Yesterday night I was supposed to go to a club with friends, but I backed out when I found out my ex would be going, and I told her that.
Me: Are you going to the club with everyone? Because if you are I won’t go.
Her: Yeah, likely
Me: Alright good. Look, I know you’re observant, and I know you know what you want, so I’m going to do my best to work on myself to become a better person for myself. I trust that you will see the changes when that time comes.
Her: Okay. But don't let me stop u from having fun. I told u we'd probably run into each other at the club
Me: Yeah that’s cool. I don’t want to ruin each other’s night because we ran into each other.
Her: We won't. You'll be talking to ppl, I'll be talking to ppl
*1 hour later*
Her: U really aren't coming bc of me?
Me: Yeah, I’m not some weird stalker who goes wherever you go. Don’t worry about it.
Her: YOU ARE NOT STALKING Stop bending ur life around me. It's weirder to go out of ur way to avoid me
When I got drunk at the club hours later I texted her this: “Why can’t you just let me disappear???” “It’s the only way I know how to make you happy” The morning after I said “Uh, sorry about the texts last night. I was a bit drunk.” She didn’t respond to either of those. Did I fuck up? Why does she want me to go to where she’s at?
Again? You’re the same fuck that posts about the Venmo thing too I bet. Why do you post fake and dumb shit every day on this board, are you lonely or is there another purpose
she just wants you to stop taking her into consideration so much when it comes to plans and just existing. stop checking in and trying to reassure her that your not going to be a sus guy then proceed to be a sus guy. move on with your life dude. go live your life and if you run into her say hi if it’s appropriate to and like she said dont bend your life around her just because your exes?
Anthony Clark
Here’s what you do. Shut the fuck up. Seriously, just shut the fuck up. Stop talking to her. Leave it the fuck alone.
Jaxon Cook
sorry pal, you're retarded
Jacob Williams
>Why can't you just let me disappear??? That's gonna be some "wake up in a cold sweat" cringe fuel dude. That is so gay
Aiden Taylor
She´s fucking other men and you still communicate with her. You´re her side bitch now.
Jordan Long
You faggots are just gona keep bumping faggot ops reposts all night and day aren't you?
Isaiah Jenkins
Going to the club doesn't serve you or your future. Being around your ex doesn't serve you either, so you're halfway there. But don't wallow around your plans to avoid her. Disconnect from her. Don't reply to texts. You will want to, but resist. Stop dictating your fun around club hopping or whatever it is you do. Read more. If you feel up to it, write more. Find something you can do with your other friends that isn't going to the club. Camping, hunting, axe throwing, golf, poker, lifting whatever. Refine yourself and stop letting a gone woman be the hinges on your door to happiness. You have a great opportunity while you're young to work on yourself in all the best ways. I squandered my time and I worried and I dodged plans under similar circumstances and it's too late for me to "get out there". Don't be like me. Don't succumb to these worries. Become your destiny. Become a man.
If she's your ex, why are you still talking to her?
Sebastian Jackson
Good advice
Christian Nguyen
I’m still attached to her I guess. She dumped me.
Aaron Collins
good fucking christ you’re a pussy. no wonder she left you. drink some concrete and harden the fuck up.
Henry Edwards
What did I say specifically in that exchange makes me a pussy?
William Carter
One my ex says she lesbian now and posts far and tranny propaganda on her Facebook, insta. But she comes over wanting to fuck everytime she gets drunk or high. She says she's never even kissed or flirted with a girl since we broke up last year. But claims she's "attracted to only women" now.
I've given up trying to understand women. Both my exes want to be able to call me up for sex when they're in the mood, but otherwise act like I don't exist. Last time I started getting serious about a girl, my "lesbian" ex started posting pictures of me an her at the bar, saying we were back together. The girl I was into told me I was an unfaithful piece of shit and blocked me.
Jeremiah Rogers
Oh look it's you again.
We already decided you're a loser OP. Go fukken die in a puddle.
Dominic Moore
are you fucking joking? every single thing you say and how you say it is a whole raft of self-flagellating groveling faggotry. not to mention the utter passive aggressiveness of the damn thing.
Elijah Stewart
you sound like a fuckin idiot, dude. just move on and stop acting weird
Tyler Thomas
BASED!!! TAKE THE SIGMA PILL AND WOMEN WILL FLOCK TO YOU
Jaxson Morgan
Dude you're such a faggot, why do you even give a rats ass, just go.
Daniel Allen
I come off as passive-aggressive?
Jaxon Bell
SHUT UP, SHUT UP, SHUT UP
YES YOU FUCKED UP YOU FUCKING RETARD STOP ACKNOWLODGING HER. AND STOP POSTING ON Any Forums
Cooper Hall
only as much as your average pissy teenage girl.
Carson Murphy
what level of cringe is this
Anthony Sanders
Sage until we see a timestamp proving you're a real person.
