I have this fantasy of finding a really simple, down to earth gamer bf. He would work a normal job and I would go over to his apartment after work and just quietly spend time with him maybe we would play DnD or smoke some cannabis.
His apartment would be cluttered but not exactly dirty and definitely not smelly, maybe he isn't the most perfect but he tries hard and cares deeply. i would bike to the corner store to pick him up some more cigs and curl up with him while he works on his Morrowind campaign
he would introduce me to his friends and i would love him even more cuz even tho his friend give him shit he is confident in our relationship so we thrive in the face of their uncertainty
why does this feel impossible? Usually anyone who comes close to my silly fantasy is too far gone in some regards.. it's usually they're really stinky or fail to take care of their body or space, or if I do find someone like this they're not brave enough to brazenly date a weirdo like me, or maybe i am just to shy to ever find out
tfw no simple kind gamer bf who does the bare minimum of taking care of themselves and isn't full of some weird neurosis or racist , hateful ideation
my roommates coworkers bf basically just solidified this fantasy of mine :( he is kinda perfect ngl and he's not at all my type i am very confused lately
Sounds fishy, but i'll take the bait: That's basically almost every gamer out there. Tfg ppl are pretty unusual actually. So i guess either you're fake (more likely), or you're just not looking in the right places. I'd offer myself, but you probably live in a completely different country
Jacob Cook
People are too complex to align with a specific fantasy you've created
John Russell
it's what's inside the heart and mind that sways my decisions, user, plus like we won't live within 100 miles of each other anyway
what's tfg? I'm not sure what that means, that I am fake? what am I faking? of course there's no way it would ever be so specific but this fantasy isn't unreasonable, it's pretty simple at the core elements
i guess i just don't know where to find people like this.. These kinds of guys usually work, and probably don't use tinder or anything and probably wouldn't hit on a boy anyway
idk how to increase my chances or even where to begin i just wanna get myself out there more. i tried apps but everyone feels very desperate
Young male casual or more than casual drug user living alone in this economy?
Lincoln Ortiz
more than casual, but what's the question?? xD
Ryan Martinez
To continue on my thought, young men in the midwest are almost never perpetual drug users, open to homosexual relations, AND decent, kind, good smelling human beings AND has a job; as well as not still living with mommy haha. You are an exception of course, but your targeted demographic is incredibly small so I wouldn't be so bummed out about not being able to find the one.
Christopher Cooper
The crossection of clean, hardworking, responsible gamers who also happen to be gay is so thin that the only way you'll find one is on the internet and you'll have to travel. Sorry bro good luck.
Kayden Harris
i really gotta ask though, how is it that you know i live in the Midwest unless you're constantly monitoring IP? but like why even do that to begin with?
why is it so impossible to find someone who doesn't smell like sour cheese though? it's not even hard to not smell like ass
this is why i feel like im dying alone for sure. all the boys in my area are really valley gay or like political/business gays and those dudes are so full of shit lmao i can't
What’s in it for me? How do I know if you’re a suitable partner. At the end of the day, sexual compatibility is importwnt too
Luke Rivera
I like things simple, kinda organize my house on my own way, and I'm pretty up for some simple job where I can relax and play games. I wouldn't go along with the pot thing, but I was gonna be pretty interested on knowing a little more about you, femanon. Unfortunally for you, I'm married and I don't believe you're gonna be interested on changing discords. Good luck on your search.
Justin Phillips
Wow sounds a lot like me. Too bad I've sworn off women a few years ago and want absolutely nothing to do with romantic relationships. They've never been worth my time, effort, or the hit ti my mental health. I've got more important things to do than spend my time on a woman. Specifically working out and posting green frogs on a Korean basket weaving forum. Nice tits though, I do love a flat chest
Nolan Gutierrez
you are probably one of the following: >fat >ugly >autistic
> isn't full of some weird neurosis or racist , hateful ideation
if you can't cope with this then you will never find someone like you described
Elijah Perez
user that's a boy...
