I have friends, I go out with people, I work out
yet i still feel bad because no gf
what am i doing wrong ?
I have friends, I go out with people, I work out
Dont worry about it having a gf fucking sucks you arent missing out
One of my closest friend has a beautiful girlfriend and they look very happy together.
doesn't help that I live with 2 hot roommates either
You have standards that dont reflect your level of confidence.
You have strict standards in terms of the weight and looks and breast size and vachina type you are looking for but you lack the confidence to impress that standard of women.
You shouldn't "put the pussy on a pedestal" But at the same time you exude weakness and fear around women.
If you were good looking you wouldn't need the confidence but because you're probably average, your lack of confidence is like a cloud of fart smell that pushes all women you find attractive away from you
Quality.
what's being confident in a real situation ? I talk with attractive girls like I do anyone else
you're right about the standards I completely ignore girls I don't find attractive
what do you mean
If you're trying to get a gf you're more brave than me, with all the cheating women are doing I can't trust one
you know how you have expectations from women?
They have expectations from you. You're not meeting those expectations or you're misreading their signals.
have you tried being less of an aspie?
have the same problem btw and getting rejected left and right and getting ghosted all the time is doing a number on me now
I'm not full out hunting for a gf you know what I mean, I'm not using tinder or anything, just interacting with girls I meet outside. That's how I want it to be I want it to happen naturally.
I'm actually doing pretty good socially these days compared to what I used to. I think before talking and I'm more laid back. Girls do hang out with me but we never get to the next stage.
The thing you are doing wrong is to want a girlfriend.
>Girls do hang out with me but we never get to the next stage
yeah same, I guess we gotta be more aggressive in that regard
not in a creepy incel kinda way ofc
You’re the type that will always feel bad, about something
Exctly
Hacing a girlfriend is a shit. Abd you crey because you have no girlfriend. So, ENJOY!!
Basing your happiness on the idea that a perfect girl exists for you. Why do men do this? Why do they idolize bitches so fucking much? Why do they feel they need them to feel whole? I have a gf of 4 years and have been dating king term since 15. At times it is nice to have someone but don’t chalk it up to be the key to everything. Also, post a picture. If you are poor, ugly, and have autism it won’t matter if you are fit and social. Those two things should be mandatory.
I'm not rich but the girls I speak to aren't either
I admit I'm not handsome, I guess I'd describe it as a "military face" if you get the idea. Kind of stern / rigid face
There's no perfect girl I don't know where you're getting that idea from. Doesn't mean you can't feel comfortable with someone.
Ok so they are terrified of if you probably.
well shit then.
I had one (1) gf in my life and she used to tell me I was scary.
Just shut up and smash the pussy and leave the bitch.
What's this GF obsession about?
It seems to be the root cause of your suffering.