Let's hear some family stories, I'll start
>be me, only child to single mother
>she's always on my case about something
>lately constantly nagging me about my weight, but she's overweight herself and just projecting her insecurities onto me
>eventually I create a list where I subtract points whenever she pisses me off and add points when she does something nice
>The final number will determine how much support she gets from me when she becomes old and feeble
>she's already in the negative
>one day she pisses me off so much that I reveal it all to her and tell her that she has to do a lot of work to even get put into a bad senior home at this point
>I'm her only family so she will have to rely on me when she's old
>this was two days ago and she hasn't spoken to me since
>at least she's not nagging me anymore tho right Any Forumsros?
Let's hear some family stories, I'll start
>be me, only child to single mother
>never meet my real dad
>mom told me he dipped before i was born
>im pretty sure theres more to this story
>live in a trailer with my mom until like 3 years ago
>my mom was always bringing random dudes from myspace or plenty of fish over
>vividly remember hearing her having sex in the next room over when i was like 10/11
>mom openly smoked cigs and weed and drank constantly around me
>be 20
>mom meets some dude off the internet
>"i actually like this guy"
>turns out hes actually a really decent guy, works hard, clean cut, etc
>they end up married
>i move in with them
>every fucking day of my mothers life is a goddamn lie constantly making my step dad think shes been a decent person her entire life when in reality she was a neglectful piece of shit
>have my own baby now
>motivated to not be a fuckup like my mom
>baby dad moves in with us but he works all day/night
>my mom promises to help me with the baby
>she never does and just spends all her time and money taking trips too the casino with her boomer group
feelsbadman
Your mom just keeps winning at life, fuck that's gotta hurt.
I don't think this was right user. At the end of the day you guys only have each other and should try to have a discussion instead of going to the point of no return.
she doesnt deserve any of it.
There's even more shit i left out.
>lost my virginity to my moms weed dealer at 16. he was 32 (its legal here dont worry) dont really regret it but at the same time i do think its sus and part of me thinks my mom knew
>she didnt give a fuck when i started smoking weed
>she was clueless and didnt even notice when i started using hard drugs
>when she found out i was sexually active she giggled about it and just took me to get an IUD instead of trying to tell me to keep my legs shut
>when i dropped out of highschool she outright said "its your problem, you figure it out" and made no effort to make me go back to school or get clean
>never once gave a fuck who her 14/15/16/17 yo daughter was hanging out with
>lived in squalor in our trailer
literally my step dad is the only person thats ever been like a parent to me. hes the only reason i got clean, the only reason i developed healthy hobbies, only reason i got my life together. without him i prob woulda been overdosed or literally a hooker (or dead) by now or just rotting in jail.
literally everyday im terrified my mom is gonna fuck up and either piss him off so he kicks us out, or cheat on him because shes a dumb bitch.
i wanna tell him the truth about the piece of shit person she is but at the same time im afraid if i do he'll dip and hes the only source of stability in my life now, plus me, my bf and our baby all live in my step dads house so, at least for a year or so until we can buy our own house.
Tits or gtfo roastie reddit refugee nobody gives a fuck about your life problems
>reddit refugee
ive never used that shitty tranny site in my life.
>nobody gives a fuck about your life problems
thread is literally called family stories u fucktard.
She really doesn't. It's pretty fucked up, and I'm not sure she realizes how lucky she has it. Not to be a dick, but more than likely you will try to be civil and have your child build a relationship with her. Grandma basically gets to roll the dice again and develop a good relationship, kind of what my grandma did with me.
Your mom hot or something? This is pretty much the betabucks scenario that this place always mentions.
> Not to be a dick, but more than likely you will try to be civil and have your child build a relationship with her.
i hoped so actually. i was hoping that me having a kid and us all living here together would give my mom a chance to actually do the grandma/nurturing thing for real and maybe build a real relationship with us... but she doesnt. she works all day, half the weeks he goes out to friends houses or takes bus trips to casinos on the weekend. she barely pays attention to me or my daughter or my step dad for that matter.
for her age, yeah shes not bad looking honestly.
Goddamn, I would be livid if I were you. She can't do wrong, at least not punished for anything. I really wish I was hot, the power a person holds is nuts.
How is your relationship with your step dad? You guys really close? Even though you're older does he try to make time to father/daughter time?
>How is your relationship with your step dad?
good like i said hes the closest thing to a actual parent ive had.
>You guys really close?
yep, when i was getting sober he really was there with me and helped me through it and it 100% made us super close.
>Even though you're older does he try to make time to father/daughter time?
yeah. he has a cabin in the alleghenies and we used to go up there to go kayaking and hiking pretty regularly. tho last year i did some jail time for some shit and then this year i was preggers so i havent gotten up there as much as id like.
