social butterflies of Any Forums, i need your help bros.
basically my family are a bunch of incompetent retards that dont want me to learn shit about the real world until im 20-30yo. its baffling and im facing a major life crisis because of this. its a very peculiar situation but not uncommon and i dont wanna go too deep into it.
i am 18 will soon turn 19 and have severe anxiety due to how my family treats me like a pampered prince.
if time came for them to suddenly push me to interact properly with society, i need advice in how to socialize better
>inb4 "go outside talk to people"
>i currently cant im sorry
my question is what do i do to not look like an autistic retard irl? give me some pointers in socializing. i dont want to end up like chris chan, i at least have awareness of my situation not like him. a simple greentext list is fine. thanks bros.
Social butterflies of Any Forums, i need your help bros
kys before your parents die if shame.
Go outside and talk to people
just to add: im not planning to find a woman for my "lovequest". i dont want to extend this bloodline it absolutely disgusts me thinking about that. but do tell me how to "properly" act with women to the point where i dont look retarded.
i appreciate any advice from any type of person.
Silly noob.
The XP points spent on a stat can never be excessive. If you have most spent on DEXT already just go with that build for now and change class after you've farmed enough XP.
Also don't ask for advice here retard.
nah man its a single mom household and that in itself you can already see the problem. and in this family im too pampered to the point where most of my movement is restricted. my friends i got from school before pandemic is pushed away because of overprotection from my family. i dont know if its an obsession of parental instinct or what but it is how it is. its very unhealthy and im scared for the upcoming dread of my next 30 years of life.
Dubs of sincerity
my mother wont let me because covid. thats the situation.
Trips of wellspentness
nah man i used to find good advice in b. sure its filled with trolls but theres nuggets of wisdom here and there if youre not retarded.
Or he could just start fresh and redo his character. If you have a bad build, you have a bad build.
maybe do socializing over the internet, like VR chat and stuff? I've had some decent smalltalk in chat in Grand Theft Auto Online sometimes. And as a literal Assberg, I can say yeah it takes some practice, just remember most other people are okay with some akwardness, try not to over think it.
get a part time job. doesn't necessarily have to be something that requires constant interaction like a sales clerk, just something that places you among people.
There's wisdom? No
There's useful info? Sure there's redpills
There's insulting amounts of blackpills? Yes
Just be yourself
>vr chat
broke cant do that. i dont play vidya because i dont want to ask money for video games. im scared that i'll lose track of life if i get addicted to the small glimpses of interactive escapism in video games. reading translated light novels in some shitty blogsite is enough.
also i dont want to do discord too. i always attract the weirdest people for some reason. but ok maybe i'll consider it again.
Hmmm
Just change build
Move out and cut your parents off or at least distance from them, they spoil you to keep you dependent on them, your life is going to suck under them
Get a job, move out, the rest will come on its own
user youre not going to believe this, they dont even let me make my own bank account. i dont even have a bank account because they want to pay for everything im going to buy and they dont see anything wrong with it.
now imagine me trying to get a part time job.
>basically my family are a bunch of incompetent retards that dont want me to learn shit about the real world until im 20-30yo
>i am 18
Leave. Simple as. You're an adult and they don't have power over you. You'll need a place to live and a source of money though. If they'll let you, getting a job while still living at home is a great way to build up some savings to cushion you when you inevitably do leave and figuratively land on your ass.
>my question is what do i do to not look like an autistic retard irl? give me some pointers in socializing.
There are a bunch of YouTube videos out there by autistic creators talking about their experiences with autism, problems they've had and how they did or didn't overcome them.
i need to finish my studies first, i still need to finish education first before i do moving out stuff. this mindset of mine is currently secret from all of them. and also refer to
i just need advice for socializing for now.
it does seem that discord vc is your best option.
see user the irony is you already gave me enough wisdom by pointing this out. thanks bro. wisdom doesnt need to be as convoluted as college hippie philosophy.
oh. i never thought about vc for some reason. i always thought discord is only good for text chat. mics arent that expensive so i'll go try to get one.
i know you had good intentions writing this user but im so fucking sorry. pls refer to
>they dont even let me make my own bank account
You're an adult, you don't need their permission to open a bank account. You will need your SSN and some form of ID though if you're in the US, or some equivalent if you're not. If I recall, when I opened by first bank account I used my passport that my family got me when we were getting ready to travel overseas. (US advice) If you don't have an ID, you can get a non-driving state ID at an RMV/DMV location, but will need your SSN, probably birth certificate and likely some mail though the requirements vary by state.
You can also get a job without a bank account. They'd just give you a check that you take to a bank or check casher to turn into cash. They charge some fee to cash a check without having an account at the bank though.
here bros a sad (or funny depending on how you see it) redit post for anyone still here
is a school id from highschool enough or what. im not in the US so i think no SSN here. and also are bank accounts really that important? can you live an entirety of your life not relying on that. im not saying i wont make one but im just not super convinced.
the consequences of herd mentality
it's uncommon these days, but if your employer is willing to agree to it, you can be paid by check instead of bank deposit. bear in mind however that such an arrangement would mean a lot more paperwork for them.
alternatively what about an unpaid internship or volunteer work?
You need a way to store and pay with money.
If you pay in cash, that means you would have a stockpile under your mattress or something, and a housefire would bankrupt you in more ways than one. You can't pay for an airline ticket with cash, or a house, though you can do car I suppose.
Get an ID anyway regardless of bank account, as you can't buy car or next to anything without one.
heres another banger. thanks for the tips guys.
Go on a long holiday somewhere and stay in a hostel. That will force you to socialise
>unpaid internship and volunteer work
you know ye that sounds nice. that helps me with socializing and gives me work experience right? tho, because of my current mental state (anxiety and feeling of always being caged in) maybe i'll continue my home workouts first and try out discord vc first to build my confidence a bit. maybe study a bit more so that i can finish education. (yes i turned a neet just this past year because of anxiety and the weight of money, i almost fainted when i heard about tuition.)
o ok ok thanks user. everything in this thread is screenshotted so i wont forget it! you sold me on bank accounts.