>Have huge anal fetish
>been fapping to anal and assholes since I was 12 but never gotten to play with a girls asshole before
>been dating gf for 10 months now
>shes said she's done anal once before and had her ass eaten but wasn't into it
>ask her if we can try having me eat her butt sometime to which she surprisingly agrees
>wait till she's ovulating so she's extra horny to ask for it
>she goes and showers up beforehand
>put one of her vibrators inside her pussy and suck on her clit so she cums once before I move to her asshole
>she cums
>flip her over and begin to lick her asshole while the vibrator is still inside her
>she starts laughing and sqiurming saying it tickles
>only lasts a min before I stop since obvious she's not into it because of it tickling
>feels bad
>decide to just go ahead and fuck her thinking maybe I can just finger her ass for a few months to work her slowly up to anal
>lube up my index finger nice and good while fucking her and begin to slowly press it in
>only get about half an inch in before she tells me to knock it off
>even more depressed and disappointed now
>completely kills mood for me and just have to fake an orgasm to end it
Should have never watched porn and gotten this fetish. I just wanted to know what it was like
Have huge anal fetish
get a better gf
Not all it's cracked up to be.
Anal is
>Fun because they usually won't let you.
>Really tight entrance
Pussy
>Tighter overall
>Easier to do more positions
>Self lubing
>Mouth to pussy to mouth all day any day
>can go hard and they like it
>>Fun because they usually won't let you.
exactly
Just talk to her man. Tell her it's something you really enjoy, and maybe with time she can prepare both her body and mind for it. Be gentle
Why did she do it ? She could’ve been my trad wife
We kinda did afterwards. I asked, "so it tickles?" to which she said yea extremely. I then apologized for sticking my finger in her ass in case she was irritated. She said it was fine but shes not into it and asked why I wanted to try butt stuff all of a sudden to which I said because I never have and I wanted to experiment. I then said, "we can just not experiment with it if you aren't into it?" to which she said yea that's her "no no" hole, and said maybe one day (but implying one day as in when pigs fly)
>Asking for anal
>Stopping when she tells you to
You've been dating for 10 months what do you think what do you think she'll to go to the cops to you if you butt rape her? No! You never ask for anal you just do it you don't stop unless they start crying just be kind about it and slow and try again and again eventually she'll get so horny that she just wants to get fucked and let you do it.
Also if she does cry just lay on top of her and don't let her get away until she calms down. Once they realize you're not going to hurt them, but you are going to keep trying to take that ass. they usually relax and pretty soon afterwards you'll be successful even if they have a negative reaction. some of them like painal more than 50% are going to be turned on by it later and being dominated
yeah she seems to really not be into it but you handled things well. might wanna be careful about how much you downplay how interested you are in it though because it sounds like she'll forget it and drop the thought entirely if it doesn't seem like that big of a deal. especially if she specifically said you wanted to try it "all of a sudden". maybe wait a little while and bring it up again. when's your birthday? lmao
do not rape your girlfriend because Any Forums told you to
kys
>when's your birthday? lmao
January
So how the fuck do I even bring it up? She pretty much flat out told me no. It kinda feels like nagging or ignoring her trust/preferences to push the subject again.
I kinda just wanted her to have an open mind to try it. If she doesn't like it and we have tried it a couple of times then ok but I wouldn't say under a min of rimming and a couple of cm's of a finger into her butt is really trying.
I'd totally be down for trying anything she wants to experiment with (as long as its not fucking other people) and giving it an honest shot, but problem is she's so incredibly vanilla I don't think she wants to try anything more than some oral and vaginal sex with some vibrators. Asked her many times if there's anything more she wants to try and she always says no
I used to have a sex fetish then I got married and had kids
You know OP. Some women are stupid. Just cheat on her with a slut that at least listens to her man unlike the girl that you date. She's a pussy, anal is not that hard but you've got to try it before you can judge it.
Yes it's true that you need to be in the mood for it, also If you've never had a cock up the butt of course it's uncomfortable. BUT... If you teach her to love the ass stretching it will feel great. I've done anal and I could easily get my 8 incher balls deep inside.
kys
can someone remind me who this is?
sasha grey
Fellow butthole enthusiast here, anal is pretty good but super overrated. Needs way more preparation, way more things can go awkward/wrong. It's good fun but don't get too caught up with it, pussy feels way better anyway
This. Who wants a gf that never does anal?
or. or. or you simply find a girl that is into the same things as you. crazy concept, huh? you're probably too much of an incel though and the thought of not having a gf makes you scared shitless since you know your odds of finding another are incredibly low.
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The part that killed the mood was you went for the finger in pooper without talking about it first. She agreed to tongue, you killed the vibe by taking it further on your own. If you had taken things incrementally, talking it through as you, and explaining it's something you think you're into, things could have been way different over time.
I need a real answer to the other user’s question.