I don't want to get pegged. I don't want to do fag shit. I don't want to be cucked, have my bank drained, or be farted on.... other than that I really have developed strong femdom fantasies. Being tied up and milked, having her sit on my face, her feet in my mouth. Being tickled, ruined, post orgasm stroked, forced to eat her ass and pussy as it smothers my face. I want to so bad. How do I fulfill this? Should I just stop with these fantasies? Fetflife seems to be overrun with fatties with husband and I want nothing to do with it if another dude is involved.
Femdom General
hire a dominatrix?
lots of them are hot and they'll do all you want with no husbands involved.
do I just google it? Never knew what was involved
Ironically I think you have to a train a girl(friend) to enjoy being a dom, given that they are all naturally subs. Haven’t succeeded in this regard tho so I am just speculating here
sure. why not just start with a websearch in your area and see what comes up.
if youre on fetlife, you might be able to ask some people from your area about services there.
or if where you live there's a local 'red light district', you can head over there and start asking questions.
I agree. I have tried a bit but my gf just loves to be dominated
good point
good luck
also: didnt realise you had a girlfriend. please dont keep things from her if youre planning on seeking out stuff. communicate communicate communicate
Checked.
I feel like she will judge me
Maybe have her ride you and choke you. That is super hot imo and doesnt take any preparation. I feel like it just has to click, and the feeling of power and sadism may or may not be intoxicating for her. ymmv of course.
I don't want to get pegged. I don't want to do fag shit. I just want to suck a cock. (no homo).
I could try that. Now we do some post orgasm stuff and she seems to love that. So maybe I just need to push it a bit more
I know you said you’re not into having your finances drained, but I’m asking this here since I assume some of the guys on this thread might have some experience with this… this pawg wants to make me her paypig. What should I do?
Avoid, unless you are getting unbelievable sex and you have the funds to do it.
Be really careful, man.
I met a chick off Fetlife and she literally ruined my life.
It was my first real relationship and she took complete advantage of me. Had me carving her name into my leg because she got upset, giving my whole paycheck, and having me say I was inferior to every single person.
None of this was play, it was a crazy bitch taking advantage of an innocent mind.
Yeah, that wouldn’t be happening. She said I’d be in chastity but I know she’s real (I know her irl and she isn’t like a pro-domme or sex worker or anything).
Is she a friend or something?
The community is rampant with abusers
My domme forced me to wear a chastity device that was the wrong size for over 100 days because “she knew better than I did. was into femdom longer” and it fucked up my dick
Make sure to have proper conversations about consent and if she crosses any boundaries, dip the fuck out
Fagshoe
that is all
I have asked some really hot hookers to slap me before and they normally just responded with a bit of a tap, I don't think they understood that I wanted them to punch me full force and break my nose. I grew out of it though, if I asked my wife to do it she'd , I think she'd laugh
Not a friend, just someone I happen to know. She approached me about it because she knows I don’t really have any other relationships or whatever (and I guess I radiate submissiveness).
She made it clear it would be manipulative and stuff and she’d only be doing the chastity and other Domme type stuff “to keep me weak so she can take everything”. And I know all the things you’re saying are really crucial and any sane person would run from her proposal, but the idea that it would become really shitty for me makes it even more of a turn on. It’s fucked
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Jesus He Fuck she's hot!
Is she open to new subs/cucks right now?
That REALLY isn’t how these things should go. Every cell in my body told me to not go into her house the first time I met her but I did anyway.
Two years later and I’m terrified to leave my house, feel inferior to everybody, constantly fantasize about suicide, and am fucked up completely relationship/sex wise
I’m just saying be careful. You can find someone who does that shit to you but still cares about you as a person
Pics related, the ex domme getting pissed at me for downloading Snapchat to get her drugs
Another pic after I finally gained the courage to leave
*getting pissed at me downloading SnapChat to get her drugs. The reasonable reaction to that was to have me carve her name into my leg
I doubt she’d do it with someone she doesn’t know irl. Like I said, she isn’t a pro or anything
You’re 1000% right man. I know how stupid I am for not just blocking all contact with her immediately. But I just can’t bring myself to not be a bitch for her. Even post nut clarity which usually snaps me out of it isn’t doing shit