Help needed

Honest advice needed.
I have a wife of 10 years , 2 kids. Shes Very hot too... But boring, very career oriented. Makes approx 150k a year.
I am a fat guy, good job I also make around the same. I was going to cam sites last year and met a Russian girl, we actually talked a bunch, and left the site completely. I still give her occasional money because of sanctions, but it's been a long distant relationship, shes 10/10 on looks, very dumb with money and wants to meet and move to America. I've recently tried stopping talking to her because I just think I'm stupid for investing so much time into this. I'm 36, she's 21
And I have a family.
I can't stop looking at my phone wondering what she's doing. Help me

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Eh, divorce, let the wife take the kids, just make sure you make less so she can't clean you out and go live with russian girl, might as well have fun

Don't fall in love with a whore

Married here, 25 years, one son, and i know what you're going through. You have invested in your wife and family. You obviously love your them to death, so dump the Russian girl. You will not find happiness with her. All you will do is destroy your marriage and children if you pursue the Russian girl any further.

I wish I didn't

Get yourself an account on seeking.com find a Russian girl there and pay her per meet (ppm). It's going to be expensive but at least it will benefit real.

Thank you .. I needed to hear this. Just feel like shit currently, like a highschool breakup I haven't experienced in years

...will be for real*

you are sending her money, so she is pretending to be into you. just ghost her and never contact her again. stay with your wife and just find a hobby

Married 25 yrs, 2 kids. The Russian girl just wants your money and to move to the states.
If you bring her over she will bounce the minute she finds the next ride. You already know this though.

What hobby do you suggest. She has told me she loves me and I've even spoken with her mom, dad and sister. I know it's mostly for money and I accepted that but there are feelings there

you're getting catfished by the FSB, you idiot

this
dont be dumb nigga
the russian girl only sees a big fat greencard
why ruin your life for some russian whore

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1. The ruski is only using you for money. She is a cam girl, they act to attract. Their income depends on flirting for money. You have seen the image she decided to portray in order to get more money out of you. And just cus the talking moved to a more private conversation does not mean anything more than her having an extra cash-pig to get money from.

2. Talk to your fkn wife. Sounds like you have the groundwork laid out for a pretty solid life.
Hot wife, children, dual income household where you both make bank.
If it is just that your wife is "boring", then communicate with the woman. Tell her you want more couple time.

Don't be manipulated by some russian cam whore, who just sees you as easy money. You have a family, work on it. It'll be better in the end.

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YOU have feelings for her. SHE doesn’t have feelings for you. Loving someone who incapable of reciprocating genuinely is never rewarding or normal.

The first time I've seen genuinely true answers. Thanks guys. Been in a shitty mindset past few day

I'd stick with my wife and kids. I've met a lot of eldery people with decades married. And they all said, it was worth it and that they'd do it over again, if they had the chanse

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It will pass. Its cheaper to keep her. On your soul and your wallet. Hang in there, the tide ebbs and flows. The rewards will come when your grandkids arrive and you can see them.
>t. Been There Done That

>Hobby.
Woodworking. Hand tools or power tools. Doesnt matter. Hand tools are safer and more therapeutic. More affordavle too. Hand-planing boards and chiseling mortises will heal your soul as a man.

Russian girl wants a green card and free money. You say very bad with money but that's just an excuse when she has a pay piggy that will fill up her bank account. You will be raked over the coals alone and miserable if you leave your wife. And you have kids to think about, stop abusing yourself with porn and go be social. Get some exercise and stop being fat. No 10/10 russian girl wants your fat ass long term. If you can't see your being played your a dumb nigger.

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