens and I am straight as an arrow
Today is 4 weeks no drinks. Gym 6x a week (4 lift, 2 cardio). Eating clean and for macros. Up at ~7:15 or so every morning. It's crazy how all it really takes to turn shit around after the holidays is one month. WAGMI
How is it over? There are people who drank on a daily basis for fucking years and still found a way out. Have you even tryed quitting?
If being a coomer is the only big problem then you’re doing a really good job and should be proud of yourself