I'm 18, going to college next year. I've never had friends before...

I'm 18, going to college next year. I've never had friends before, but I want to at least try to make friends in university. Does anybody have tips on getting friends, or getting friendships that last a life time? Like how the fuck do you even start a friendship? is it really as easy as introducing yourself to classmates, and maybe at some point asking if they want to hang out outside of class?

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can't help you out unless you tell me whether you are a nigger or not

When I was in college I’d just walk up to girls and put my hands on them and make them feel really uncomfortable. Then I built a pig shed and the rest was history. Just have confidence.

I was in your spot, but honestly most of my shit is online.

Forced Introducing might make you seem weird. Friendship isn’t really started that way. But a quick intro isn’t a bad thing. That’s why its good when teachers “force” an activity to get people to know each other, because it falls under that guise. Friendship starts by small interactions and rapport That’s built over time until you eventually reach a point of extreme comfortability. So just start with small interactions with people, talk to them casually, crack jokes. But after a while try and get to know people and talk more about each others lives. This can depend tho, some friendships are pure comedy. It’s all on who it is.you’ll be alright user

He said he’s going to college..

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Don’t be a douche, a sperg, or a faggot, and you’ll have friends for days.

In my experience making friends during school, it was never as simple as "hey you seem cool, wanna hang out?" We'd usually get put in a group for a project or something, or we'd find out over time that we had similar interests.
It's hard for me to explain. I didn't have a whole bunch of friends in HS but the few I did have just kinda came naturally.

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If you’re living on campus then you are going to be surrounded by hundreds or thousands of people your age, all looking for new friends.
It will be the easiest thing in the world. There’s no reason to worry about it now.

This pretty much , don’t be autist and walk up to people and say wanna be friends and you’ll be alright

I support this plan. Basically, I reinvented myself for college. The idea was to just behave as I thought a confident, normal person would. I'm only telling you that I've done this to encourage you.

Also join some clubs. If you find an active club with good leadership and a good faculty sponsor or whatever, you can take trips with the other members and do volunteering etc. That will help you make friends. Try the ACM or the honor society. I joined those, so those are the ones I can recommend.

I have kissed men before but I'm no fag

You go to the freshmen introduction and will meet lots of people there. Each of them is in the same position as you and doesn't know anybody.

Just participate in everything. Join the evening party with beer and games. Literally just introduce yourself to people or compliment them, they will all be happy to talk to someone.

Nobody knows you and you know nobody. You can completely start fresh and influence how others perceive you, simply by doing what you do.

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College is easy peasy:
1. Go to orientation and freshie events and meet people
2. Dorm it up, meet peeps in the dorms
3. Join a club for shit you like to do already, or try some. Get friends that way.
4. Try to make friends inside your major in your last 2 years. Do it for generals/humanities for first 2 years.

Also enjoy the yoga pants as much as possible. This will be no greater concentration of hot legal ass than this point in time.

first day of orientation i brought a joint into the quad of guys across the hall from my dorm. that was 9 years ago still good friends with them today.

Here are some key lessons to learn:

1. Each person is the MC of their own story and they are self-absorbed as a result.
a) they will NOT remember little stupid shit about you that you focus on.
b) they will only remember actively offensive things about you: horrible smell, asshole behavior, etc

2. Most introverts are just as scared as you are of meeting/talking. Extroverts won't be, they will be socialites and can help you out.

3. Small talk, despite what "intellectuals" shit on it for, is actually a critical social skill. It lets you talk about minor stuff that is inoffensive and get social grease going for bigger conversations.
a) AVOID POLITICS, guaranteed argument
b) Weather is legit if you do stuff that involves the weather.
c) Get people talking about themselves, and get used to talking about YOURSELF. This becomes important later during interviews when you need to sell yourself to companies.

Hanging out is easy: plenty of options from campus facilities to dorm chill rooms to local shops and stuff.

Also dorms usually have older students acting as floor "moms" or organizers for social events. Get your ass to those and talk to people.

Unless you literally shit your pants, most verbal goofs can be laughed off. Don't go on some sort of racist tirade like it's Any Forums either, unless you are with skinheads.

If you have a poor understanding of how to interact socially I would recommends looking up this crazy old book called “how to win friends and influence people”. It’s a basic guide to how to not be an asshole. Read that book and join a bunch of clubs n practice not being a fucking weirdo. Good luck spergbro

can confirm not a niggie