I need some advice Any Forums because I honestly don't know where else to turn. This is no suicide shit though, just some frustration.
First off, I am frustrated and resent certain behaviours women have and I have no one to talk to about it. I am surrounded by women, yes men and simps. I used to use this anonymous student app called Jodel where I would pose questions, start discussions and ask these sort of things but I got banned for bullshit reasons. This is a consequence of the world being so pussy and sensitive which I believe is a consequence of society adapting to women's emotional tolerance.
The behaviors I mentioned earlier include, but are not limited to, manipulation and gaslighting. So to you guys who don't feel this bitterness, how do you deal with it? I was oblivious to it until about two years ago and now I can't see it. It annoys me to the bone.
women are not the only people who manipulate and gaslight others. does that solve your problem for you?
Samuel Perez
Mgtow
Robert White
I resent faggy incels who look to externalize their mental illness onto outgroups. Take responsibility for your retardation, your life just might become less pathetic.
Jack Barnes
Does not. If a guy does any of that, you can call him out on it, shit even kick his ass. Women don't even seem to be aware of it themselves.
Henry Clark
Could you elaborate on that or do you only have strawmen to back you?
Noah Anderson
Being angry and how society chooses to behave is a losing battle. People are always going to have their opinions, as are you.
There will be those who will listen to what you have to say and others will look you up and down and dismiss you automatically because of how you look or dress.
Fuck the lot of them. Say what you want and be true to what your gut tells you is right (Unless you're causing physical violence or knowingly spreading false information because [you'll lose credibility and no one will listen to anything you say when you really have something important to say]).
When you start to get frustrated, that's when they win. Or, if a collective is starting to say some shit, ask yourself why they're saying it rather than automatically dismissing it. Take a moment to look at what's being said and ask "Why is this being said?"
Once you've taken some time to understand it, if you think it's still stupid, call it stupid.
Emotional responses can be the death of logic.
Ian Rivera
Are you talking about the women part or the app part now? I have appealed already to lift my ban but they haven't responded. It's bullshit because I know I haven't broken any of their rules. It's just a user moderated community but people just ban shit they don't agree with or dislike.
Henry Nelson
Women are just as aware of their actions as men are. Men and women are equally capable in doing these things. Either accept that both men and women are generally awful people, or you're just retarded.
Dylan Jackson
Society in general. That streams into apps, forums, etc. It's a good life lesson.
Don't limit it to just women, because that's ignorance. Saying WAHMEN BAD makes people not listen to you and screams idiocy. That's why you're getting flak in this thread.
People as a whole are idiotic and have already been programmed to think a narrative. By using sexism, racism, etc. you're going to cut you audience by a significant amount.
What exactly did you say that got you banned from the app? And what was the context?
Christian Williams
Are they though? Because whenever you confront them on it they deny it until you've turned over every stone they can hide under. Is that intentional as well? Because it sure doesn't fucking help their case. Guys don't go that far to be assholes.
Brayden Mitchell
Do I have proof that taking responsibility and working to improve yourself will improve your life? That's your actual question? Yea let me just type up a thesis.
Michael Ramirez
See what I mean? When you bring sexism/racism/xenophobia into it, no one takes you seriously.
You're generalizing women based on the experiences you've had. Are their women like that? Sure. But there are plenty that aren't. You just gotta find your group. And you aren't ever going to find them by hating women as a whole...
Andrew Stewart
>Guys don't go that far to be assholes. Yes they do. Anything else?
Grayson Harris
I'm not saying men aren't pieces of shit as well. I'm saying women are unconscious unreasonable assholes while men are intentional assholes.
I was given no context. When I contacted them, they only said it was pushy sexual behavior or something. The closest thing I came to that was commenting "wow you're cute" on a girl posting a selfie.
In order to get banned, however, you need 3 temporary bans first. The first one was because my score became negative (people downvoted my comments in a discussion). The second was for provocative behavior even though I wasn't provoking. I don't provoke people at all. The people reporting me however most likely do it as I'm often called insults.
Andrew Davis
lmao... no... their are plenty of guys who aren't even away of their douchebaggery... I know because I used to be one of them...
I was raised a certain way with some toxic masculinity shit that caused me to treat people like shit...It wasn't until I went to therapy and talked to friends that I realized what the fuck I was doing.
And there are a LOT of people, both men and women who are like this... That's why it's important to normalize common decency and eliminate stereotypes through education. For this very reason.
Lucas Wright
But it is not in context to what I'm writing, at least that's what I'm asking for.
I'm not saying ALL women, obviously I can't know if ALL women are like that, but I can't meet every woman either, can I? However, as I've come to this "revelation" I recognize this type of behavior EVERYWHERE. LITERALLY EVERYWHERE. Family, friends, colleagues, bosses, strangers; the list goes on. It's not a coping mechanism, I literally encounter and recognize it in every girl I meet. Those I haven't seen it in yet, I expect to see it if I hang around them enough. That doesn't mean that I can't tolerate women, I do love women, but the behaviors are infuriating.
I have been bullied and I'm telling you, male assholishness is not the same as female assholishness.
What type of "education" do you suggest? I am Swedish and feminism is a widely accepted concept here. While I embrace some ideas (I used to be a full supporter while I was younger), some are just hypocritical or not in alignment with equality/equity. Furthermore, even when they are on a leveled plane, women continue being abusive.
Aaron Sanders
Like, how is education going to help me cope with these behaviors I experience with women? I'm guessing you're thinking that "if I realize that men are just as bad and do the same shit, I can 'forgive' women as I realize everybody are pieces of shits". But I don't tolerate male bullshit either, but I can DEAL with it. I know there are ways to counter it. With women, however, it just keeps on coming and it never changes. I know because my mother has been doing the shit to me despite me pointing it out to her. I moved away from home because of it and she STILL does it. I've had two female bosses and both of them did it to me.
Jaxson Hughes
"resent certain behaviours women have" "banned for bullshit reasons" you called someone a slut or a nigger, didn't you
Jack Long
Change what you can change. Ignore what you can't. Schools are filled with young people who don't know shit but think they know a lot. Let life beat everyone into submission for a decade then take a glance around and see how everyone turns out.
Focus on you and you alone.
Liam Campbell
No.
That's why I'm asking how I can cope with this shit. I realize that they won't change so how the fuck can I rationalize this?
