My gf of 3 years (we have a kid togheter) is getting very lazy recently, especially about her hygiene. She can go days without showering and shes been using the same panties and bra for a month now. Wtf do i do? It turns me off so much i dont want even want to be close to her, but i do love her.
My gf of 3 years (we have a kid togheter) is getting very lazy recently, especially about her hygiene...
Sounds like she's broken bro, might as well trade her in for a newer model
just talk to her, moron
Talk to her. Sounds like depression, ask her whats wrong, that you've noticed she seems to be struggling with things lately and if there's anything you can do to help. Don't tell her she stinks or say anything that could make her feel guilt or shame otherwise she'll become defensive and pushback even if she knows you're right.
I know i need to talk to her, duh, the question is how do i bring up these specific points? Shes been like this before in our relationship and i just started washing our clothes so i knew it was clean etc
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I read a reddit post once were a guy had problems with his girlfriends hygiene, but didn't want to talk about it. He just kept compliment her when she smelled good or shaved etc. She changed through rhis positive reinforcement. Maybe you can apply this to your situation. Or you can openly talk to her about it.
Mine is the same, she’s a “stay at home Mom” so she doesn’t do shit all day but drink coffee and smoke cigs. Her breath fucking reaks. I’ve made numerous “suggestions” about going to the dentist, she doesn’t even acknowledge it. My only advice is to not knock up the wrong chick, it will ruin your life
Hm sounds like a good idea, thanks
stop showering for a month and keep wearing the same clothes, this will teach her
Dump her in the sea and get a new one
whenever you come home from work say things like
>Whew! what is that smell!?! it smells like someone hasn't showered in days and has worn the same underwear for an entire month. Disgusting. I'm gonna go throw up
A lot of the time these things happen because the relationship is in poor repair. Figure out hoe you can be tje best partner possible (not the NICEST, but the BEST) and do it. Figure out if she's upset about anything. If you change and she doesnt, just leave.
>people that shouldn't reproduce reproduced
many such cases. sad!
Lmao no man i love her and wont be mean, i do however say 'maybe its time to shower' and stuff like this but it doesnt change her behaviour. I havent said anything about the panties though
Yea we just had a kid, so it is stressfull, but a fresh pair of panties is that too much? What if i buy her a bunch of new pantiea, think that will make her realise it?
tell the bitch she fuckin stinks
dont be a faggot. just rape her.
Might have something like depression.
This might sound strange but explain how you see the situation and make her wash on the regular idealy after she did some sports.
Human bodies have flaws an engineer would never have agreed to -> we must excercise to stay healthy.
saying things like maybe its time to shower and passive aggresively buying her underwear are some of the worst things you can do
How come?
Ask her like a dad if she has showered and tell her the importance of hygiene and that you care about her. Show some emotion but don't go full fag, stand strong and firm but not like a leech.
Wrong pic oops
because its mean, just listen to what this guy said. Maybe lead off with asking her how she is feeling after having the baby as many new mothers experience postpartum depression
I'm sorry you were bullied by your parents instead of talked to reasonably about these things.
I have never been bullied in my entire life I was just joking haha