Lincoln Cruz
I'm practically a-sexual these days so it already wouldn't work out based on your paragraph alone
no cannabis AND married? that's rough buddy im not much of a woman, just depends on the angle and how much you've had to drink :)
tho i feel you on the mental health aspect, I've been doing a LOT of cleaning, deleted a ton of ppl off steam, discord, my phone.. idk so much change lately I'm just trying to embrace it now
i don't believe in traditional romance, but prefer kinds of radical relationships that are tailored to work best for everyone involved and all our nuances
i cherish the kind of bond that is mutual in growth and feelings, teamwork, true connection! :)
i am pretty small and not ugly, but i am unironically autistic, albeit high functioning
i would rather be alone than mellow out with some hatefulness xD
Please don't distract a white boy with your make-pretend pussy. We already have a white replacement problem and we neeed our young white boys to go out and find decent white girls and make white babies
Aiden Wood
I just found a guy like that. He's a geek, into games, especially RPGs but also pen and paper RPGs like you describe. He does have a normal job and his apartment is small but very clean and neat and he keeps himself always very neat. He's absolutely ready to introduce me to his friends, too. I think the only difference to the guy you describe is that he doesn't smoke, neither do I.
How is this possible, how did I find a guy like that?
I'm not sure but in this case it turns out he's super private online, he never shares any photos online, doesn't use his real name and never uses any kind of social media. He only plays his online games with people he knows irl or at least people that are introduced to him irl. I met him through a social meetup. I think this kind of guy you will never meet on hookup sites, parties or online dating.What I recommend you to do is join some social groups for gays, boardgames, RPGs, whatever, and start meeting people irl. Eventually you might luck out like I did.
Cameron Rodriguez
>not much of a woman You say that like its a bad thing. Also it's always a good idea to cut the cancer out of your life before starting a relationship. While you may not believe in traditional romance, I don't believe in it at all. I've had love and lost it, and never want to go back. As for mutual growth, feelings, and teamwork, I'd rather not share that with anyone. I'm too much of a basket case to care for others, and I'd never want to push that on to someone else. My idea of a happy ending for my life is gracefully regressing from society to be alone with and my cartoon women
Dylan Flores
Very achievable goals
Also >ciggarettes gross
Bentley Foster
I can't tell what your working with between all the pics but if you are a-sexual then your chances of finding this gamer gem drop off even more. I wish you the best of luck and as much as I hate the place reddit might be the only site you can find someone that specific.
Jonathan Barnes
im in wichita. im the one for you
Eli Nguyen
You have to be asexual when you pay a doctor to chop your dick off
>I'm fixated on this incredibly specific scenario I hate women and gays so damn much
Elijah Sanchez
touch grace Maidenless behavior
but seriously, deeply, and truly you need a reality check in the most respectful way i can muster
this is actually good advice thanks user, i was going to try to introduce myself to some new groups and kinda get myself out there more when i move cities. i really wanna do more with my art too and i think networking like that is a good place to start finding cool paths to follow
thanks :3 you sound a lot like me before i realized that i wasnt unlovable or incapable or anything like that, but i was just hurt and afraid to be hurt again but it took someone special to show me what a waste that was and now in a lot of ways i feel more alive than ever even though i really struggle
i feel more in line and true to myself and its fine you can keep your cartoon women i have my own fantasies >:)
but it would definitely bea good idea if you believed in yourself a bit more diligently ! i am more put off by poor hygeine and not taking care of ones brain and stuff cigs are fiiiine
and i definitely have lowered my fantasy bar quite a bit now it's more realistic
some day I'll find someone who isn't super needy xD
wichita wi?? spoooky that's like middle of nowhere lol
that's a really depressing image, I wonder if they considered any of the good things about being trans or if they only thought about the bad stuff to project their preferred worldview whilst equally shirking away the blatant reality laid before them
huh hmm
It's a fantasy - something that sounds and feels nice, not a fixation but go off queen yaaas slay