>be me
>physically and mentally abused by ultra fanatic Christian mom
>hits me, corners me screaming, hits me with objects
>develop severe anxiety
>always the weird kid no friends
>couldn’t go to normal church
>always at some weird persons apartment
>they all speak in tongues and fall on the floor like crazy people
>mom makes me go 6 hours every Saturday
>if I don’t go she grounds me
>can never relate to her, every time I go to her with my problems she just tells me Jesus will solve it
>just wanted her love, not an answer
>get mentally worse
>turn 18
>inherit what dead dad left me
>over 300k
>buy an apartment and move out
>mom says I need to help her with bills because I owe her
>love my mom so I give her access to the account
>mental health gets worse and I get baker acted
>put in some psych ward
>mom sells my apartment to buy a shitty trailer
>mom blows my inheritance
>confront her
>”it’s just gone, there were expenses”
>realize how dumb I was for giving her access to the account
>just wanted to take care of her and provide for my family and I trusted her
>she gets terminally ill
>I take care of her
>clean her, feed her
>she looks worse every day
>tells me she should have been a better mother
>says there was so much more she should have done for us
>watch her die in her bed gasping for air with a pained look on her face
>the image never goes away
>see it whenever I close my eyes
>get mentally worse
Now I’m just a bundle of anxiety and mental issues due to trauma and my childhood. I feel worse every day. I should have a shit ton of money from the property I owned but instead I’m a rent slave because she fucked over my chance at financial freedom. Sometimes I want to hate her but I know her childhood was worse than mine so I can’t blame her too much. I already forgave her but I hate feeling so hopeless and defective because of what she did to me. I can’t look in the mirror without feeling worthless and broken
seems like shitty moms is a common thread here.
That's too bad, does your mom realize how great the guy is or is he a dime a dozen to her? Also, does he take an interest in your child?
>That's too bad, does your mom realize how great the guy is
i think she does but at the same time she still treats him like shit. shes just a shallow person user
>does he take an interest in your child?
kinda but he usually doesn't get home from work until like 10 at night, and by then me, boyfriend, and baby all usually passed the fuck out. on the weekends he likes to hang with us though and rock her and shit. hes def more caring of a person than my mom is. my mom is just cold. maybe its the shit she been through in life, or the fact that she had me young and didnt get to do the typical shit (then again nether did i for different reasons) but whatever it is shes just never been warm to me.
>she still treats him like shit. shes just a shallow person user
Mind explaining these 2 points?
she just doesnt spend as much time with him as she should. she snaps at him over dumbfuck shit. she doesn't realize how lucky she is. we went from living in a single wide trailer living on like $20k a year to living in a $300,000 house. shes spoiled and a bitch.
Jesus, you guys really upgraded. I'm guessing he would pay for your schooling as well if you were to pursue something? I figure a guy doing this well, owning a home and cabin probably has connections, right?
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> I'm guessing he would pay for your schooling as well if you were to pursue something?
he wouldnt pay outright but he'd prob help me. either way, its not really in the cards. i dropped out of highschool between 10th and 11th grade. i got a prison GED lol. no college is taking me, and even if they did, im not a school person. i thought about going to community college for dental hygiene or something like that, but i decided against it, i dont think i have what it takes honestly.
before i had my baby i was waiting tables for the past year and i did super good. i was making like $600 a week. i plan on taking at least the next year off of work to focus on being a mom. if i go back to work it prob will be waitressing part time again. schools just not in my future user and im okay with that.
> owning a home and cabin probably has connections, right?
he's an electrician i mean i dont think hes connected or anything he just gets paid well. so does my babydad for what he does.
my mom was working at family dollar. i dont think she's worked in like 3 weeks though. she barely picks up hours anymore. shes a fucking parasite.
My mom is a drunk and has been in and out of recovery feels like a dozen times now.
i don't live at home anymore but im the only kid close enough so i get dragged into helping her often and it breaks my heart.
she's a bitch, uses me, "borrows" money, needs help around her condo, sometimes needs me to scare off guys because she attracts super creeps, etc.
she totaled the car i saved up for when i was 17 and pretty sure she nailed at least one of my pervert friends if not more back then. i know for a fact she is not above that and loves attention.
but at the same time i feel obligated to help her. She's my mom, right? i feel like im going to end up stuck like this forever, my siblings want nothing to do with her and our dad vanished over a decade ago.
im gonna end up taking care of her and waiting for her to die and never having my own life, then i feel selfish for even feeling that way.
sorry for blog.
>i dont think she's worked in like 3 weeks
That's gotta be nice, I'm guessing this isn't her only vacation this year either. I'm not sure what jobs you could do as a person with a record tbh. If you're cute, maybe find a way to sell feet pics for footfags as a means for additional income. I don't think your baby daddy would mind selling those kind of pics to help your family out. Something has to be out there for you that can make decent coin and isn't dependant on how attractive you are.