Should you ever admit your feelings to your crush?
And the biggest question of all: why do men always think you should? But women have mixed feelings about this? And people who've worked in Title IX or human resources department try to stress that it's a really bad idea?
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no woman would ever talk to me, so no
only if it's going to benefit you
Because title ix and hr seen shit and it would be better if you both "just clicked" and take it from there.
women have mixed feelings about it because often then dude is going to be delusional and there'll be zero chemistry between them and she'll have to figure out a way to say no without getting stabbed
Fucking stab her. I don't give a damn. The fact that girls don't at least fall head over heels for you is because of special media propaganda today. You'll never get one because of the powers that be. So rape, pillage, and plunder my dude.
>and she'll have to figure out a way to say no without getting stabbed
Why do men always think this? She's often trying to figure out how to navigate these things for more reasons than just the threat of violence.
incel moment
more than, sure, but the threat of violence is always there
i wonder why women are on edge
female detected
could be soiboi i guess
>more than, sure,
Already, that's a bad faith argument.
>but the threat of violence is always there
Which focusing on is reductive, and tends to the black-and-white extreme thinking that you men always resort to.
>rape, pillage, plunder
You docile soyboys don't know what it's like to have a dose of testosterone. Keep seething in your basements.
>crush
>feelings
grow up retard
>>rape, pillage, plunder
>You docile soyboys don't know what it's like to have a dose of testosterone. Keep seething in your basements.
Project harder faggot
that's not testosterone, that's sociopathy
a more healthy way to express masculinity would be to put your energies toward the benefit of your community
not really saying this to you but to others reading
testosterone is inextricably linked to masculinity, and masculinity is an inherent toxic and harmful concept. there's a reason why it's almost always men, particularly the more masculine ones, who commit acts of violence
many dominant, pro-social leaders have lived
yeah, genghis khan was very pro-social. he was still an awful sociopath and wreaked havoc, sometimes personally. and even then, you're only choosing outliers. the consistent crux of the male gender, leaders or not, are typically violent and will attack anyone they feel deserving of it. and that's always more defining of your gender than any outlier and exceptions you care to list.
pro-social and awful sociopath are mutually exclusive, if we're talking about someone's motivations
Even racism and hate crimes tend to be "pro-social," as those are done with the aim to benefit your community over ones you think are detrimental to them.
Never tell bitches any of your inner thoughts.
They can and will be used against you.
Women are just narcissistic manipulative cunts. Don't give them any info.
>pro-social and awful sociopath are mutually exclusive
they're not. more of than not, they fuel each other, and are each other's main motivations.
men are manipulative as hell
They literally aren't, and intent (i.e.: motivations) is always the last thing you want to factor in. It's very common for "awful sociopath[y]" to be utilised in "pro-social" manners as a means to benefit your kin and your community. Like genociding the next tribe over for simply existing. And it's almost always the male gender who spearheads this kind of crap.
you're the one talking about outliers
Best post ITT. Think of it like this: she has an ideal version of you and by telling her how you really feel you shatter that illusion. yes men do it too, but ours are more so on things like
>how many people have you fucked?
>are you going to sign this prenup?
>can you keep the house clean?
>do you have guy friends?
and other things that actually make sense.
these are the commonalities in men: violent sociopaths who attack others over slights. those who don't are the outliers, and don't make up nearly the necessary consistencies in order to make a difference. even crime statistics, and various historical examples, support this.
> crime statistics
what percentage of the male population is in jail right now
He literally isn't. Men who don't resort to this crap are unfortunately the exceptions to the rule, and rarely leave enough of an impact.
this sounds like a teenager wrote it. who the fuck is over 15 and still uses the word crush?
>human resources department
you shouldn't do it at work, that's just gonna make things awkward unless you're 110% sure she feels the same. and even then if you break up or fuck and she wants something more, you're opening yourself up to a bunch more problems.
anyways the answer is stop being a pussy, make your intentions known. NOTE that this is different from being a sentimental faggot and pouring your heart out (especially through text, just kys if you do that). but you should make it clear you're not her friend, you want to date/fuck her, and you have the balls to to put it out there and see what happens.
and for fuck's sake, learn how to flirt.
>Statistics have been consistent in reporting that men commit more criminal acts than women. Self-reported delinquent acts are also higher for men than for women, although lower than official data. Low levels of self control are associated with criminal activity.
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sorry, but that's just your gender, and these guys define you more than anyone else.
Why would that matter? The majority of violent offenders, to both men and women alike, are still men. And the majority of violence is generally committed by men as well. That's a widely recognised fact, and has been for the longest time, no matter what your #NotAllMen or MRA bullshit likes to claim.
how many people have you killed?
how many people have all the people you know killed, combined?
violence and competition have been part of the male experience for a long time, but in a healthy person they're not the whole story. even in war, when you look at what men who fight in wars actually say during and afterward. many of them hate war. and afterward they befriend those they fought. it's the dumb macho teens who've never tasted death who want to go off and kill people.
>you shouldn't do it at work
Or with a coworker, period. Even flirting with them in your personal life can put your job at risk.
>and for fuck's sake, learn how to flirt.
Wouldn't have any effect, because even the best flirt won't change their feelings about you if they're not interested in the first place.
do you know what an outlier is? violent criminals are outliers.
people who shove pencils up their penises are all men. does that mean this is a normal thing most men do?
>how many people have you killed?
you're basically resorting to non-sequiturs now.
>violence and competition...
... is ubiquitous to the male gender, and what men are known for.
>but in a healthy person
these are healthy men who resort to violence. unless you think that somehow makes it good.
criminals are likely to be men
men are not likely to be criminals
think about this as long as you need to
>Should you ever admit your feelings to your crush?
Sure, just don't tell her you have been crushing on her for years, it will creep her out.
you seem like an idiot
>do you know what an outlier is?
Exceptions to the rule who don't follow the normal patterns of a given observation.
>violent criminals are outliers.
Violent criminals are very common aspects of society. They're why we have laws.
>people who shove pencils up their penises are all men. does that mean this is a normal thing most men do?
You could argue that, unfortunately.
>violent criminals are outliers
Violent criminals are common. Why do you think we have entire legal systems dedicated to them?
>criminals are likely to be men
>men are not likely to be criminals
those are effectively the same statements, user.
literally zero understanding of probability
>men are not likely to be criminals
Unfortunately, crime statistics suggest otherwise. And even then, this is still #NotAllMen fallacy.
>why do men always think you should?
Because it's causing you pain, if you shoot your shot worst case scenario is you'll feel like shit for a little bit and then you get over it.
>But women have mixed feelings about this?
Because they like to keep using guys in the friendzone
says the incel trying to make to mitigate violent men.
you're resorting to non-sequiturs again
this isn't a "NotAllMen" thing to me, this is a "too many idiots on Any Forums think it's badass to be a violent sociopath"