Ever since I was a little kid I’ve wanted to join the military and go into Special Operations (USA here) like I literally barely gave anything else thought because I knew for a fact when I was 18 I would join. But now I am able to join and finally an adult, and fuck. Problem
My girlfriend would leave me. She’s not gonna let it happen. She’s amazing. Literally the only person I can stand pretty much. Her voice is so cozy. She’s nice to me and I love her . She’s not perfect but no one is. But fuck guys I cant lose her
So i guess I’m gonna give up on my dream and go into marketing and sales. No real point to this thread. I just wanted to vent and hopefully Someone responds. Aaaaa fuck boys
If a single woman can make you give up on your dream you are a fag unworty of joining the army
Christian Wilson
She’s not just a woman. She’s the reason I’m grounded. She’s the reason I feel safe and the reason Im not reckless. She gives me a reason for everything. Dude this girl is better than any girl you’ve ever met. Your girlfriend is like a 4 and mine is a 10. No offense, kek
Kevin Clark
I left my long term gf who thought we will get married to join SOF
[spoiler] No regrets [/spoiler]
Justin Evans
I would regret it. We almost broke up and it was the worst pain I’ve ever had in my fucking heart. I didn’t eat. Didn’t do anything. Was so fucking hopeless. I want to do the job more than any other job but I never went to feel that feeling again. Everyday with her is amazing.
Maybe if she was shitty, treated me bad, abused me or something easily. But she’s done me so good. She’s given me food when I was broke and I’ve done the same. 3 years she’s been everything. Fuck user. I wish I could live vicariously through you. Is it really as awesome as they say
Oliver Rivera
If you're this much of a pussy you won't make it in sof
Jackson Young
nigger I can guarantee I would make it. I know what it means and it isn’t something to take lightly, but I am confident enough to wager 4-5 years of my life being taken away scrubbing a ship or guarding a shack for daddy sam if I didn’t pass selection
Ayden Miller
What life would be better if you took the choice? In my view its worse putting purpose into a single person
Daniel Parker
Gonna be the faggot voice of reason here, if this is genuinely how you feel then that just means what you want in life has changed so just be a faggot and stay here, shit you could even be a cop and become plain clothes boy or swat probably be the closest thing, after that you could always move up to fed positions. You have more options in your reach than you’re realizing retard.
Brayden Hernandez
what a cuck. no really you must be fucking retarded giving up your dream for a bitch. like you fucking children could stay together for more than 2 years anyway. have fun cuck
You only been with this bitch 3yrs?! And you think this shits forever!?! Lmao! God if theres anything that I DON'T miss about being young. It's being this fucking stupid about women. Please remember this conversation years down the road when you think about how you threw your life away for your disgusting ass puppy love
Blake Walker
The idea of living a military dream. You do realize there is a 80% suicide rate after they leave the military service after only 4 years. Also they don't pay well. They get paid less than minimum wage and earn about $1600 a month. A MONTH. After 3 years it goes up to $2000. But you still have to pay taxes so your take home is still $1600 a month.
You travel the world, break your bones and body and mind for no future. You sign away your future. There's a reason why there are less than 500,000 veterans in all of America covering 50 years. They all died young.
Bentley Taylor
As someone assigned TIO to a SEALs unit, trust me it isn't worth it. The pay sucks and the job is nothing like you think it'll be. We all want out. Stay a civilian, you'll be happier.
Jacob Rodriguez
I mean, no matter what I’d do i would try and “rise to the top” and become elite in that, sales can get you some good money, and she’s already starting some businesses with a family friend (inb4), so I mean we’d probably be good for sure.
But I wouldn’t be doing all the spook shit I want to. Wouldn’t the chance to do everything I burned for.
But let’s say I did join, I’d be heartbroken. Probably unironically wouldn’t make it if I broke up with her simply due to be me not being “all in”. Actually that’s a good point I just made. At this point even if I did break up it would do so much damage, and I can’t go back to a time before I met her. So I’m kinda locked in and would be fucked either way. But I’d still have a decent chance at literally doing my dream job.
I don’t think I’ll lose her though. it for sure is not good to have all my eggs in one basket, and all tbis investment, but we unironcally have great communication, and are both realistic and also reasonable.
Yeah I thought about being a cop. Still kinda am stuck on that. I’m disgusted by “bro vet bro cop t shirt haha bad guy bad “ shit though. And you’re at an inherent unnecessary disadvantage because you’re banned from using a humans number one survival skill, stereotyping and anticipating, lest you become swarmed by BLM riots. Detectives could be cool though and I could larp. Thanks user. It is how I feel though. There’s such strong emotions from me not wanting to, and also wanting to. It’s like a car on reverse but accelerating
Landon Adams
>My girlfriend would leave me because of a job opportunity that would open me up to seek higher education and some upward mobility Tells me everything I need to know. Have fun at 30 going through your first major breakup. Hope there's no kids involved.
Alexander Harris
Dude fuck the bitches go out there and kill some sand niggers
Christian Anderson
No retard
>what are long nights alone
>what are an absent husband
>what are raising kids alone
>what are wondering if he’s dead or in danger at night
Joshua Johnson
If you can`t fight this addiction now, be ready to live a life of a miserable office clerk who can't fight either himself or say no to his woman. Because believe me, one day she will fuck your brains out completely and you`ll regret you`ve not joined the army. Go for your dream, don`t let a woman change your way. You are not her POSSESSION.
>what is Syria >what is Iraq >what is Afghanistan >what is Yemen
Parker Wilson
i meant for another 2 years. and I'm married. wouldn't recommend that either. it's fucking funny though how you really think this bullshit with your bitch mathers just bc she cares to suck your dick. just like another user said, remember this day fag