I want to stop having sex with my gf because it sucks and makes me feel bad, but I cant help myself. I ask her if we can take a break from sex but she will ignore my wishes and seduce me anyway. How do I stop?
I want to stop having sex with my gf because it sucks and makes me feel bad, but I cant help myself...
kys op
why does it suck to have sex with your gf
Become a troon
Then you will never be attractive enough to have sex again
I think about it but id rather not
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She constantly complains, makes me do all the work, and never finishes me off. Its completely one-sided and I have tried talking to her about it but she doesnt care. And then the only times I enjoy sex she gets mad at me for not "caring about her pleasure" or some bullshit
Go hookers. They care about your pleasure
But then you have to worry about the cops and stds, not worth it honestly
>I have tried talking to her about it but she doesnt care
well that's the only thing I would suggest is have a conversation and be open and sensitive to her needs, but it sounds like she's kind of being a bitch
it sucks OP but it sounds like she loves herself more than she'll ever love you. if you're okay with that then quit whining and fuck off, otherwise man up and dump that bitch.
The problem is when I do open up to her about this she becomes a self-degrading mess. She will get all upset about being a bad girlfriend and worried I will leave her. But then when I comfort her that I love her and wont leave her I guess she feels like then she doesnt have to change.
She actually hates herself which I feel like is part of the problem. Self-hatred to her level is basically inverse narcissism.
Cops? Stds? In which african country do you have to worry about that?
The land of the free
If you want my honest advice, fuck her while making her use one of these on her clit. Then you'll be able to pound her all you want and she'll be rolling. For some reason, women are retarded and don't associate the pleasure with the toy but with you instead. Then over a few months just slowly start dominating her. Orgasm denial, learn how to make her squirt repeatedly, and put your hand around her throat when she's close to cumming. Every time you have sex, you push it one tiny step further. You can also bring drugs into the relationship -- a little weed is great for sex, but only let her smoke what you give her. Both of you get high. Again, she will associate the pleasure with you.
Easy, bagged a 10/10 wife with this method. She calls me Daddy and rims me on demand.
Ive done the vibrator during sex thing but its honestly so fucking annoying to have to focus on the vibrator and fucking while she just lays there and gets to enjoy it. She likes to be dominated, but anytime I actually try its just complain, complain, complain. Im getting fucking tired of me doing anything I can to make sex enjoyable for her, her not doing shit, and her STILL complaining.
It sounds like you're projecting a little since you're a bit of a complainer yourself. You gotta take action my friend. Figure out her fetishes as well, and don't be a wuss in bed like you're being on here. If she complains give her a light slap. Tbh to me she is 100% asking to be dominated hard and if she doesn't get it from you then she'll get it elsewhere (eventually).
Just my opinion by the way, what works for me and my girl won't work for everyone I suppose.
Im only complaining on the internet because I NEVER complain to her in real life. Im just venting rn because I have been holding this inside for so long. I know her fetishes and we do them, but she still complains. And everytime I dominate her hard (which she said she likes, she has a "rape" fetish) it never goes well. For example, yesterday we were fucking and she smacks me hard in the face. I thought it was hot so I lightly slapped her back and she got irate. Im only a wuss in bed now because I got tired of her complaining, I dominate her, I pin her down, I fuck her hard, I choke her, I slap her, I hold her close but all of that she complains about. The difference between what she says she wants and what she actually wants is an ocean wide and I have lost the ability to figure it out. I think she just likes sexual attention and hates sex.
I tried doing this with my ex because I was going to fuck this friend that I was never able to fuck growing up. She had a clue of what I was trying to do but knew she wasn't going to be around me 24/7 so she'd purposefully drained my balls several times a day every day for a month till she got a clue that the time window closed on me fucking my friend.
Eat dog poop on video and show her the video. She will either want to have sex with your more or not at all. You win either way.
I get it if you're just venting then.
But it's weird she slaps you dude, that's not sub behaviour at all and I wouldn't find it acceptable. She's the one who's supposed to be slapped.
You're right, she really is confusing.
I dont understand what she wants at all, because she will tell me what she wants me to do with her but then in reality she hates it. But yea the slap thing threw me off, totally blindsided me by slapping me hard, then I respond with a little slap and then she gets mad that I hurt her. I am so fucking over this shit