My girlfriend got raped and beaten up. I broke up with her right after she told me. This is what happened:
>Dating girlfriend for 7 months. >She wants to go to this sleazy club with her friend. >I told her I didn't want her to go. >Had an argument about it. She was like "You don't own me and I can do what I want." and that bullshit. >Told her if she went then I'm breaking up with her. >She said she wouldn't go and dropped it. >Saturday came. >Hadn't heard from her all day. >At 4AM on Sunday she calls me crying. >She says she got raped and beat up. >She went to the club anyway. Apparently she left alone with some guy and his friend to go to a party. They took her somewhere and beat her up and raped her. >Had many feelings about this, none of them pleasant. >I told her if she went to the club that I'd leave her and I told her we were over. >She started freaking out and saying she needs me right now and that she was sorry. >Told her never to call me again. >Have been getting rabid hate from her friends and my friends think I was way too cold. >She broke my trust, went somewhere I said not to, was probably going to end up cheating on me anyway and got raped and beaten over it and I'm suppose to feel sorry for her.
I saw her like yesterday and she was pretty beat up, she had bruises and a black eye and stuff. So I do believe she was raped but this wouldn't of happened if she had just listened to me. Everybody thinks I'm evil. My ex-girlfriend has been trying to talk to me but I have no desire to speak to her. You guys think I was too harsh? I just have a hard time feeling bad when I feel so right.
Nah man, she would cheat on you one way or another that night. You did right thing.
Gavin Hall
You're based but I do have to admit that was cold of you. It would be better to have broken up with her after she calmed down. That is just my two cents.
Brayden Hill
You made it very clear what the consequences would be and you stuck to that. Good on you. Move on.
Mason Cox
she literally left the club with GUYS to go to a PARTY. You dodged a bullet user. Btw you are right, dont feel bad.
Only thing i wonder is why didn't you wanna go to the club with your girl?
Zachary Richardson
Anyone can go to a club, but you have to go out of your way to get yourself into a position where you are raped. Unless she went to the female bathroom and got jumped, she literally opened herself up for the attack. Her mind is immature. She has major psych issues, and so do her ego friends.
Drop her OP. AND BE PROUD. This person is not qualified to be in your company, let alone one day marry and have a family with.
My story >First major gf >Tells me her last bf cheated on her >She has bat shit insane jealousy and trust issues >I put up with it however I have no temper and refuse to be around people with a temper >She continues to get mad in public (even if I ask the waitress for food when I'm responsible for ordering) >Refused to introduce her to my parents and friends
One time we were having a house party and playing Mario kart 64. I had the lightning . She was princess and I got the lightning right before the jump on wario stadium. She was so mad she went into the garage and smashed a beer bottle on the floor. Said she "dropped it".
>Dumped her cold Turkey >She begged me to stay and I refused
Years later. Meet a girl with my same personality. Married her. Happy as ever.
Forgot this part >After breaking up I find out that her last bf broke up with her too She refused to accept it and when he was meeting other girls she called it "he cheated on me" each time >Issues kept going to the point where she broke into her ex bf's house to wait for him in the dark for when he got home >His male roommate came home instead and that's how I learned the story
I would hit the lighting again, zero hesitation
Lucas Evans
Never look back user.....
Mason James
She was obviously planning to cheat on you. Something bad happened to her and it sucks, but changes nothing.
Grayson Martin
Isn't this literally an older reddit AITA? OP you are a faggot.
Carter Cruz
summerfagging never ends user. look at the posts here. all summerfags
Henry Butler
You did everything right if you ask me. You warned that bitch, she didn't listen, now she's got to live with the consequences. That's life.
Ryder Collins
It doesn't matter. The threads enjoyment is seeing responses
I would have attempted to support her in the short term, but still left her afterwards. She lied to you OP. The assault was unfortunate, but she told you she wouldn’t go after you expressed concerns and tried to stop her. You are not responsible for what happened and although it was cold of you to do so suddenly, breaking up was the right thing to do in the long term. It’s sketchy at the very least that she was willing to leave with some random guys.
Aaron Hughes
>Apparently she left alone with some guy and his friend to go to a party If this is true, then she was going to cheat on you for sure, with 2 guys .. but you're still a dick for treating her like shit. You should've calm her down first. I also think you seem too controlling.
Benjamin Parker
1. If anyone says you were being manipulative or over-powering in the relationship for not allowing her to go to the club, tell them to fuck off. Two adults in a consenting relationship are allowed to have boundaries and draw lines. It’s up to her to talk to you about it and have those discussions with you. If you have those discussions and she agrees not to go to the club, and then still goes, that’s 100% breaking the trust and it means she probably would’ve cheated on you at some point anyways.
2. There’s literally no situation where dumping a girl after she got attacked and/or raped isn’t going to result in you being sent tons of hate nonstop from all angles. The only difference is in this situation, what you did was entirely justified. Hopefully the people in your life will understand that eventually.
You did everything right and nothing wrong, no different from how I and/or anyone else in my life would have. Definitely a tough decision and I give my props to you for sticking to your guns and doing what you believe in in the face of adversity. Good job user.
Aaron Scott
She is a broken toy now. Never look back.
Luis Gomez
You're better off without her user, this is not some kind of edgy 4channie hurr durr. If people don't respect you you will soon stop to respect yourself.
Leave the rage also, you're not to blame for anything. Her/Your friends are probably shitty sluts or a bunch of pathetic white knights.
