Be me

>Be me
>2 Days ago, mom calls me
>Sup?
>You're going to meet CJ, remember how your cousin's husband has a sister, who has a disabled kid since she's a crack fiend? That's him, and you're going to meet him and take care of him every once and a while.
>No. Not doing it.
>Yesyouare
>No, I'm fucking not.
>You're such an asshole, you're a terrible person.
So, am I the asshole in this situation? I have never met CJ, OR his mom. His mom did not specifically ask for me. I was straight up volunteered without my knowledge.

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Gonna say you’re not the asshole, but I also think you’ll look much better in this situation if you go back to her later and explain what your specific hang-ups with the situation are. Maybe ask her to put herself in your shoes there and try a different approach next time

No. You aren't obligated to care for others and your desires aren't be respected. You're being guilt-tripped into doing something you don't want to do for people you don't know.

This is an obvious breach of your wishes and boundaries without respect to your say in it. You are being used. Tell her firmly that you aren't going to be taking care of this person, and no amount of insisting you will is going to change that.

this isnt reddit, post on there for faggots to vindicate you. get raped by rabid dogs, faggot

GET UNVINDICATED FAGGOT

You're asking OP to reason with someone who, out the gate, is okay with not only disrespecting their agency, but also insulting them for refusing this obviously ridiculous request in the first place.

Fuck this soft-handed response. Don't go about shouting or calling names, but be direct that you aren't going to be caring for this noid point-blank. These people don't deserve a gentler approach if they're front-loading this kind of bullshit.

Not your job

Fuck no, shes passing it off on to you because she has nothing else to do and doesnt want to take care of the potato. Tell that bitch to kick rocks.

Look at it from another perspective...
If the kid's not a massive hassle and can be tamed with cartoons n shit, care for him some.
Take notes of how often, what you do, etc.
Count how much it costs to care for him.
Eventually get court involved and get that tard money.
Don't be a dick and spend it all on yourself though, think of the tard too.

Definitely not an asshole. Your mum is a cunt tho