To be selected by a decent woman, a man has to place himself as high as he can in the status hierarchy.
I work from home and live alone. I have a reasonable income and live in a nice place in a big city.
My biggest issue is that im still perceived as low status because most people don't understand my job (so they don't know how much I make), and I don't deal with people, so nobody has reference of where I stand in my job's hierarchy.
I'm ugly, and I workout. I don't have friends and my social skills are going downhill from living/working alone.
In the last few months I realized that i'm not even playing the status game, i'm outside, disenfranchised. But I know that if I don't play, I won't find a worthy female partner. I make money, I can't leave my job or the city right now, and I few cornered because of it. Help!
What are your goals? Do you see yourself as competing with other men for women? If so, you want to compete with other men in the male social heirarchy and ignore women. Men do not define themselves verse women, they define themselves vs each other. Long story short, make male friends and then lead them willingly. If you're not a fat, join a team sport.
Probably though you dont want to compete with other men (because men are competitive). In that case, you just want to be seen as valuable to women in women's eyes. The best way to do this is to buy them shit, so basically, just go on dates.
Brayden Hill
Man i just read a newsarticle that i guy i went to school with got bought out with his company for a hefty 1bn € earlier this year.
Uff….that was kind of a shock. Article full with picture of him and his business partner.
Thats an awful feeling i tell you
Justin Williams
Interesting. Ive been considering starting my own parallel hierarchy, in something im good at, just to participate in something social, and position myself well. Sports are a good idea.
Im not focused in pleasing woman, i just stated the fact that to be attractive you have to be perceived as high status
Leo Foster
Why feel jealous? I would feel happy to know someone like that. Your life circumstances were probably completely different aside from attending the same school. Comparing yourself to him is pointless.
Jose Thompson
One more thing, i dont use social media, and i feel im too lonely and my life is to boring to share my life publicly
Carson Evans
for women, to be perceived as high status, you have to be a pay pig. for men, to be perceived as high status, you have to be a leader. take your pick. paying for sex is a tale as old as tail, the female social heirarchy is materialistic, exclusively, and although fun to dabble in, is not worthy of a life's work. if you just want a woman in your life, find a woman you have desire for and then tell her what to do. most women are extremely compliant and will give you whatever you want if you tell them what to do. it sounds like this is more what you're looking for and you should try it out.
Elijah Brooks
>* i'm NOT ugly lmao, im average looks
Andrew Lopez
In your framing, women will do what you tell them if they perceive you as equal or higher status then they are.
And just to be clear, im talking about good women, not trash
Daniel Gray
>I won't find a worthy female partner A lot of the issues come down to this. Women are looking for too high a status male, but often men are also. You are going to need to look lower. Likely lower economic scale and education scale more than anything else. That waitress, fast food employee, that sort of thing.
Decent person, but otherwise 'low' status. That has been the traditional way that men found mates, but looking at lower status females and lifting them up. You don't have to compromise on character, but you probably need to compromise on economic (and protect yourself first).
