Me and my girlfriend (both 20) broke up yesterday because of our circumstances. I’m going away for 6-8 months (there’s also going to be minimum contact with occasional calls and mostly email messages) but she’s know since the beginning. We’ve been dating a year and from the beginning she said she understood and was okay with staying with me while I was gone but something changed. 2 weeks ago we had the conversation about me leaving and she said “we can try”. I thought what the fuck do you mean we can try. She’s known since the fucking beginning, and only now right before I leave does she say she has a problem with it. I tell her that if all she is going to give me is a maybe then does she really want this? If she did then there shouldn’t be any hesitation or confusion. She said “we’re in our 20s, we’re young, I don’t know what’s going to happen”. I feel like she’s just using that as an excuse because this was never a fucking problem before. I tell her that if that’s all she’s willing to give me then we might as well have a clean break now to spare us the heartache in the future. She started balling her eyes out and all I could do was sit there and think what the hell happened. Was there somebody else and she never told me? She said that I’m the most amazing person she’s ever met and that I deserve every bit of love I give. She also said she hopes there is a future for us later on in life. She offered for me to stay the night but I didn’t want to, I called my friend and he picked me up shortly after. I grab my things that she had and say my goodbyes and watch her cry as I leave with my friend. I feel like I’m fucking dying inside, I don’t know what to do now.
I’m heartbroken Any Forumsros
She wants to fuck other dudes
>going away for 6-8 months
>jail
I can’t stand the thought of her being with someone else. I’d go fucking ballistic. Is that all modern women want these days? I don’t want to just have sex, I don’t care about that. I just want love and to be loved
No, I’m navy and deploying
nothing to do with "modern women", you sound like a fucking incel.
people wanna fuck, and if she doesnt have a ring shes gonna fuck someone else. its good she left now than after you come back for a surprise visit and find another dude railing her in you bed.... or worse she ends up on something similar to GDP and gets broadcasted as a whore for the world to see
or do you prefer a military wife whos gonna fuck every guy in the bar when youre away?
I don’t prefer anything other than somebody who is loyal. I’m getting out in 2 years and this is the primary reason. I don’t understand why it has to be this way.
Fuck is gdp?
Should have locked that shit down with a ring then
I tried but she said that she wanted to wait
Post her nudes
"Girls do porn"
If I don’t want her fucking anybody else then I don’t want random dudes looking at her on the internet
So gay jail, then.
Girls Do Porn. Look it up if you don't know what it is. One of the girls who did a scene with them supposedly did it while her military bf was deployed or at basic or something.
My main worry is being able to find somebody else like her in the future. We had great communication. never had one fight. If there were any problems we talked through them. My friends recommended me getting on tinder and that it’d help but that feels like the worst choice I could make right now. I just want her to want me back.
"We're young" means exactly what it sounds like. She wants to experience fucking other guys and get it out of her system and come back to you when you're back
Why is this the fucking norm now. I don’t want her back if her body count goes up to 20 when I return.
Is this what everyone wants? Is it normal for it to be this way?
Grab a bottle and get over it
Stop being a bitch.
If you don't want her count to be at 20, don't count on getting her back lol.
Focus on you, make money, don't buy a mustang at 20% interest like a boot, and put all your money in an index fund. When you're back, take a trip to Mexico with "the boys" and try to fuck there, then come back find a nice wholesome girl and don't ask about her body count so you don't come off like an insecure little boy
No. Neither I or my wife want this.
My ex wanted it. I did not
I don’t fucking want to be Scott pilgrim vs the world. I don’t want somebody who’s been around with everybody, if that’s too much to ask then fuck all of it
I just want somebody who feels the same why I do
You are both 20. There is a lot you don't know. Explore the world and make sure she does too. Both of you should figure out what's out there. Stay in touch with her. Maybe you will reconnect. Maybe you won't. Making big decisions at age 20 is fraught.
You'd have stood a better chance if it had been jail.