Any Forumsros i’d be eternally grateful if you could help me fix my love life
so for context i’ve been seeing this girl, 1st date: went absolutely amazing and she’s very attracted to me 2nd date: i was moody and messed things up + struggling to make conversation
she told me that in all of her past relationships, they’re able to talk non stop without any effort. but me being a bit autistic, my social skills aren’t that great when i run out of things to say.
i’ve got one last date with her to fix things and convince her to stay, can you guys give me advice on how to be good at conversations? or anything that’ll make the date great
sounds like youre super obsessive, if this is the third date then chill the fuck out and just speak to her, if you were super autistic then apologise but dont make a massive deal out of it
Wyatt Long
i’m nervous yeah,because if i suck at conversation again then its over
Joseph Long
how much do you know about her, like her hobbies and interests and stuff, if the answer is nothing then ask her about her hobbies, easy as fuck, get her talking about something shes passionate about and for the love of god act like youre interested and let her speak
Kevin Moore
what happens after i’ve used up all of that ? her interests and dreams etc
Kevin Powell
well the idea is you keep the conversation going by finding similar interests, find something she has in common with you and share your opinions and past experiences on it, this is someone you want to be close with one day so you have to build a connection
Gabriel Cruz
the thing is we don’t have a lot of common interests
Austin Murphy
if you have no similar interests with someone and you cant carry it with your personality then its pretty much pointless, if shes really interested then she'll try and ask you about what you like but if shes not super interested then youre fucked just give it up and find someone new, i mean its 3 dates thats not that many tbh
Joseph Ward
what did you even talk about on the first date if you have nothing in common
Benjamin Brooks
we talked about music we like,experiences growing up,tv shows we watch like basic introduction stuff which worked really well
Carson Johnson
do more of that then, bring up interesting things that have happened to you recently or funny stories from your past or some shit idk
Jonathan Thomas
wtf? just say "i haz dick" all of sudan thinking about hazing dick not real hard. ask her to make a porn
Jace Mitchell
You need to lay down the law and let her know that your man and she needs stop yapping unless spoken to...Jez, man up b4 she bolts on you for someone who takes control of things...
Easton Martin
So she's already comparing you to her past relationships to your fuckin face? What a cunt.
Nolan Powell
Pin her down and force your erect penis down her throat while you finger her slit. Spit on her and call her a slut. Smack her around a little too. After you bust (without telling her ofc) you throw a crumpled wad of exactly 14 dollars at her and leave.
Oliver Edwards
Provide a photo of the chick, let us see what you're working against if you'd expect help
