Why is self inserting supposed to be a bad thing?

why is self inserting supposed to be a bad thing?

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you're supposed to self insert to yourself, not to somebody else

because it's adjacent to roleplaying, and only mentally ill faggots and furries roleplay

There's a common disconnect because most self inserters are losers in their 20's but most self inserts are teenagers living their own ideal life
t. self inserts as the dad from dagashi kashi

It's emotionally retarded. That's how children learn empathy, not empathy itself. "How would you feel if he did that to you?" and the like.

It's just a stupid buzzword to try and troll you for liking something, same as "wish fulfillment"

i hate authors self insert

>t. self inserts as the dad from dagashi kashi
I kneel...

watch bokumachi, then go archive diving and see the meltdown when the last episode aired. you'll see.

For actual series with stories it's just pretty pathetic, honestly. I only self-insert with porn and usually prefer POV because for this reason why the fuck would you NOT want to be in the drivers seat? Anyone who says they dont is either lying or really just like to watch the act as an outside partt is just a repressed cuck.