I am 30 and can't hold a relatively smart conversation, I think i'm dumb as bricks and hated reading...

American Gods by Neil Gain an

I read it as a teen and was enthralled. Then I read it again in my late twenties and found so much more to enjoy.

I am actually listening to a podcast with jordan peterson, his knowledge is so extensive. Didn't know he had a book list thats awesome that you mentioned that. I like him and also ben shapiro (the latter more for entertainment i think, at least thats what i tell myself)

*Gaiman
Fucking autocorrect I hate smartphones

haha was about to ask! thanks, and i have added it to my list!