>”Hey, what do you think about open relationships?” >”Why” >”Oh, I don't know, I was just thinking we could maybe...” >”I’m breaking up with you”
I’m paraphrasing, but that was basically how it went. The drive home was the hardest. At first I got cryptic phishing questions from her friends asking if I was serious. When I did not reply they turned extremely hostile almost immediately. I explained to one of our mutual friends, who would not stop pestering my about it, that I was in this relationship for the long haul. And if she was having these thoughts now there is no way I could trust her going forward. He went on to explain how broken up she was and that the open relationship idea wasn't even hers as it was one of her friends who recommended it. I explained again, even if she had no intention of dong it, the mere fact she could be manipulated into asking was more than enough for me to end the relationship.He was less than supportive, but he’s wiped as fuck so I could not care less.
Everyone from our friend group is pissed at me, nobody gives a fuck about my perspective. I was looking for property we could move in together, I spent large amounts of money on both her wants and her needs for work. I even was in the process of building her a new gaming computer, and now I’m stuck with $1500 worth of parts I don’t need.
From the beginning I told everyone my intentions. I want to move out of the city and I want to start a family. That's it! She was not only supportive, in the beginning she expressed interest in going back to school to become a teacher and homeschooling our future children, a cost I was more than happy to pay for. Now I’ve wasted 2 years with almost nothing to show for it (I got a better job to support our future family, so there is that). Its been a week and I’m still so fucking pissed about it. I haven’t even started looking again. Fuck, I hate feeling this vulnerable.
I understand how you fee kind of. Atleast the letting go part and realizing she isn’t what you want. It’s been difficult for me to let go and have been considering suicide. But not really sure what I want to do or how I feel at this point. Truth is you shouldn’t settle for less and you do have a huge point. If she was able to be manipulated about that image what else she’ll be manipulated about. I think you’re doing the right thing.
John Hall
Satanism ruins lives. They're all brainwashed orgy cultists, that's why they paint you as the bad guy for this; because otherwise they have to admit their lifestyle is not normal. Seems to suck now but you really dodged a bullet. Your hypothetical future children would have just eventually been raped silly and brainwashed into indoctrination. One small silver lining: due to absolutely horrific supply chain problems, the resale value of that unused gaming PC is probably relatively high.
>grew up as a child of satanists >asshole and brain will never recover
Hudson Morgan
It's spelled whipped.
Levi Murphy
Good on you mate, I know it was hard but you did the right thing.
Cameron Flores
You should post nudes of her, I bet she's cute
Grayson Long
I would have reasoned the same way. I would probably have wanted to know more about where she was coming from with this and what her reasoning was. But there would be no going back. I know a lot of polyamorous people and I'm fine with them doing their thing. But I am not like that, I am monogamous. If my wife approached the question at some point, it'd be over. I'd be heartbroken, destroyed, just like you are now. But it'd be over. I'd try to move away from the anger and start grieving the loss of your future. Because the sooner you do that the sooner you'll be okay again. But that's your call.
Grayson Parker
assuming this isnt pasta, at least you held on to your nuts and arent acting like a faggot about it. something I wished I could say about myself in the past, good for you user. she isnt the only one with a cunt. thats called being a man user, even if others will disagree, you did what you had to do for yourself. why give much attention to women and faggots either way? instead of individually thinking for themselves they are getting their panties up in a bunch, bitter and going off of what everyone else is saying or doing. bunch of fucking morons if you ask me. women like that and the faggots that befriend women like that are a waste of time, immature, snarky, passive agressive little shits. seriously, how pathetic must one be to act like they are in fucking highschool? because the clique says you must be bratty, you do? y
Ryan King
>me me me >my my my
What about her plans, wants and desires user? You can't lay pipe and she wants to have a real orgasm, with a strong man, for a change. You should let her.
Jace Powell
>You should let her. He is letting her. She's free to fuck any number of guys she wants now. She just can't while still being with him.
