Let’s hear your stories of when your SO or ex cheated on you and how you found out. How long were u together...

Let’s hear your stories of when your SO or ex cheated on you and how you found out. How long were u together? What happened? Did you guys stay together? Details

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shouldnt you start?

Fucked my GF's cousin at a college house party once my GF left. GF wasnt feeling well, we took her home. her cousin was visiting. she wanted to leave several hour later, told her i was trying to fuck first, took her out back behind a shed. she dropped her pants, i proceeded to fuck her. Went home after, stuck my dick in GF's mouth, she woke up sucked my dick for a bit with her cousins pussy juice on it, then proceeded to fuck her too.

Did their pussies look the same?

asking the important question.

never saw the cousins pussy, hit it from behind. GF was mixed, cousin was black. I'm white, kind of funny to think about that now

My gf of 8 months at the time, we went out drinking all night. It was actually a very fun night. Bar hopped a bit and lots of laughs and good talks. Great vibe all around..which is why I was so shocked that when we were leaving the bar to come back to my place she said “just leave me here I want to be alone”. After some probing about what she is talking about and that she’s acting weird, she told me (very drunk) that she is going to meet up with her ex husband. I tried asking her if she’s serious and asked her if she realizes she’s making a stupid drunken decision and that she will be throwing me away right now at this moment for her ex. She shook her head yes and started walking away from me going down the block opposite of where my car was. I was absolutely shocked what I just encountered. I got into my car and drove to find her hoping I can try one last ditch effort to try and talk her out of this. I caught up to her standing on a corner a couple blocks down and she was on the phone with “him”. I pulled up and I forget exactly what I said out the wind onto her but she says on the phone “let me call u back”. She comes half way up to my car and tells me that he’s about to pull up and pick her up and that I better leave before something bad happens. When she said that, it was a nuclear bomb to me at exactly what type of girl this was. 8 months in and her true colors came out. She was choosing me over him. A guy she divorced because he was physically abusive and put her in the hospital. Very unfortunate. The next day she called me crying and apologizing and couldn’t believe what she done. I listened to her. The moment she told me that she slept over there but she swears she didn’t sleep with him, I basically hung up and cut her off everything. I would have had more respect for her if she just told me they fucked. I would have still broke up with her but maybe we could have just been fuck buddies after or something.

>Ex
>Together nearly 4 years
>Was logged into her Facebook account
>Saw messages from a dude we went to high school with
>Pretty explicit convo between him and my gf
>Referenced a few months prior when they previously hooked up
>Gf sent some spicy pics, although no outright nudes
>Confronted her
>She was more pissed I had invaded her privacy
>She eventually admitted to hooking up with him
>He had apparently been trying to initiate something for a couple years
>She finally gave in but we didn’t get around to discussing why
>Broke up with her on the spot but hooked up for a few months after

We'd been together for 6 years. Came home early one day, walked into the lounge to find her on her knees with her friend's dick in her mouth. What I will always remember the most is the look of shock and panic in her eyes when she saw me and realized she'd been caught with a mouthful of dick.
I was too shocked to be angry straight away. She started apologizing and I just told her she might as well finish what she'd started, then went upstairs to bed. I heard him leave about 15 minutes later then she came up to me to carry on apologizing and she even tried to kiss me. Like, bitch, I caught you in the act and you're not even going to do me the courtesy of brushing your teeth?
Kicked her out the next day and never regretted it. I wasn't even mad at the dude, who wouldn't get their dick sucked if the offer came along? She shouldn't have done it.

8 months of greatness and happiness. No red flags. Great communication. Really thought for a while I may have found my one..just for it to go a complete 180 in moments

My girlfriend was raped and beaten up, and I broke up with her right after she told me. This is what happened:

>Dating girlfriend for 7 months.
>She wants to go to this sleazy club with her friend.
>I told her I didn't want her to go.
>Had an argument about it. She was like "You don't own me and I can do what I want." and that bullshit.
>Told her if she went then I'm breaking up with her.
>She said she wouldn't go and dropped it.
>Saturday came.
>Hadn't heard from her all day.
>At 4AM on Sunday she calls me crying.
>She says she got raped and beat up.
>She went to the club anyway. Apparently she left alone with some guy and his friend to go to a party. They took her somewhere and beat her up and raped her.
>Had many feelings about this, none of them pleasant.
>I told her if she went to the club that I'd leave her and I told her we were over.
>She started freaking out and saying she needs me right now and that she was sorry.
>Told her never to call me again.
>Have been getting rabid hate from her friends and my friends think I was way too cold.
>She broke my trust, went somewhere I said not to, was probably going to end up cheating on me anyway and got raped and beaten over it and I'm suppose to feel sorry for her.

I saw her like yesterday and she was pretty beat up, she had bruises and a black eye and stuff. So I do believe she was raped but this wouldn't of happened if she had just listened to me. Everybody thinks I'm evil. My ex-girlfriend has been trying to talk to me but I have no desire to speak to her. You guys think I was too harsh? I just have a hard time feeling bad when I feel so right...

