Any portugalanons here that can analyze a situation for me? I don't understand women in your culture..
>be somewhere random >ask girl for directions >start chatting >she is CLEARLY flirting >hahah oh user here let me give you my phone number >get her whattsapp >text a bit >ask her out >she goes complete dark mode, blocks me, maybe says no first and then blocks me
wtf is going on? this has happened three or four times
am I missing something? what is going on? I was just in figueira and a girl was practically drooling over me at a coffee shop and then I asked her out later that day and she blocked me...she's the third one this week
Aiden Murphy
Ethnic/Cultural background?
Connor Smith
burger, but darker features, I look med
Daniel Mitchell
You sure you don't look South American?
David Ramirez
no why? just tell me wtf is going on
Benjamin Bell
You're shooting yourself on the foot by texting her If you get a number, you call her and ask her out and talk to her in real life
Hudson Nelson
so is it normal girls ghosting you after some time texting or am I just annoying?
Elijah Roberts
I think it's normal, you should only start texting after you've established some kind of relationship with her Women have dozens of guys texting them all the time.. you don't want to be just one more of them
Noah Williams
Not quite sure. Portugal is still patriarchal in the sense that older men tend to be dominant in relationships and have less expected from them in it although it changes a bit in the newer generations. It seems to me that in these societies women tend to naturally prioritize men that are reminiscent culturally/physically to their fathers. My cousins have never dated a foreigner as far as I'm aware. There's prudish outter behaviour's too, they don't want to be considered easy to get especially here where the Catholic background still hovers, outside of places where girls are there to have a good time and hook-up it will probably remain hard (not impossible). Also call like the other dude said, harder to reject when they get nervous about the concept of first time dating a foreigner. If you're good looking maybe try tinder or something, not sure if you're just out for sex but at least there you can signal that it's a carnal slightly taboo moment for them as opposed to them being concerned they'll fall for you, unless that's what you want, plus they still might anyway
You should always try to meet as fast as possible, why waste your time? If she says no just move on to another. Talk to multiple even. Consider your time more valuable than hers because it is, it's your time, don't stay there ego stroking or trying to sell yourself to her
Jaxon Foster
If you look desperate they ghost you
Jaxon White
thanks for the advice, bros
Josiah Brown
That's normal.... Move on
Nathaniel Rodriguez
You needed to talk with her for 1 month before asking for a date. You'll only get to kiss her on 4th date and sex on 12th if everything goes fine
Ryder White
>text a bit I'm assuming a "bit" meant a lot more than it means for me.
One of the basic rules is that the only purpose of texting is to set up a date. You should pitch the date at the third text exchange. If you give her your attention through text, then she won't feel like meeting you IRL, because she already got what she wanted.
Either way, most girls flake and ghost. Or you set up a date, and they don't show up. Happens a lot. That's why you should be putting the numbers.
Nathan Fisher
>You needed to talk with her for 1 month before asking for a date. >You'll only get to kiss her on 4th date and sex on 12th if everything goes fine Fucking hate this shiet, what country doesn't this happen?
They're not fond of the idea of dating foreigners, generally speaking. Your best bet is going about nightclubbing and scoring there, they don't mind foreigner one night stands