Parker Robinson
>He went on to explain how broken up she was and that the open relationship idea wasn't even hers as it was one of her friends who recommended it.
Well, now you know who's idea it was and who she was banging on the side. I'd bet my last dollar on that.
Ayden Brown
Cuck
Luis White
SAGE >SAGE SAGE >SAGE
Nolan Campbell
Sounds like you made the right call but were kind of an asshole about it.
Agreed its a red flag if a third party is suggesting an open relationship, and another red flag that she even entertained the suggestion.
Ayden Phillips
He is lol, she's free to fuck whoever she wants now
Ian Lee
how would you have lessened the blow if you were him? wait 1 or 2 weeks to break up? why prolong the pain? why stick around if you know she wants to fuck other people yet would probably throw a hissy fit if you did as well? expects you to be okay with a break from the relationship yet you still have to be monogamous? what kinda shit is that user?
Adrian Garcia
There was no need to punish her for having a natural desire to experience sexual pleasure for a change. OP was rude and selfish to throw her life upside down just because she wanted something so natural.
Carson Peterson
if this isnt satire, this is the most cucked thing on the planet. yeah, when your wife needs some real dick, tell her to call me. clearly youd be okay with me dicking your wife because she just had fun with guys like me, but you get to be married to her
Sebastian Parker
>how would you have lessened the blow if you were him?
Would have waited till after the drive was over to have that conversation if possible.
Jonathan Diaz
Jews ruined lives
Isaac Bennett
I'd guess satire cuz cucks don't have enough shame to be at all coy
Jaxson Gonzalez
Stay strong OP. You did the right thing
David Brown
>Now I’ve wasted 2 years with almost nothing to show for it Going on 5 years here user with no sign of it getting better, stuck here because the first 3 were the happiest of my life.
People are going to say "blah blah fuck women" but don't blame her for her friend's influence (like you said).
Logan Walker
It's crazy to hear how fast they turned on you, is she that manipulative?
Nolan Russell
>punish her Not wanting to participate in someone else's desires is not punishment. Falling out of love isn't punishment either.
Ian Phillips
That's just how female friendships are on average
Liam Scott
If you're not happy, change something, including breaking up if needed
Joseph Watson
>deny cuckolding >refuse to explain further based >our friend group is pissed at me not their business >crying about it you'll be ight
she def fucked someone else if she's on this shit my girl is a christian qt3.14 and her worse flaw is loving me too much met her when i was literally homeless find that
Josiah Bailey
user, I'm so sorry this has happened to you.
Skank showed her true colors, even for just a moment.
Benjamin Johnson
You dumb fuck. OP is not weeping like a bitch like you
Lucas Rodriguez
what conversation is there to be had? a conversation implies that there can be an agreement, that there is something to talk about and discuss. she is allowing herself to be influenced by her friends greatly, she doesnt even see that her friends are not her fucking man, they are her dumb friends giving her retarded ideas. some people act like friends but they wouldnt mind seeing your downfall or relish in it. some things sound great in theory but the reality is not as optimistic and bright as one would hope they would be. she wants another dick, he doesnt want that life, trying to make it work would build resentment and issues between them. what conversation is there to be had when your values will not allow you to budge? he does not want to allow his wife or girlfriend to knowingly and voluntarily fuck other men therefore she is out. a woman can arbitrarily fuck with a dude and its all fine and dandy, the man should have been able to read her mind and know what he did wrong with zero communication, he is communicating directly what was the issue so that there be zero misunderstanding.
Leo Murphy
real problem here: zero boundaries with these "friends", almost to the point of fucking them toxic af
Jackson Ramirez
Bruh i apologize you wrote all that out, you wasted your time.
For the most part I agree with you. I'm questioning his execution of the break up, not his motivations for it
Daniel Thomas
it is either the most beta blue pill thing ever or some faggot who knows nothing about heterosexual relationships and is essentially the gay faggot bestie, there is nothing wrong with wanting sex but youre already in a relationship. if you dont want me then what the fuck are we doing? wasting each others time?
