'sup. Need some serious advice - Broke up with a girl who gave me the genital herps. Rarely have outbreaks, male. I am starting a new relationship with that girl who I am having sex with right now - using a condom atm but she wants me to cum inside her and I would love to.
I don't know really how to tell her that I got the herps.. is it even that contagious if you don't have an outbreak? Any experiences how to handle the situation? Just ignoring it would not be an option I guess..
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Most people end up with it and many have no symptoms at least most of the time. If I was you I would consider telling her but you should also know you can spread it while using a condom and it can spread anywhere on your body even into your brain.so dont like rub your eyes after rubbing one out and if you guys end up raw dogging at least wait until you are in the non breakout stages and read online the best way to tell and what to "feel" etc.
> find girl
> genuine feels
> "is a permanent disease really that bad?"
> contemplating spreading it to innocent people
Its a crime, fuckwit. Just because you didn't sue your infector doesn't make you above getting fucked.
Spoken like someone who freely accepts monkeypox into society
Don't be a faggot, tell that shit upfront. Think about how you felt, don't put somebody else through that.
Don't be a cunt. Tell her, only bang her when you're not infectious.
Lots of people have herpes, although most of them are black so I'm struggling to say that it's nothing to be ashamed of.
not OP but the doc called me and said I should get checked. i've never had an outbreak what are the chances i have it?
Thanks for the response. Thing is that I rarely have breakouts. A couple of times a year if even..
But I heard that asymptomatic spread (I also got that shit from a bitch) is real but that men spread that shit way less than women. Stronger skin on the penis presumably.
I am afraid that if I tell her straight away she might get scared.. even if she was even raped once (not even joking)
Dubs of jewry: everything is principally considered in terms of litigious finance.
Is there a way to do an STI test at home or is that bound to a visit at the doctor's?
>even if she was even raped once
Alarm bells should be ringing for you. Loudly.
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So she is not capable to ever be a decent human being and deserve being loved then?
> wtf dude
just let some other sucker love her. Either she's damaged and warped or a liar who will accuse you of something you can't really deny.
The herpes most people have(HSV-1) is a different strain than genital herpes(HSV-2)
Op has HSV-2 and is a diseased freak.
so any creative thoughts towards my situation? Any experienced this shit before?
Yes she got problems but don't we all? I mean.. we are fucking adults. Most of us at least. Show me one adult with no emotional problems who is single around 30yo..
>r
brother, I just got out of a 5 year relationship and im pushing 30. All I gotta say is that you're not alone and it fuckin' feels badman.
Several bumps from the looks of it
>Its a crime, fuckwit
No it's not, you can blame your disgusting liberal friends for that
>Yes she got problems but don't we all?
Not if that problem is herpes, most of us don't have that
i don't know about america, but in canada you can get charged with giving somebody an STD/STI without telling them
> Is it visibly symptomatic?
> Are you two exclusive?? (Important)
> How into this new girl are you - can you handle a breakup if it comes down to it?
Answer these and I’ll see what I can do :)
It's not a crime in america despite most liberals trying to criminalize anything they can
i like those odds.