Why can't I get women Any Forums=? I mean, this shit is really starting to bother me. I just can't seem to attract any girl. I mean, out of 20 girl i "ask out", maybe one will say yes. I'm not ugly, nor particularly handsome. I have a degree, soon to be two, a promising job in IT, a good phisyque and I'm 27 years old. And yet, even women who are clearly estethically below me will ignore me and show no real interest in me. What the fuck am I doing wrong?
Why can't I get women Any Forums=? I mean, this shit is really starting to bother me...
Have you ever wondered that maybe Taylor Swift is making your life miserable on purpose?
Ok, feel as if I was there lookin at you in most judgemental way possible, without saying a word.
Two things. Be confident about yourself and your decisions. Not superior or self-agrandizing, just confident. Second, work on humor. Not just telling story jokes, but seeing the comedy in life and commenting on it or pointing it out! The other stuff will come. And the women will find it attractive.
Work on your personality, focusing on the superficial will only get you so far. And before you go "my personality is fine or great even!" maybe take a genuine look at yourself and how you could be perceived by others. Self awareness is extremely attractive.
Do you have a personality?
This user is also correct
i didnt read your whole post, im late for work, but i was a loser and had no women than i had dozens, got married, had a kid, etc.
my tip is you have to actually try, it might take a years to get good, but all good things come to those that try and have patience:
dress nice
get a job
act like youre worth being around
get good at telling stories and cracking jokes
be smart and talented
act smooth like james bond or han solo
youll be beating them away with sticks if you did this stuff just a little
Don't act like bond or han solo OP
Otherwise good advice
You need to improve your spelling and grammar to get women.
You're still young. You probably don't have much experience but being rejected us the default male experience. Unironically just keep tryjng and be better
I think I do have a personality but it is hard to understand how others might perceive me. Also, girls seem to like flirting with me, often to the point where it seems that they like me but then...nothing, just nothing. I really seem to be doing specific mistakes but I can't tell what these might be.
I'm not a native english speaker
You sound basic as fuuuuuuuuuuuck. Women can see that. Even simple women.
How do you know they're flirting? What kind of things do they say?
Some women -not all- just like the attention without any intention of acting on it
Yeah but sometimes I wonder if I was handsome, just really fucking handsome, how easy would it be?
Just be yourself user.
Dunno. I met mine when I took a tech course at our local community College. We were assigned as work partners in my CS 102 class & she intially acted bitchy about it since I'm 11 years older than her and called her a childish twat when she kept fucking around on her phone while we were suppose ne working thru modules, she called me a stuck up boomer prick. After a few weeks, we got use to each other's quirks, developed a tight friendship and ended up dating by the end of the semester. Got married back in February and its going well so far.
OK, can you elaborate?
I am told that I am extremely handsome all the time, doesn't feel easy for me so don't focus on it.
Also the fact that you go to that so quickly definitely makes your personality look worse
Laughing like idiots, slapping me on the arm when i crack some mean jokes, you stuff like that
just curious what you are wearing? you need some flare to 'peacock' yourself. wear some bright shit and have a few go to moves that are unique and invoke intelligence.
Not that user but you sound like you lack interests outside of the superficial based on your first post
Autism OP. You're a failure in society.
Yeah, I guess I have become quite bitter with time. It's just that i feel so frustrated by the fact that an average woman can get a ton of men while an average man need to go to the moon and beyond to get something. And I know that I shouldn't even think about this but it just feels hard not to
That's not flirting that's laughing at someones joke, make sure your mean jokes are lighthearted
Nice story Panjeet!
Now please poo in the loo :)
So you married a lazy cunt with daddy issues....
You actually don't need to go to the moon and beyond, women can sense that kind of bitterness and will avoid it like the plague.
When you two have kids, people are gonna think you're the kids grand pa.