I never wanted an advice here, especially not a dating one, but I am now in a need for it cause I cant ask anyone. I have only one mom and no friends. I need to warn you it will be cringe as fuck
>be me 33 virgin
>new cute girl comes to work at office
>the boss gave her a desk next to me
>for some reason she finds me interesting since d1 while I am a totally miseraeble antisocial person
>I have so little human interaction that I literally freaked out at first but I started to like it that someone is talking with me
>It turned out that she has same hobbies as me, and she watches the same tv shows
>we talk a lot
>I literally started to comb my hair or wear normal clothes at work just because of her
>she starts to talk with me more cause the other collegues are unbearable and we become really good friends, we spend time at the caffeteria during lunch break, we laugh a lot etc.
fast forward like 2 weeks
>on monday she asks me if I want to spend some time with her in the evening
>I say yes, we had a great time at the bar even if I was a nervous wreck
>when we say goodbye she gave a kiss on my cheek
>yesterday we met again at the same place
>she says its her name day on saturday and she invites me to her place for dinner
>when we left the bar for some reason it was like someone posessed me and I told her that I can walk her home if she wants it
>she says that would be great, and she grabs my hand, first time ever in my life a girl grabbed my hand
>we walk like this to her place and talk
>when we get to her place it becomes akward I dont know what to do, we watch each other for 5 seconds, she gives me a kiss again on my cheek, says bye and she leaves
If you were able to get here, here are my questions
1 - Did I fuck it up for not doing stuff like in the movies, to grab her kiss her and go up to her place? Did she expect me stuff like this?
2 - We didn't talk since yesterday cause she took a day off. I didnt want to force myself on her so I didn't call her either.
cont...
I never wanted an advice here, especially not a dating one, but I am now in a need for it cause I cant ask anyone...
She wrote me a text that I shouldn't eat anything because she will make her speciality for me. I responded her that I can't wait. Was this lame? Was I supposed to do something else?
3 - Should I bring her flowers?
4 - Is there a chance that I will lose my virginity? If she likes me will she initate it, or should do it? And HOW?
5 - If by any miracle I would receive my first kiss, will I be able to do it by instinct? I read some guide on the internet but it seems meh
5 - if by any miracle sex would happen, will I be able to use my instincts to put my penis in her? Is it that easy just like in porn?
6 - Let's assume that sex happens, I put it in and we start doing it, what am I supposed to do during that? Should I play with her tits or kissing her body?
I bought a pack of condoms but I don't really now if I should start practising putting it on cause as you see I am a total lame idiot.
Bump
Bump.
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One last bump
Damn I guess I will go in blind. Nevermind it was worth to try it
Maybe one last try?
Just go with the flow, you don't need to try to imitate movies or buy flowers, she seems to be leading it so just ride with it, don't think about sex or kissing her just enjoy your time
hey man, just RELAX. she is obviously very into you. She might like the quiet type. Seems she is totally fine initiating almost everything(?). Let it happen, don’t force it. Let nature take its course. Don’t force sex/kissing or anything, let it happen, let her take control. Don’t freak out, be cool and stay calm. You’ve made it bro, fucking congratulations, seriously that’s awesome. Cherish the little things and enjoy it. Don’t let your anxieties or fears control you. Just remember, you’ve got this now. Stay cool, stay relaxed, you made it bro.
You definitely didn't fuck it up, sounds like you're doing well. Flowers may be nice, but they could also be an inconvenience, may be better to bring a movie or some kind of treat. Don't try to pressure her to much into sex or kissing, should probably practice putting on condoms though.
Reminder that she has loved other men. While it may be a new experience for you, she will be a jaded bitter hag who has been defiled by other men. Better to die pure than lose it to some whore
fucking KEK
OP don’t listen to this, this user is angry. No need to respond to this guy, let him be. lol u mad bro. OP made it, SUCK IT BITCH
OP please ignore this faggot.
You haven’t fucked anything up. Just enjoy the ride and be yourself. Whatever happens happens, but so far so good, user.
you're corny bro
I checked back thank you all for your replies I kinda gave up
So I should do the same stuff as we did on the first two occasions? And if she wants more she will initate it?
>should probably practice putting on condoms though.
When I thought the thread is going to die I tried with one I kinda failed, the second one was more succesfull
As a side note, don't be as needy/impatient as you were with your thread bumping here.
Don't torture yourself with those thoughts, either.
Try imagining everything is good and that you will be told if something is bad.
>needy/impatient as you were with your thread bumping here.
I am 33, and I never had a date in my life. Like literally never. Before she arrived I kind of gave up ever having someone in my life. This happens tomorrow, and I am nervous as fuck, and I can't ask anyone, at least I don't want to ask these of my mom.
ahem... threads like these make me think of suicide. congratulations.
>So I should do the same stuff as we did on the first two occasions?
well that’s hard to answer since we don’t really know you two. It really seems like she is initiating everything, maybe let her continue. Remember, you’re overthinking it. Just relax and let it happen. You guys will get close and things will naturally come up to go do.
>And if she wants more she will initate it?
That’s what it sounds like, chief. YOU MADE IT bro, are you happy as fuck? Some day you’re gonna pound that beauty, rail her good user, give her the sex, my guy. Be good to her user, she deserves it
Just keep seeing her and things will progress naturally. Don’t torture yourself with self doubt, she already knows the real you and still likes you.
You defiantly didn't fuck up bud and congratulations on getting this far seriously give yourself a pat on the back. As cheesy as it sounds go with your gut. She's obviously really into you whether sex is on the cards so soon? Who knows. The important thing is making sure you're both comfortable. If and when you get to the fuck fuck dont be under too much pressure especially being a virgin. Have a little drink together and losen up a bit if the topic of sex comes up then it will most likely happen. But don't push it in that direction. Foreplay is key man you gotta heat up the oven before you put the meat in. Goodluck and godspeed you magnificent bastard. Heres hoping you've got a long time of happiness ahead
user, if I got this far, you can do this aswell
I am happy just very nervous that I will fuck it up. I am very happy that you guys wrote me cause I thought all the day that if I don't initate and sex won't happen she will friendzone me.
dont use condom bro it DESTROYS the intimacy
u arent even having sex at that point. just masturbating with a bag on your ccock
squirt your ballseed in her
Okay guys I think I am going to sleep it is late here and I am tired. Please wish me luck tomorrow, If you are interested I am going to make a thread tomorrow or day after tomorrow what happened
Bump
Only destroys it if you make a scene out of it. I do it quick. Op is probably going to want a condom anyway hell want to bust in two seconds. By the way op if you do bust early just go for round two or even 3 no shame in feeling good as long as you don't bust in 2 minutes then fall asleep lol.
Hello bro, if you arent sleepin. I just want to say be yourself