What is it with these two countries that produces the most educated, well adjusted, highest income earning...

I will tell you why.

So during indian independence there was this seething dalit shudroid who was so butthurt by brahmins that he introduced 10% affirmative action for dalits in govt jobs and colleges to "equalise" the field. Now a recently indepent nation with economy of Somalia implementing socialism /social justice of Scandivanian nations is bound to fail. This above affirmative action in elite indian govt colleges has risen to 70% now , with 10% reservations for femoids now.
The average general category/upper caste hindu male is not respected in his own nation. Indian govt/republic is the most kiked govt after usa ,it hates its cultural heritage ,hates hindus and tries ti be excessively socialist at the expense of its 1% tax paying population, which again, happens to be the middle class savarna hindu populace

Dajoos actually value their meritorious people, when people from israel go outside for higher studies they return to contribute back. Average indian hindu male has no incentive to do so.

In short ,india disrespected the brahmins ,kshatriyas and vaishyas ,and now it faces the results.

Because you need to be extra talented to make it out of those places.

And then here's the worst part, rather than letting us, the citizens whose tax dollars are being spent for this whole charade, benefit; they find ways to agitate us, attack us, provoke us, and destabilize us.

It's truly and utterly fucking stupid.