Terrible what happened to her. I may have forgiven her for going to the club because at the end of the day, she just wanted to go out and have fun and no offense, u don’t control her. I have fun with my guy friends and I let my gf go out with her girls for girls night. Gotta trust eachother until one fucks up. With that said, she left with a guy.. the only reason that came up is because she got raped. If that didn’t happen, it sounds like she was on road of potentially fucking around on u behind ur back. If my gf on girls night went out and I ever found out she left with another guy to go anywhere, whether it be to another party or bar, my trust would be gone and I’d leave

>Cousin was black
Bruh

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keep your boundaries and fuck them whores. good women exist no matter what you here. going towards the rural cities 30-1hour out helps.

Me and my ex-girlfriend were regulars at this bar near where we live, was always a good way to start the weekend and pretty much every Friday and Saturday night we would be there because it was fun and we knew a lot of people there.

We made friends there too, I became ''friends'' with this older woman who would always come up to me for a chat, and she became friends with this guy around our age but I became suspicious very quickly.
You see, my (not actual) autism allows me to do things other people wouldn't do.
There was a big mirror behind the bar that allowed you to overlook the bar if you were facing it, so I was sitting at it just staring into the mirror and I would always see my girlfriend standing with that guy and just talking.

A few weeks passed and I noticed them secretly holding hands by watching the mirror and shit so I already knew shit was up, and I prepared for it.
Eventually they were just like cuddling in the bar and holding hands and getting very touchy with each other if I wasn't facing them, almost like a game. But of course I used the big ass mirror (how did they miss that) and some other decorative objects to see what they were doing to each other.

One night she ''Isn't feeling it'' and leaves early, and as she leaves the guy does the same a minute later not to look suspicious I guess.
I followed after him and ended up at his apartment where my girlfriend was waiting by the door, they went inside together and I tried calling her a few minutes in but she wouldn't pick up her phone. Had a whole ''I went home but don't see you I'm worried'' line mocked up.

Anyways, I let this continue for two weeks before I was ready to tell them I knew. I made sure I got new locks on MY apartment where she lived too and got a company in her name to move her shit out by the next morning. Made sure she couldn't fuck with me in anyway shape or form.
I confronted them both and they admitted, my ex cried but I just let it be.
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whaaat

Why wouldn’t you intervene the moment u seen shit was happening the first time inside the bar?

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The guy got angry with me and I told her just have her, she can move in with you by tomorrow!
I explained how I already got a moving company coming the next morning and that she can join me in moving out her shit. She ''fainted'' and I let it be, wasn't going to put anymore attention into it as it did hurt me. A relationship of 3 years where I did my very best to make sure me and her were happy but she choose a fling over a stable relationship.

I told the older woman that always came up for a talk that ''NOW IS YOUR TIME TO GO HOME WITH ME AND HAVE SEX'' and she didn't hesitate and we went home together and had sex.
She said ''I longed for this'' and I played along and fuck her as hard as I could, but in reality I wanted to cry and be alone.
It felt good for a moment seeing my ex fall apart and having the final piece of the puzzle fit, but then again it's shit when it happens.

The next day I kicked the older woman out and started packing up all of my now exes belongings, she came to the door and wanted to talk and I pretty much continued packing her things whilst she explained her side but it didn't help. I told her, I can forgive you for what happened but I can never forget. You can only fix this relationship by going back into time, and never taking the same steps as you did at that time.

Movers came, boxed up all her shit and (a weak moment) hugged her goodbye and took a week off work just to sort myself out.

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Because I believe that if she was able to secretly be touchy with another man LITERALLY behind my back in a bar, then she must have been even more comfortable with another man when I wasn't around at all.

I also must admit, I wish I did. I miss her in many ways, but it's for the best that it ended. I want a life long partner that has the same values as me when it comes to having a partner, and that is staying loyal and sticking with each other and not having your sexual desires take over for a moment to ruin a life time that could have been.

I'm with another woman now and it's great, things work out in the end.

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Sure I'll feed your TikTok robot voice video
Ex, 7 years
Came home from work, there's a dude sitting in my computer chair.
>I'm going to make a crunchy PB and strawberry jam sandwich, I'm going to grab a Pepsi, when I come out of the kitchen I want you out of my seat.
I threw the roses away and she came out all pissed off at me for coming home early. I just sat silently eating my sandwich, sipping my Pepsi, and proceeded to check my wow mail for gold.
>If you didn't play that game all the time I wouldn't have cheated.
I didn't respond. I sat there and picked up the phone and ordered a pizza and wings. She was vegan. I asked the dude what kind of wings he liked. Hot wings. He turned the TV on and watched football while I played wow eating pizza and wings. It was a total bro moment because she had informed him that we were no longer together and I no longer lived in my house that I owned. She kept crying and throwing this huge tantrum and all he did was turn the volume up on the TV. I normally play with the sound off but I turned mine up as well and joined the Tuesday raid. She started to throw stuff at me and him. That's when I responded but not in the way you'd think. I caught her shoe before it hit my monitor and placed it gently on the floor next to me. She threw the other one at him and without missing a beat he caught it and sat on it. We just sat there drinking beer, not to get drunk just to get a good buzz going. She had called her mom to come pick her up crying like a 2 year old. Saying that I hit her. Thankfully dude was a bro and stuck up for me when the cops arrived.

I'm now happily married to his cousin. He's with someone new. Haven't heard from my ex in years. Sometimes the best way to respond to a situation is just to remain calm, don't lose your chill, and let things play out.

I’m happy for u bro. Sorry what happened. I hope she regrets it everyday

If thats true it's one of the most based things I've ever read

Sounds like u and bro may be friends kind of too now, no?