> be me
> have one (1) friend
> girl named Caro with a bf
> doesn’t text me first, only responds
> can’t tell her how I feel because I don’t want to be annoying
> be sad
Life is not fun I just want someone to like me, does she like me and just doesn’t show it?
I had a life long friend like that user that even sometimes wouldn't respond. He'd respond to huge life events but little shit he'd just ignore and then I'd get a message from him 2 days later about something going on with his life. He was a shitty friend so I just stopped sending messages and only responded. Then we just basically stopped talking. Having shitty friends aren't worth having. I don't have great advice about finding new ones but Ive met some awesome friends online playing games etc. Friends that ive had for 5+ years and talk to everyday. Haven't met them but I got a family I don't have a lot of time to hang with a friend anyway so it doesn't bother me
That sounds cool, having family is great.
You mean she doesn’t like me and I should stop messaging her?
Probably accept you somewhat. Get good at something, other than games. Keep grinding. You can do it user, greetings from the cold north of europe.
Thanks, I will try. Finding friends shouldn’t be impossible.
Good luck user,
Greetings from Germany
I had a life long friend like you user that always wanted me to respond. I'd respond to huge life events but little shit I'd I'd just ignore and then I'd send him a message 2 days later with some bullshit going on with my life. He was a needy friend so I just stopped sending messages altogether. Having shitty friends aren't worth having.
You should go find some social groups that do things you are interested in, like a sport or wargaming, any sort of activities, you'll make friends with common interests. Then this lady won't be your whole world user, she probably just has her focus on her bf, rather than you being the problem, so get out there and find some people to be with:)
I don't think that she doesn't like you. She just doesn't sound like a good friend. Good friends are awesome. They respond to you. Even if it's just an "lol" or "hey that looks awesome" when you send a pic of your dinner.
But in this case you were the shitty friend.
I'd hate to break it to you, OP, but she most probably doesn't like you, not in that way.
The fact that she doesn't initiate any conversation shows that she sees you as an acquaintance, not a friend. Friends talk to each other, or at least try to, no matter how often they contact each other. You should consider meeting people with a genuine need for creating and maintaining bonds, otherwise you'll end up feeling lonely and empty.
Just my two cents. Good luck out there, OP!
>does she like me and just doesn’t show it?
Fuck no! She's using you as an omega orbiter to give her attention when her bf won't give it to her.
Delete her number and move on. She isn't your friend.
She doesn’t like you, probably because you only have one friend. You deserve to be loved. You deserve friendship. If you feel like you’re not making friends, improve your mental until you attract people naturally. It will also improve your life in many other ways as well.
Fuck bitches.
You might see it that way, but as an antisocial introvert in a highly social environment I do not enjoy having to interact with so many people in a day. Even now it took me this long to write this response because I got caught up talking to someone.
Not everybody has the same social needs and we never know with how many other people a person has to interact with on a daily basis.
I don't expect others to be as introverted as I am, but if you're in a situation where you have to hunt down a person just to get them to talk to you then you have to consider they might not need the company as much as you do.
Earlier you said you met some people online that you talk to everyday, and I think that's what OP should be looking for: People he clicks with.
The people whose company I used to enjoy the most were the buddies I'd go drinking with on Fridays and then not talk to for the rest of the week.
Fair enough man. But what I'm talking about is a friend I've had for over 20 years. He just all of the sudden kinda stop responding. I brought it up to him ... As an adult and he didn't have a response. Like if I said something to offend him or he was going through something. That was his chance. He didn't have anything.
Then I agree, he's just an asshole.
To elaborate... He's very needy when something is going on in his life. Such as his mom dying. I was there for him for weeks. I don't get the same kind of attention so the friendship is too one sided for me. That's all I'm saying. People get grace and my friends don't have to immediately respond to me or whatever. But they have to give as much as they get. Otherwise I'm just not fucking interested.
Listen user. Telling at all will be the death blow too you. What you need to do is play your cards rite. DO NOT OVER TEXT HER! but when you do talk about something she is responsive too and even better something she likes. One day that fag she is dating is going fuck up big time! Or piss her the fuck off and you’ll be hearing from her for sure. But even then dont tell your feelings. You manipulate your way in. Thats how it works bro. With women its always a game and you get better at playing it with every try and regection
If she doesn't ever text you first, then she doesn't like you.
BRO, stop being friends with her, you are just torturing yourself. Seriously get your shit together, meet new people. There are so fucking many women outthere.
No she does not want shit from you, if you wanna make sure ask her out before you ghost her...
I have an incel friend like you, although I am getting tired of his shit. Being depressed about girls who don't even think of you is not the way to live...
No douchebag, she has a bf and basically ignores you. Off yourself
My incel friend I was talking about before, was working with a girl who was engaged to a guy.
So this girl was talking to him, because they were colleges, said incel friend was talking about constantly how much connection he has with this engaged girl.
He asked her out and she ghosted her. Incel friend got depressed. Before he was also into a drug addict girl and a lot of other girls. My incel friend is crazy overweight and antisocial.
So anyways the point is that you should move on, don't be a fucking retard, if she has a boyfriend her chances of dating you is miniscule...
Don't get depressed over it and think about jumping off the 6th floor... It is just stupid.