We used to fuck several times a day sometimes, at least once a day, now we haven’t in almost a week and before this it felt like a chore to her and she was only doing it to shut me up
Makes me feel like shit, almost like I’m forcing her
Is it over?
It’s always an excuse, I’m tired, long day, not in the mood usual married women type bullshit I never thought I would hear
Youre not alone op, after all these years its getting to the point id rather beat off than fuck her dry puss
It’s over bro, she doesn’t find you attractive and either has found someone better or is in the lookout.
She keeps you around as a safety net for now but you can’t force her to want to fuck you again (willingly).
Cut your losses and either break up or start looking for a replacement and then breakup. Don’t be surprised if she leaves you.
Why not call it quits?
She isn't into you dude. She is hoping you will get tired of it and break it off so she doesn't have to.
You can save this by ignoring her. Acting like you could care less, like maybe you are seeing someone else. Being happy in your own skin.
If she wants you she will bite, if not don't waste anymore time anyway.
Also, try to think what made her dislike you, did you get fat? Did you act like a bitch in front of her? Do you do all she wants to placate her? Did you beg for sex? Try to think what made you an unlikeable cunt and fix it, but not for her, for the replacement and try to keep up.
Yeah I know what mistake I made now that you mention it
I cried in front of her for the first time recently (give me a break somebody in my immediate family died) I never cry or show weakness otherwise because I know what happens
Boom this happens right after like clockwork
THIS. Your relationship is done, start looking for a replacement.
There you go. Unfortunately it’s like that, they will consciously console you and try to be “empathetic “ but unconsciously she was revolted by your display of weakness. Doesn’t matter who died, you were weak and your genes are weak and you’ll fail to protect her and her progeny, that’s what her brain is screaming at her.
Sorry bro, life is like that, live and learn, this doesn’t mean don’t show emotions, but show them restrained and In control, always with a plan to overcome. Cry in private, they hate to see it.
Real talk
Thanks man
You need to leave her. I went to ridiculous lengths and showed ridiculous patience with a girl. Never changed. Find someone more compatible and stop wasting your life on her
These guys fuck
Never ever act thirsty for pussy. You want them to be thirsty for you.
She doesnt wanna fuck tonight? Whatever, go do your own thing and focus on you. DO NOT act butthurt about it, surefire way to dry up a pussy
She is just using up your resources and is cheating either way tell her that if she won't fuck you then you'll find someone who will.
Record the conversation just in case she starts self harming and blaming you.
Witholding sex is a form of abuse and you shouldn't take that lightly
yeah that'll do it. ditch her and don't do that again.
save it for your male friends, and sorry about your loss.
Force her. Grow some balls.
i really hate how true this is. A real keeper will actively console you, 99% of them just dont ever want to see you have any kind of emotion other than anger.
Cringe, don’t do this.
been there done that. We had sex regular, then 1 a month then once a year, then it finaly ended. Girls leave you the moment they stop having sex with you. Not the moment they leave your flat, that moment comes way later.
withholding sex is not abuse, but in a relationship for men its a a physical conformation of being wanted and loved by your partner.
But honestly without it in a relationship what are you even doing.
women.. most common thing inducing that is that she gets bored, women needs to be surprised, routine has taken over and you're losing her if thats not the case already. most girls nowadays will be like that if you dont try to renew yourself. its a daily work
you have three options
1 fuck girls with no tomorrow dont care about renewing yourself or surprising her
2 do what I stated above, keep the excitement in her everyday dont let the routine take over or she will get bored, most of girls will
3 find a sub gf with weak personality that will accept pretty much anything and never get bored of you or even if she gets bored she will simply accept it and stay loyal
thats the way it is. good luck user
Get a new bitch, start chasing a new bitch before you leave the old one.
Also never live with a woman, she can stay over but don’t let her live with you.
She is too comfortable.
sex with the same person gets boring with time, just find another and repeat until you die
pray that your next partner has more libido
Try talking to her about what you can do to rekindle the flame. Maybe you got complacent. Really give it a shot.
If she won’t help you help her though you might wanna break it off, you don’t want that resentment to grow.
don't listen to these NEETs user. If you want sex after a relationship gets stale, you need to continue to excite her. If you live in or near a city, take her there for a night.
Break up time