I have a huge crush on my best friend and today she told she hooked up with some random guy at a party.
Does anyone have tips on how to move on with my life and to stop having feelings for her?
I have a huge crush on my best friend and today she told she hooked up with some random guy at a party
Jose Rogers
Luke Flores
/adv/ newfag
Jayden Ross
i thought about posting this there but i figured that here i would get answers faster
Noah Cruz
You can only ever really rely on yourself to be happy. Think about what you want for yourself. It's always nice to get love and validation from others, everyone wants that. But you have to be able to fall back on yourself if it doesn't feel like others are there for you.
Gabriel Parker
raw life tip: to move on and stop having feelings, simply have an amazing escalation that results in the destruction of your relationship. Or ghost. It's basically the same thing nowadays.
If you seek a middleground to keep more, my answer is a simple warning that you are being too greedy for this broken world. It won't end better. GL regardless OP. My rose colored glasses are shattered.
Jayden Morgan
Tell her you want to hook up with her. If she says yes, enjoy. If not just tell her you cant put aside your desire to fuck her and therefore you cant be friends with her.
Go be free
Jaxon Russell
Go find yourself a virgin trad wife if that's what you want. Otherwise, accept the fact that all women are whores who will fuck anyone except you.
Gabriel Peterson
Have a nice old self-pitying whine on a Cambodian Knitting forum about what a spineless loser you are then neck yourself for acting like a 12YO girl.
>You're halfway there, champ.
Ethan Long
I don't have many friends, don't think it would be a good ideia to ghost her.
Thanks user, i will start making plans right now
This didn't help so i'm gonna ignore you
Colton Harris
>Does anyone have tips on how to move on with my life and to stop having feelings for her?
You just will, given enough time. The feelings won't completely go away, though. Mine got married awhile back.
Jack Allen
why not just tell her you fucking retard
Elijah Gutierrez
Because it would be weird. We're really close, and i don't want to fuck our friendship up.
Austin Brown
Your friendship is already fucked up. You want to fuck her, you cant be friends retard.
Benjamin Sullivan
and why is your friendship more important than your mental wellbeing?
Caleb Roberts
You will die alone from terminal virginity.
Robert Brooks
kek, true, i don't know what i'm doing
Jacob Gomez
It's not, i'm just afraid of cutting ties with her
Julian Hernandez
cant be a good friendship though if you have to hide things from her
Nolan Fisher
As i said before, i don't have that many friends. Getting along with her is enough, but i don't know how to process the anger/jealously i feel towards her.
Christopher Brown
Tbh, you gotta change your perspective. Having feelings for her is fine and you can deal with those in a number of ways. What's hurting you right now is known as " the Madonna/whore complex". You've idealized her in your mind and her being as base of an animal as a human with a sex drive doesn't sit with that. Your mind is having troubles handling both sides since they are incompatible. Its not your feelings that's the problem. Women can want and have sex without it being a negative and entirely separate from if you two ever connect romantically or sexually.
This is one of those things you either deal with and straighten yourself out on, or you become a raging incel.
Noah Sanchez
stop having crushes
shit's literal highschool shit
it takes 4~8 hours of interaction with a woman to get into bed with her
if you meet a new chick, hang out a couple of times and it doesnt go anywhere after that then it's done.
if you arent fucking a chick after a week or two of meeting her then the opportunity is gone
DONT be one of those faggots that sighs over some girl for 6~18 months and then wonders why they suddenly got/have a boyfriend out of nowhere
also remember, if you're young (which you probably are cuz you write like a whiny fag) then just hook up with some 30+ yo women.
30~45yo women will ABSOLUTELY throw themselves at you if you're 18~25
not to mention women are at their horniest when they're at that age.
do yourself a favour, fuck some older girls, learn a shitload, have actual good fucking sex with experienced girls and then you'll move on with your life