Well Any Forums, i know better than to ask here. However im sure there is a few of you who are legit, trolls will be ignored. Anyways here i go..
So ive been thinking of divorcing my wife. We have been married for 3 years. Together for about a year before that. We have known each other for years before that. We both have 2 kids each. I have 2 boys and she has 2 girls. I love the wife, i do, but theres some stuff that has been going on, that ive tried to address and have no results. And sometimes i think the life of being single sounds better than the bullshit ive been dealing with lately.
I dont want to go into big detail, but some of the problems that we have is that she treats my older son like shit. She looks down on him, she thinks he is a fuck up of a child and that he needs to be perfect. He is mildly autistic (they say on the spectrum, but not to the point of being useless). She doesn’t value him as a boy, much less a human being. I can tell she despises him. And it sickens me. I dont know how to make her like or love him. Like how she expects my to love and care for her daughters. He is treated like the redhead stepchild.
Now her one daughter talks back really bad. And i wont smack her across the mouth because she isnt my kid, but when i punish her, the wife turns around and just undermines what i have done. Neither of the two daughters like living at my house because im strict and dont put up with bullshit or dishonesty. I also set rules, both girls dont follow the rules and there is no repercussions for their actions, but the wife wont follow through with punishments.
Im lost, i dont want to give up, but i dont see it getting better. I cant make her like my son, i cant enforce rules and punishments when they are neglected anyways.
What do i do?
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