RED ALERT RED ALERT EVERYBODY GET IN HERE NOW!
I've been talking to this woman for a while and she wants to have an actual relationship. The problem is that I'm a neet and I don't even own a car let alone a house. Am I supposed to just be honest right now and risk losing this? We've been hitting it off via texts and she thinks I'm physicist tier intelligent but really im a piece of shit loser. Please help.
RED ALERT RED ALERT EVERYBODY GET IN HERE NOW!
Parker James
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Parker Nguyen
Be honest. If she stays, wicked. If she goes, you dodged a bullet. Not everyone in life has their shit together. I’m willing to be if she was in your position you’d be ok with her and not judge her at a moments notice. But what the fuck do I know. Shoot your shot, worst case, you’re back on the search or working on yourself.
Nathaniel Peterson
Thank you, but I'm the guy. I should be the one supporting. I'm so scared to answer back. Sometimes I wish she never reached out and I could just focus on my goals at my own pace. Here goes nothing I guess.
Cooper Cruz
>guy should be supporting
It’s a two way street dude. It’s nice to treat someone, sure, but do it all the time it becomes one sided. You gotta both be willing to forgive and support equally. Be sure to state that you are working on yourself, but don’t be a pussy, actually do it.
Cooper Wood
You have much bigger problems than the lying persona you've built up to this girl. There will be many more women after her, believe it or not.
Seeking women too much is a waste of time.
Becoming you is the top priority.
You need to become a man.
You need to work on your purpose.
You need to research what you need to seek personal growth.
You need to love yourself before you bother with loving someone else.
You're probably smart and capable, don't talk yourself out of doing something that will lead to progress by letting your brain be a huge pussy.
Take control and begin your journey into self discovery.
Then, the right woman will fall into your life at the right time.
But for now... just be honest with her and keep your cool. "I don't work, I don't have a car, I don't have a house, but I'll figure all that out later because I'm smart" and if she gets all pissy about it, fuck it man!
Leo Watson
start here, I believe in you. You don't have to believe in yourself yet, that can build up and come later.
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Henry Foster
I just sent out a brutally honest text explaining it. I'm awaiting her response. I'm nervous and depressed right now.
Brandon Adams
I just sent the text to her. It was humiliating but I had to be honest . All I can think of is her showing her friends of how much of a loser I am.
John Bailey
I can't believe this is fucking happening guys. This is the most humiliating shit. Knowing somebody likes you and you can't even pursue it like a normal person because you browse this site all day and refuse to improve your life.
James Russell
nothing wrong with that. being nervous and depressed are perfectly acceptable emotions. HOW EXCITING! you have to admit it's a thrill talking to her. It's OK to feel depressed, maybe start a journal and write down the things you wish you were doing better when you feel depressed. Then tomorrow when you wake up you could look at the list again.
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Thomas Cooper
It's very humiliating. I don't even think you understand. And it's my fault for reading the obvious signs and dragging her along only to tell her I can't really follow through, unless she doesn't care about my situation. So now I feel guilty too. Dude you do not know this feeling right now.
Jaxon Garcia
Well she messaged me back
Landon Mitchell
good luck user i hope it works out for you. youre a nice person - if she was a nice person too, then it wont matter how much you have, but that she likes you. maybe someday youll get a house too (get a prenup). maybe it wont be as bad as you think. chill out either way!
Jacob Phillips
she would only do that if she is a terrible person
Thomas Garcia
I bet it's baddddd! That sucks, and it's OK to feel humiliated. Sounds weird, but you're allowed to feel like that. That feeling of humiliation is your brain telling you you need to change. You can if you work on it, won't happen overnight, but I believe in you.
Adrian Reed
whatd she say
Matthew Russell
screencaps or fake
Hunter Rivera
Hold on
Jack Flores
>the right woman will fall into your life
Fucking parasites man! Never merry, only sire children if you want, have a harem, kill a how that doesn't comply.
Jackson Brooks
I HATE THIS EMOTIONAL SHIT. SOMEONE SHOOT ME IN THR FUCKING FACE
Ethan Williams
user that’s a scam. She’s not real.
Eli Phillips
Scam. You need to date your league, then practice moving up.
Parker Lee
It's not a scam retards I know her from school.
Alexander Hughes
Nou
Robert Myers
I've been working on it since she texted me that first time. I even stopped playing videogames since then
Parker Smith
I feel sad as shit right now.
Caleb Hughes
This is called:
>Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
Tell her, or don't... either way she finds out dummy.
>Be OP
>Literal faggot... obviously.
>Meet girl
>Tell her you build spaceships and sheit
>Lie to her
>Get married
>Have kids
>Get cancer
>Whisper in loving wives ear with last dying breath
>"I'm a neeeeeeeeeeeet..."
Benjamin Gomez
Fake and gay
Mason James
Saying she would wait for me to get everything in order. But that's even worse