What's Any Forums's opinion on an open relationship
tl;dr great relationship, sex is boring and none existential, open relationship is an option but I could end up as a cuck
Had a pretty nasty talk with my gf where I was talking about breaking up
To add a little bit of context: >Be me >24years old gf same >Couple for 3.5 years and know each other for 10+ years >She told me about 2 weeks ago that the thought of another sex partner is interesting to her because sex is boring and very frequently mainly because I am not dominant and because she wishes for more affection outside of bedroom >Sex is like this since the beginning but it was way more often back then >Right know both of us are very absent on the physical level
Before any of you fat fucks advise me to rape and dump her afterwards let me tell you this. I feel she is my soulmate and she feels the same way even tho im talking about breaking up. Everything is lovely except the physical level and I feel that if anyone would be the mother of my kids it would be her.
I have 2 fears. One being that I won't be able to tolerate that some other dude that clearly has more masculine attributes than me is fucking her wich will just mess up the relationship even more.
And the other one is that she will have all the fun with getting dicked down by Chad's and I won't get any girl and basically get CUCKED.
I'm kind of a mixture of normie and a beta. I am 176cm (that's about 5'9 for fucktards) I started working out 5 months ago and it's going quite well so I think that my physical attributes won't be as big of an issue despite me being kinda short. I am not fat but I sometimes have a quite strong autism brain wich makes meeting other girls a challenge.
not readin all your plebbit peep frog bullshit get the fuck out of your dumbass relationship retard think for 2 seconds where did you get your view of relationships? real life exp? or bullshit marketing and memes you found online? you have no fucking clue what you're doing, quit thinking with your dick. if you arent satisfied with your gf MOVE ON dont just fuck other whores expecting that niche in your life to be filled now thats fuckin retarded, like you also never go back to plebbit. you are making yourself retarded with confirmation bias. fucking stop being a baka idiot retard already n00b
Julian Hall
It’s the death of the relationship almost every time. Women will receive far more attention, you will be watching your girl get dicked down on the regular. The fact that your sex life has plummeted and she isn’t just looking to remedy that is an issue. She already has a wandering eye, either you go for this or she breaks up with you. Break up and get back together when you’re older and more capable of sustaining a sex life with one person over a long time. Your libidos don’t match, your testosterone is too low and she wants the sexual capability of someone who is more capable than you. It’s rough to hear but it’s completely true. Do not ever open up your relationship, the moment another man gives her what she needs she will have the easiest changeover in history, already fucking another guy all she needs to do is just dump you and she’s got herself a better man. Girls often struggle to differentiate sex and feelings (hell everyone does to an extent). You won’t just be pushing one aspect onto this new sex partner for her you’ll be creating a whole new lot of feelings that shouldn’t exist for another man. You will become a good friend or brother to her, most likely she will lose respect for you due to your lack of presence in the bed.
Lucas Johnson
Very reasonable statement but why is she in tears and can't think of anyone else except me When something is still clearly wrong. If she would just dump me for why doesn't she say fuck it right now when I already talked about breaking up
As much as I like to confront myself with your criticism, you are not making a valid point here
Cooper Foster
She literally wants her cake and to eat it too. Have some self respect, kick her to the curb and move on.
Christopher Harris
Ohh look the kids are making polygamy fashionable
Caleb Thomas
Obviously my feelings are mixed up right now so I can't think straight anyways. It's a valid point you made currently I am just getting suggestions. So would you say that no matter what the feelings are no one should ever try to fuck around with trying to change the relationship. Because we both clearly want it to stay but there are things that don't work
Carter Thomas
>"I feel she is my soulmate" >Is old enough to post on this board, get cucked then call us fat fucks and still believes/copes in/by "Soulmates" You're just beyond help tbh. Or you're not taking this seriously because healthy relationships need emotional investments from BOTH partners. The fact that you're so okay and apathetic to your gf fucking other dudes whilst she leaves you dusting on a shelve to raise the cradle later says a lot about you. Fuck you, you don't deserve any advice
Kayden Garcia
Nigger be honest to yourself, how can you trust a bitch that says she is your soulmate but want another guy to put his dick inside her? If the plan is to meet other girls anyway why stik to a parasite that doesn't love you and just want you for money?
Jonathan Edwards
it's obvious jew mindcontrol
Nathan James
Like I said I'm thinking a lot of mixed up shit for 3 days. But the input kind of gets me more to the ground level right now so that's already helpful
Josiah Johnson
If you guys are having issues in the bedroom and are serious about the relationship then very open communication and maybe sex therapy should be the first options. The fact that she brought up open relationship as the first fix is a very bad sign and big red flag. Honestly sound like she has a guy picked out who is ready to fuck and she just wants to to okay it so technically she is not cheating. Open relationships and bringing others into the bedroom only work if you have a fucking SOLID relationship already and no sex or confidence issues, and even then it is still playing with fire for even the best of couples. You are 24 bro, take the lessons you learned with this one and move on.
Joseph Wilson
user, I'm going to give you the best advice in this thread: The relationship is passed the point of no return. It's doomed, go with some dignity.
Robert Perry
That's what's also my concern
Carter Murphy
It can work but if one of the people in the relationship is hesitant, it usually means it's a bad idea. Try and talk to her about your concerns. If she won't back down, it may be time to say goodbye to her.
Alexander James
Problem is that the main issue is there since day one but both just ignored it until a couple days ago. And reading what I wrote before makes me feel that it's better to leave all that and go back to my standards. I just feel like shit man everything sucks we share a flat together this will be so fucking dreadful
Robert Allen
why dont u just take some viagra or something idk psyche yourself up and just fuck her guts in all night long
she wants to be fucked man why cant u just give that to her ?
Grayson Roberts
Been there done that. Don't do it user. You will ruin your relationship. Go to swingers parties. Let her get trained by randoms but once you go home it's no contact till the next party. Been doing it for years it's the best of both worlds. If she sees someone else without you she will catch feelings.
Jaxson Rogers
>open relationship Terrible idea
Hunter Wright
man, respect yourself really...
Blake Allen
Oh look, it's another cuck larp thread on Any Forums Lame to see how far this place has gone
