Where the hell do you find women that don’t feel the NEED to PARTY and DRINK and RAVE every single fucking night? Where do you find women that can function normally in life without having to CONSTANTLY be under the influence of DRUGS and ATTENTION. Is the west just filled with low self-esteem hoes that have to always be unstable in terms sexuality and mentality? Church girls are whores, shy girls are whores, old women (25+) are disgusting, obviously party/alt types are pathetic whores, what do? I’m pretty well off, in good shape and getting better, cute/handsome, smart, tall, funny, pursuing hobbies, can hide my autism like a mask, and it’s so demoralizing. Had a hard time when I was younger but I turned out pretty well now that I’m in my early 20s. Do I have to resort to foreign girls as a serious gf/wife options? I’m done using and abusing these girls here. As soon as I get a sense of degenerate behavior/past vibe I trash them and ghost. They’re not worth taking seriously, whores (that’s more than 2 bodies btw) can’t commit
>got taken down in /adv/ It was interesting discourse imo
i was gonna say “me” but you lost me at the not needing attention part
Julian Myers
why don't you just have some fun user and party for a couple years then settle down after you've had some fun
Daniel Taylor
Wanting Attention (even excessive) from your partner is fine and valid. Attention from 15 orbiter cucks, every retail dumbass, and 100s of DMs on Twitter/tinder when your partner is just working or whatever is poisonous behavior and should shamed.
Xavier Lopez
>RAVE nice to know girls still rave and shit. 90s elderfag here
>Church girls are whores, shy girls are whores >old women (25+) are disgusting >can hide my autism like a mask
I think you might be the problem here. Just guessing.
I want to grow and develop with someone loyal and long term. Doing coke in a dark stinky room with gutter people for a year is hardly a replacement a year of deep affection between two growing souls.
Thomas Sanders
Nigga you ain't gonna meet people who don't want to party in a party setting
Ethan Clark
you sound like a perfect gentleman, I can't imagine why you can't find the perfect girlfriend
Eli Flores
>25 >6 figure job >cook $40 steaks for dinner every night >clean >pay all of the bills >enjoy hiking >play board games >paint >make pottery >don't drink alcohol >don't smoke weed >don't smoke cigarettes >shower daily >weigh 145lbs at 5'9" >full head of hair >no acne >give massages >not a premature ejaculator >goes down on girls >offers and has before taken women out to Michelin 3-star restaurants >can't get attention from women that are 500lbs with hairy chests who don't bathe, work, cook or clean >current girlfriend sits on the sofa all day while i work and complains because i wont pay off 10k of her credit card debt, is appalled by the mere thought of having any sort of sexual interaction with me, refuses to so much as even sweep the floor when i politely ask her, won't even go to the park with when it's nice out, gets angry if i have any of the snacks i bought for us, doesn't let me buy anything nice for myself when i take her on shopping sprees
Meanwhile my 300lb friend that's a ginger who's unemployed that lives with his Mom and sits in the basement all day playing League of Legends has an 8/10 girlfriend that keeps asking him to marry her and have children with her that cooks, cleans, works multiple jobs and is happy if he just buys her $5 worth of candy...
Ian King
And then everyone clapped
Juan Sanders
Shes bpd, im bpd we cuddle, play animal crossing, and sh together its sweet
I know total tangent but can you give me a pointer on how to brown/sear meat, cooking for myself, steaks, and burgers keep coming out bland
Evan Allen
off all the things that didn't happen...
Samuel Gray
how tf do you pan sear do you cook with gas
Kevin Jones
>current girlfriend sits on the sofa all day while i work and complains
ok, this time I mean it in a good spirit. You are the problem here. Dump that chick and find a better one. You are choosing to be with people like this.
I'll be honest, you also have some fucked up expectations if you think women your own age are disgusting.
Season first, just a bit of salt and pepper. Best way to do steaks ( or chicken ) is a fast hard sear on both sides, then take off and put the whole pan in the oven to get it to the level of "done" you want. Don't burn your hand on the pan later aftger you take it out of hte oven. You will, but after a few times you will learn.
Burgers are a different beast.
get the pan really hot? put meat on it?
Matthew Parker
BUTTER. Essentially butter baste it consistently while searing, if you do it correctly you do not need to put it in the oven.
David Martin
>get the pan really hot? put meat on it? yes the issue is getting the pan really really hot thats why I was asking if you use gas. I am stuck in the half middle of nowhere using induction.
William Brown
Also, make sure the meat is room temp, pretty important for Mignon. Also, let it rest, let it rest, let it rest.
Jaxon Sanders
Your empty words echo loudly over beautiful plains filled with the flowers of loneliness. The wind carries the odor of your fear... *Sniff sniff*
Nicholas Anderson
Have yoy tried going to church? You never know, she could be there. You know the one ;)
Nathan James
Go to sleep Eugene. These hoes don’t exist.
Joshua Russell
thankyou for the tips I will try
Gavin Nelson
Honestly if you're in a major metropolitan area, leave. Those people are cancer.
Julian Sanders
oh I thought you were surprised someone could get the pan hot enough using gas...
>you do not need to put it in the oven.
Depends how people like their steak. I find dropping it into the oven at 400 or whatever ( it's been a few years ) lets me get a great medium-well. I can never do it right otherwise - always comes out more pink than I'd planned.
Dylan Fisher
Invest in a nice 10 inch cast iron (Lodge is a good brand) or stainless steel (All-Clad is okay) frying pan, get it to about 375F, put in a nice olive oil or clarified butter, take your meat, preferably after it has been sitting at room temperature for 15 minutes and has been patted dry and salted, insert it into the pan, turn the heat down to medium, let it sit without touching it for 5 minutes, flip it, add 1 tablespoon of butter, baste the meat with the butter, remove after 5 minutes. If you've done everything correctly you should have a nice pan sear, transfer the meat to the oven to bake at 400F for approximately 7 minutes or until the meat has reached an internal temperature of 130F if you desire for it to be medium rare, pull out your meat and let it rest for 5 minutes.
Nope. My stove top's electric. Patience and quality cookware is key.
My current girlfriend is 8 years older than me. Doesn't want children. Doesn't ever want to get married. Claims to be too disabled to work. Won't even play games with me.