Really looking for advice in getting my gf involved in swinging/a gangbang, only want it to happen once...

Really looking for advice in getting my gf involved in swinging/a gangbang, only want it to happen once, never discussed any of this with her, what do you think?

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You are a dumb bitch asking to be cuckolded. It's never "just once", moron.

>only want it to happen once
I think you might be retarded

You should see a doctor about that mental illness you got.

That isn't how this shit works. It doesn't "only happen once". You get into this once and it will never stop it will continue the entire relationship.

I think you're a completely worthless human being.

ok bro get this straight.
you and lets say 5 girls is good
you and your gf with 5 other wankers is no good!
>YOU get it!

Do it. Life is short and it’s really hot. Don’t be insecure about it either. You can absolutely do it just once. Don’t be a submissive cuck, just allow your wife/gf to swing like a hotwife scenario. You control everything. You have ultimate authority. Everyone should do what you say, when you say it.

You do what you want, and you want what you want, don't get influenced by the stupid standards people above me have written,
HOWEVER,
they have a point : don't expect this to happen only once. There is a possibility she loves it and will do it again.
So be sure you can accept that before doing it.

All that will happen is she will find guy after guy and not many women will be into you.

So you will take her from maybe sleeping from a few guys to 30+ real fast.

She will also probably cheat on you with other men because its honestly that easy for women.

If you do plan to break up then just do it and keep the next one for yourself.

don't listen to the jew. your girl is YOUR GIRL ONLY. let nobody else have her. go apeshit if anyone touches her. if she thinks about stepping out, smack her and rape her.

OPs ruined relationship in 3,2,1…

OP is this your GF? Drop your kik if so

First off if she's into it... Get a new girlfriend. Second if your more or less pressuring her into she will always resent you for it and eventually will leave you. Third if this is what your into get a fuckin therapist and figure out why your such a degenerate you have a compulsion to watch the person who should be the mother of your children getting fucked by random dudes. Anyone living these kinds of lifestyles are living a lie. Anyone happily with their partner and content in life doesn't need or want that shit.

Post nose

only go to gangbangs when you're like a week or two from breaking up anyway. They usually only let couples in because of how bad the female to male ratio is.

But I'd never be a swinger as a lifestyle choice. We have very few true tests of loyalty in a relationship. Being faithful is one of them. Adding sex, even with your partners consent and participation muddies those waters.

Having sex with someone else goes from this huge act of betrayal to a simple misunderstanding of the rules or situation. Humans are naturally insecure, and can't handle those sorts of dynamics. Some can but the majority can't.

In my experience the only people I knew that were into group stuff with their partners were these manipulative creeps from university that didn't really love or like their partners, they were just using them for sex anyway, so they didn't really feel any attachment when they were getting passed around.

Bernzo Banzoie

>You have ultimate authority.

the absolute cope
you sound like a bad salesman

Talk to her honestly about it. Explain what you are hoping to get out of it and see if she is in to it. Do not press the issue. If she already has done/wants a threesome, you have an in. Explain to her that those rarely happen organically, and this type of situation would be a safe way to explore with no commitment to anything.
Explore her fantasies. She may want it but be afraid of looking like a slut. Again, do not press the issue. If you nag her about it she will say no. Once you explore the idea initially, let it sit in the back of her mind. Bring it up again on some night where you're already being frisky. Think date night where she's had a couple and might want to explore your suggestions more.
Sometimes you need a catalyst. Some guy or girl to drop the idea back in her head without your intervention. That needs luck.
Anyway, just let the idea grow with her and, if she's inclined to the idea already, eventually she will want to explore it with you.
2 bits advice from someone who got there with his wife:
1) honesty always. Be up front with what you're both comfortable with and what you wouldn't be comfortable with. And respect those boundaries
2)you both have the right to say no to any situation. And you both should feel comfortable saying no. If you're not in to a person/couple/group then she needs to accept that and its the end of that situation. Same in reverse. You HAVE to honor her right to nope out of a situation. Or the whole thing all together. If you pressure her, it's gonna end bad for you.


Trust me. I'm not an expert, but I've seen successes and failures and you don't want the latter.

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Oh one more thing. Don't expect it to be like the porn you've seen that probably piqued your interest in this. It's nothing like the porns. Especially multiple guys with one or two girls. It's messy and awkward and you're gonna get fluids on you that aren't yours or hers. Get comfortable with accepting that you may get some guys cum on your dick or leg or wherever, depending on where in the pile you are or if some dude blasts off early inside/on her.

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