i becamealot less horny in the last 2 yrs and im not mote depressed or anything, i actually lost weight too on purpose, only weigh 165.
Irecently lost my virginity at 22 to my girl and the first few fucks i lasted too long like an hr because it didnt feel that good. but it got alittle better each time. but a month later now i fucked her but became soft a few minutes in, im so not interested anymore its really weird. shes pretty cute but not that good but idk whats wrong with me ahhhh i think its just my weird lack of hornyness. What the fuck happened to jacking off like 5 times a day why did it suddenly shutoff for me practically.
You might have erectyle disfunction it might just be anxiety. Try to relax
Carter Walker
Do you drink heavily and/or often? Alcohol abuse can cause various forms of sexual dysfunction, including ED, lower sex drive, lower quality orgasms and/or anorgasmia, etc. Some medications can also do this, SSRIs are well known causes of sexual problems.
Juan Miller
thats the thing im not anxious in the moment im just really not that interested and i lose motivation to keep going. condoms dont help theyre making it less stimulating, skin thin ones help but godamn why am i so ed prone suddenly. im fuckin 22 yrs old.
Henry Wright
maybe ED or maybe something else like depression or something mental anyway. My point is, try to get into it. You need to work for it, sex isn't on autoplay.
Nathan Garcia
no i dont drink at all, i usedto vape but quit mostly and rarely use zyns etc. i was horny when i sued to use nic more too so it doesnt seem related. im not on any medications either . when i do cum its nice nothing seems actually broken, seems like a brain thing.
OP here's a task I want you to do. Next time you have sex with your girlfriend, forget about yourself and your needs. Instead focus on her. Try to give her what you think is a nice experience. Kiss her a lot, tell her you love her, massage her, rub her, lick her pussy. Ask her if she wants a finger in while you lick her, etc. Stuff like that. Get her to orgasm. Then cuddle with her. Then look back at the whole experience and ask yourself if you got a boner at any moment. If not, you might have ED.
David Perry
Do you watch a lot of porn? Try to stop masturbating for 1-2 weeks. If that doesnt help do a check blood test of your testosterone, maybe you are low. Check Google for low tesosteron symptoms and see if you have them. Your symptoms are not normal at 22.
Jaxson Rogers
she cums alot when we fuck except last few times since i got soft. id last too long and shed tell me she was cumming too much. id feel her squeeze me inside too, so i am satisfying her in that regard, but yeah i guess il try to get more into it, i already do rub her /fondle and kiss her. it gets me more in the mood but its weird idk if im as into her is another issue.
honestly might be, also using fleshlights and fuckin deathgripping my cock didnt help.
Jack Sanchez
i actually lost interest in jacking off like last yr and was able to go like a week or 2 without jacking off and it didnt suddenly come back and make me horny i just wasnt horny anymore. i remember couple yrs ago if i went a day or 2 i got too damn horny and had to rub one out. I am really concerned my t is getting too low. Maybe i will get it tested. Fuck my life i wanna actually kill myself, i used to wanna fuck so bad and now im fucking castrated practically.
Gabriel Adams
You can't get ED from pornography or masturbating. Any effects from those are temporary and will go away within a week or two.
It sounds like you're overthinking things while you're having sex. You're an animal. Indulge in your desires. Do the thing I asked you, focus on giving her a really nice experience and forget about yours.
Also, talk to your girlfriend. Let her know that you're struggling with this but that you're trying to figure it out. Tell her that you believe it's a mental thing. If you get frustrated in the middle of having sex, it's okay to stop and just lay in bed together. I've done it many times. Then I sometimes get back into it. It's a beautiful thing, enjoy your girlfriend.
Brayden Harris
kinda got semi horny again and jack once or 2x a day. il prob give it a break for a day. so fucking gay that my dick is this sensitive to this shit now, when i was like 15 i was so fucking horny, whats the point to living godamnit.
Nathaniel Bailey
It’s normal for your libido to fluctuate over time! Don’t be too hard on yourself, it happens to most people.
James Gutierrez
thanks, ive told her, i do sit there with her the last times i went soft and i was furious but had to be chill, its infuriating being a broken man. but thanks again dude, maybe working out and getting test up would be helpful. honestly wanna take testosterone/steroids and work out. apparently horny goes through the roof.
Joseph Cooper
Yeah that doesnt sound like porn induced ed. Thats more seen in guys who jerk of every day.
Do you ever have morning wood or never? Do you have lethargy, low motivation and other low t symptoms? Then I would check your t. Dont let your doc bullshit you cause you are only 22, exagerate your symptoms maybe you get the check free, depending on where you live.
Its better to detect low t early.
Ian Lopez
i for awhile wasnt getting morning wood but it was back last few weeks but been on and off again kinda. im low motivation as fuck and often tired. but i have had shit sleep last month cuz gf and i stayd together and didnt have a good place to sleep and always had to go out early. maybe its shit sleep idk.
Jaxson Gonzalez
testosterone and steroids are bad for your dick. working out is good, but ultimately it's just a mind thing, you need to chill.
Let me put it another way, if you don't penetrate your woman for a whole month, it's not a big fucking deal. Just have sex regularly with her, foreplay, the whole works, and if your dick doesn't get hard just don't use it.
Eventually you'll work through your mind block and you will find your rhythm.
Jaxson Collins
Stop drinking. Stop smoking. Stop watching porn. If you're going to jack off, only jack off once or twice a week, and use your imagination thinking of either your gf or girls you wanna fuck but haven't fucked before. Lift weights and do cardio. If you have anxiety or depression, or maybe you've been more stressed lately, those are factors to consider.
Do the above and you will never lose wood during sex. You're 22, there's absolutely no reason you can't get a woody.
Yeah bad sleep can also kill t levels. I would check for sure anyways. Your total t should be around or above 600 ng/dl. Scale goes down to 250 but thats 90 year old man territory.
Samuel Wright
This. You can bounce back. Helps to get all your nutrients in too. Get those crazy cum shots.
I'm 28 and thought I had the same issue but I made a quick change and was able to fuck 3 times consecutively. I'm back to drinking, smoking, and doing blow now though.
Austin Campbell
maybe the condoms are too tight
Juan Lopez
Low T
Jayden Nelson
How often do you jerk off? Is she not that attractive to you? Have you thought that you might be gay, unironically?
Mason Barnes
watch this:
let me guess, you’re circumcised? yeah, we’ve been mutilated, not much we can do, I couldn’t cum from sex for the longest time, next to no sensation whatsoever, you just have to relax and stop jerking off period, that’s how i overcame it, i also rub coconut oil and bio oil on my dick to help increase sensitivity.
