wife and i changed over time, her libido is way lower than mine now and have to downgrade and fap, we had so much fun for many years and were very open, now shes turning more normie and bland, we still do a lot together but i feel like my sex life with 27 is drying up faster than i realize with her (and no she wont let me bang other chicks)
Wife and i changed over time, her libido is way lower than mine now and have to downgrade and fap...
Anthony Morgan
Carson Butler
that happened to me around the time my highschool sweetheart decided she hadnt 'done enough in her youth'. and i hope she's (your girl) not as susceptible to jewish propaganda as other chicks are.
>basically prepare for the worst
Jack Nguyen
not really, we like hang out all the time and it wouldnt even be timely possible for that, its just that she stoped everything and has a massive disinterest about the topic as a whole, feels like she just faked our interests toget me and now disconnects from her past self and me
Jackson Gutierrez
you have to discuss that with her. no other way
Leo Long
Been married about 5 or so years user?
Nathaniel Gutierrez
yeah i know, but cant think of any solution i can offer, i woild walk in with empty hands in to that talk
Matthew King
4+ years
Sebastian Ramirez
Sounds like she's depressed, user. Maybe see if she would talk to a shrink?
Thomas Johnson
she already does, shes doing better than before when i met her, more extroverted, doing more etc., i dont wanna end it just because i feel the sexual drift, shes a great person and i still love her fully, i cant find someone else for that emotional depth, its an ocean of surface interested morons out there, they all qualify for a fuck but not for talks
Jason Johnson
Same boat in my 7+ year relationship. Have argued about it off and on for 2 years or so. My GF has generalized anxiety disorder and cPTSD though, and that has been the bigger issue. Trying to push her to get medicated/therapy is a constant battle. Sucks that the ones we love can be so shit sometimes, and that we care about them enough to were we don't want to leave but still need something to change.
Easton Baker
Have you told her any of this? Talking to her, asking her why she's lost interest or whatever, is your only path forward.
Carson Fisher
for sure, thats pretty much the path, we talked and scratched those topics from time to time but it feels like its over bros
Chase Roberts
You sound like you are in the same boat as me user, sorry :(
Dylan Smith
That happens to everyone, I'm pretty sure. Even my dad speaks about that for being the horny old bastard that he is.
Daniel Adams
He ever cheat? Feel like that is a shitty yet probable thing for lots of men.
Brandon Kelly
Yeah, it's common. There's a whole subreddit about it, /r/DeadBedrooms
You're likely going to have to cheat if you want to get your needs fulfilled. Ideally, you can find a woman who isn't getting dicked down enough (not as common, but it happens) and work out a discreet arrangement.
Cameron Anderson
cheating is out of bounds for me, i still wanna look myself in the mirror
Jason Jenkins
I felt that way, too. Even turned down a nice opportunity and felt smug about what a stand-up guy I was. Three years later, when the sex in my marriage had dwindled to about once a month starfish action, I reevaluated my thoughts about that kind of thing. Cheating is hurtful. Feeling unloved and unfuckable because your spouse would rather watch Netflix all night instead of having sex with you hurts, too.
Nicholas James
i'm 36F and had a high libido until this past year. I don't know if it was from two bad covid infections or age or gaining 15 lbs... These are all things that can affect hormones. I don't know if you two have children, but that can often kill sex drive and mess up hormones for a few years. Maybe in time, things will get better. good luck user
Blake Hughes
we are child free (thank god) and have no plans for kids in the near future
Jayden Martinez
things are changing, you can adapt or move on i guess. Got a little gril this year, sex life isnt a big topic anymore since (we had 5-8 times sex a day at peak) Im in a struggle too