My girlfriend was raped and beaten up. I broke up with her right after she told me. This is what happened:
>Dating girlfriend for 7 months. >She wants to go to this sleazy club with her friend. >I told her I didn't want her to go. >Had an argument about it. She was like "You don't own me and I can do what I want." and that bullshit. >Told her if she went then I'm breaking up with her. >She said she wouldn't go and dropped it. >Saturday came. >Hadn't heard from her all day. >At 4AM on Sunday she calls me crying. >She says she got raped and beat up. >She went to the club anyway. Apparently she left alone with some guy and his friend to go to a party. They took her somewhere and beat her up and raped her. >Had many feelings about this, none of them pleasant. >I told her if she went to the club that I'd leave her and I told her we were over. >She started freaking out and saying she needs me right now and that she was sorry. >Told her never to call me again. >Have been getting rabid hate from her friends and my friends think I was way too cold. >She broke my trust, went somewhere I said not to, was probably going to end up cheating on me anyway and got raped and beaten over it and I'm suppose to feel sorry for her.
I saw her like yesterday and she was pretty beat up, she had bruises and a black eye and stuff. So I do believe she was raped but this wouldn't of happened if she had just listened to me. Everybody thinks I'm evil. My ex-girlfriend has been trying to talk to me but I have no desire to speak to her. You guys think I was too harsh? I just have a hard time feeling bad when I feel so right.
OP, you are fine. Yur dipshit ex is at fault for disobeying your wishes and leaving with two guys she would have probably consensually fucked anyway. The dumb whore got what she wanted you did right.
yeah you are evil, because yes you are technically right, but if you really cared for her, it's not about being right, it's about being there when she needs you the most. If you truly cared for her and her well being, you should be comforting her. She knows she fucked up already. Honestly, think about her mental state right now. Literally the most horrific and invasive thing to happen to her just occured, and her bf just dropped her. She has absolutely no security and trust in her heart right now. She cant feel safe with anyone. Im just saying what is from her perspective. If none of that stirs you at all, if you think being right is more important than that, then go ahead but I do believe you are at the very least unsympathetic, maybe even cruel or heartless. I would try to put your mindset into her perspective and ask yourself how youd feel if you were her right now. Obviously there are other compounding relationship problems. There was a breach of trust, things like that. However, this incident is separate from all the surrounding problems. Was it preventable, yes, but its not her fault. Remember, she didnt commit the crime. That's a heinous thing to do to someone. She will have mental damage for the rest of her life from this, and if you actually love her, youd be there for her right now because thats what she actually needs
Joseph King
Pretty badass move OP. Today, OP was not a faggot.
your right dont feel bad for the whore and move on with your life.
Leo Davis
Nah you told her what would happen if she went she wanted to be a strong independent women who doesn't need to listen to anyone and can make her own decisions. Now she can deal with the consequences like a strong independent women.
Connor Foster
Holy fuck this thread has been posted 3 times in the last 4 hours and it just feels in the suckers every time
Your girl has been getting raped and beaten and dumped everyday for the past week lol
Joshua Miller
Notice how feminist types always go "If you really cared you'd be there for her!" But never once acknowledge that if SHE really cared about OP she wouldn't go partying at clubs with sleazy guys? She told OP to his face she didn't care about him, so why should he care about her?
Not OP, but you have to consider a few things >7 months The relationship has only been going on for that long. You don't deeply love someone you know for 7 months. These are the very early stages of a relationship. So calling to OP's concept of love is just not correct here. Instead you would have to appall to his compassion. >She cant feel safe with anyone People have friends and family. Especially the latter one is what someone should mostly go to in these situations. This is a deeply traumatic event, you cannot expect a boyfriend of 7 months to be able to provide the necessary support in this case. >needs you right now Right, but how do you go about this? She won't recover from this within a few days, weeks or even months. This is not like an acute injury that OP can selflessly guide her through until he thinks it's the right moment to end it. This is something that will probably occupy her her entire life. So how do you propose OP goes about this situation, granted he wants to end the relationship eventually? Say your appall to his compassion for her makes him delay the inevitable and he pretends like everything is OK for a few weeks for her sake. It would be impossible for him to judge at what point he should end it. How long should he keep up the façade for her sake? Seems like a really shitty situation to maneuver yourself into, for both parties.
Leo Jackson
you are a piece of shit... first, why are you so insecure? if you're not a man to be with her now when she needs you, you're also not someone to let out at night or not. when you can see that you just wanted to be with her to have sex and enjoy life... just admit it, you don't have the guts to deal with it. talk to her tell her the truth "I'm just a piece of shit that doesn't know what to do sorry I'm not here for you" cry she'll understand.
Ian Diaz
Shut yo faggot bitch ass up.
You are a trash ass human being and if you had any decency you would not continue posting here like an user fucking coward but fix your fucking shit, you pathetic unmanly little bitch.
Nice dubs though.
Camden Brooks
Don't feel bad...She went with a bunch of strangers to find a "party"......Play stupid games, Win stupid prizes!
Joseph Jenkins
Oh look, this thread again
Josiah Collins
10/10 nice story bruh
Benjamin Collins
bemp
Jordan Howard
My gut feeling was you should be more empathetic, but the more I think about it the more I realize you're right. She made her choice, decided she didn't care enough about your relationship to heed your wishes. Now she got raped and you aren't together. Boo-fucking-hoo for her, now she has to ride the cock carousel again.
Easton Garcia
You did the right thing. She and her friends are cunts shit testing you.
