How hard is it to pick up a hot female bartender in a bar full of dudes...

How hard is it to pick up a hot female bartender in a bar full of dudes? Does tipping/buying them drinks actually work or do you have to stand out physically?

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Dont.

If she wants you she will make it happen. Hitting on bartenders is a shitty thing to do and we do not appreciate it. We are there to work and dont need you making our jobs harder by making us uncomfortable.

Don't bother. They get hit on more than any profession and you'll just annoy them. If they are interested, they'll pick you up.

fax, any other reponse is LARP

That's what I figured. Thanks friends

She escorts. Offer her a lot of money after a huge tip.

Most act flirty but are only focused on the work because any extra attention hurts the tip percentage from other idiots like you trying to bang em. If you really wanna make an impression keep to yourself and your drink or others around you. When you make eye contact don’t stare just smile and look away slowly.

I was a bartender for a long time, no matter how you look you get folks trying to fuck you or get free stuff or both. Break the mold, tip a buck or 2 at most per drink and be respectful. Don’t start conversations just reply if they ask you things in a non flirty manner and stay calm. Drink slow, a person who holds his/her liquor while the bartender is hot is hard to find. Good luck and don’t be a fuckin weirdo.

Be attractive or have money

>bartender
Female bartenders get hit on by drunken assholes constantly. If you have the looks and charm that she likes she will gravitate towards you for conversation at slower moments and give you some pretty obvious flirting if she’s interested.

The only other way is to regularly be one of the last people there at closing time and if she’s feeling horny or desperate for a sport fuck you might get lucky, but again, she’ll be the one to let you know.
>did some bartending in my youth, got several waitresses and two female bartenders, along with a string of numbers and hookups from drunken college girls, but I’m a blue eyed six footer with charm

1: she cant be too far outta your league 2: come by infrequently enough for it not to be weird 3: be indifferently friendly to become a 'trusted regular', do not let conversations drag; be confident in being a little short to maintain indifference 4: throw out a question about her job once in a while and engage in active listening without too much input and zero advice about her problems; no questions about her, just her job, unless she offers it up 5: once in a while come in late, especially on even nights butt dont stay; put yourself in a 'neither of us wanna be here' situation so she begins t see you as more of a peer 6: repeat 5 until she gets comfortable enough to bitch to you about how crappy her day was, then when its close to closing, and its still busy, and only when she asks where youre off to, tell her she had a bad shift, and shes welcome to join, but be indifferent. tip: always have a classy jazz club type place with neon lights lined up and 2+ other friends you can make last-minute plans with so you dont look like a creep and so you 'have people meeting you'. have several on rotation. usually works. im only a 6-7.5 and have pulled a handful of bartenders and 3 different strippers (different techniques). good luck.

I slept with a bikini bar bartender. It is her job to flirt with every single man that walks in, and despite having that job she actually isn't a slut as far as I could tell. Anyway, all the guys flirt with her constantly, but I never did. I talked to her about politics, religion, philosophy, etc. Really, I talked to my buddy about that stuff and we included her in those conversations when she was present. Always tipped well, of course. Also, I'm 6'2" fit chad, that's always a factor. Anyway, I got her phone number by her asking me to text her an article about something or other. Then she drops some light hints that she liked me, and I tried to get her to go on a date a few times but she kept being "busy", so I eventually said "If you're too busy to ever go on a date, how am I supposed to seduce you?" and she said "You don't need to take me on a date to do that."

Women Bartenders like men who don't seem like regulars, but also aren't yuppies.

Go during non-peak hours, don't drink a lot and ordersomething simple. If you're polite and make life easy that's already a good subconscious memory.

I've hooked up with one and got numbers for a couple throughout the years by doing this.

How about not trying to flirt with her while she's working?
Do you expect her to ignore her customers just because you want to wet your dick? No chance. If you genuinely are attracted to her, find out what hobbies she has and meet her there.

Also, don't bother going after any woman when multiple guys are going after her. Even if you are better than the others, she shuts down the mentality of finding a bf and embraces the endless attention.

There are two re-actions in this scenario:
1) She craves more attention from more men
2) She shuts down completley.

Either way is a waste of time.

>strippers

That’s a whole different shitshow....
One on my good friends who I used to tend bar with took a job tending bar at a strip club.
I would go visit him there and just hang out at the bar and turn down all their offers for lap dances, but buy them a drink and say I’m just hanging with (name redacted) and let is slip to the hotter ones that we were gonna blow though an 8 ball at closing time.
We would end up leaving with a few of those slits and end up passing them around like joints
>warning it’s better to rent a hotel room to have that kind of after party, unless you want crazy stripper bitches waiting for you in their car in your driveway looking to stay with you because they got beat up for being a whore again...

dude, 100%. i even play the 'out of towner', or used to, just so that chicks i dont want to take to my pad dont even question being taken to a hotel. its a game some dudes play, hopping one town over and sayin youre from outta state; chicks will usually take you to their hot spots and do crazy shit if they think there are zero consequences. back to strippers. yea, shitshow. there was a titty bar that used to have a mid week drink night and it was a good excuse to take a couple homies out for drinks and, as you say, casually turn down offers, but...but offer to buy them drinks, 'since drinks are on special' and youre not asking them casue you wanna plaster 'em; they go along. then, yea, scope the coke heads and spring for an 8 even if you dont partake. its fucking formulaic. one of the 3 i actually saw regularly for a bit after and i DO NOT recommend it unless youre a trash person who likes bringing home strays

It's actually not too hard. Just like most women, there are two rules:

1. Be attractive.

2. Don't be unattractive.

Simple as. These days, every 4 thinks she's a 6. Every 6 thinks she's a 10. And every 10 is getting pissed on in Dubai by some sweaty Arab scumbag.

spotted one, boys

Lmao. Truer words have never been spoken.

Everyone here is saying you'll annoy them. That is true. But there is one other thing: the bartenders who will sleep with customers are messy with drama. Don't do it unless you're ready to never come back. This kind of thing can follow you around town. Every single time I've seen it happen, it's created a problem

To add to this though if you tip her will she *will* have a better opinion of you and *will* be more likely to choose to talk to you. It guarantees nothing but it does increase your chances as fucked up as that seems.