Is love real or is it just a scam for us fags who can't get over a girl?
I'm 26 and never had trouble getting over a beak up till this relationship of 4 years. It's been 6 months and she's moved on. Never felt like such a faggot in my life.
I just wanna stop thinking about this girl who's hella fun but hella toxic. She started fucking a new dude 2 weeks after, we haven't spoke in 4 months. How could some women be so heartless?
What do I do Any Forumsros? It's been months and I've pushed other women away cause I'm retarded and emotional. I come here when I'm stuck and you boys never let me down with some real advice. Be real, be harsh. Or just post some funny shit. I don't know, I just hate that I'm here mentally.
Yes it is, I felt what you’re feeling for about a week. A very bad week. Almost lost my love but through an extreme coincidence we reconnected and started over and have been together for the 3 years since. In that week or so I was hurt, tried to fill it with other women, but they weren’t the same. Not even close . I’m lucky
Matthew Rodriguez
The best thing you can do is fuck other women. Stop wallowing in self pity, go out and meet people.
Eli Roberts
This is kinda right and kinda wrong. You can do this and it might help OR or might just reinforce your perception that all other women are inferior to the one you’ve lost and further compound that sense of heartache.
I’ve done this and the other girls didn’t measure up so I just felt worse.
I regret it so much. She came back pretty much begging over the next 2 months. I didn't believe her with how quickly she had turned on me. When I'd say yes she would turn on me again. Still don't know if she was serious, I just regret not giving her a chance.
Yea think this is the issue. If I found someone I found as hot and fun sure, but I was really damn attracted to her. I keep getting close then pulling away feeling like I'm gonna regret it.
Dubs speak the truth. Thank you wise Any Forumsro.
Bentley Morris
The best thing you can do is focus on the toxicity of the girl and not the good. A girl being fun isn’t a good foundation for anything meaningful. I’m not saying you need to pick a boring girl and I get the attraction to outgoing girls but if there is notable toxicity then you’re better off out of the relationship. You should focus on how that poison would have spread deeper over time and when the logical side of your brain kicks in you’ll accept this was for the best.
Hit the gym and find someone fun and non toxic. You’re in no hurry at 26.
Luke Baker
>Hella KYS op. You will never find love.
saged
Mason Hernandez
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Lincoln Kelly
Yea man it feels like two steps forward one step back. The bad memories fade faster than the good. I've been consistent with self improvement till I injured my back earlier last week. Been doing nothing but sitting at home all alone high on oxys cause I can barely stand.
I guess it's not a step back to journal more. Feels like I was done with that entire aspect of it and I hate going back. Thanks for your advice man.
LOL thanks for reminding me how not serious it is Any Forumsros. Comments like these make me laugh more than any YLYL thread ever can.
Josiah Johnson
At least you arent me. A 28 year old kissless virgin.
Alexander Perez
I was there 1.5 years ago. I'm just now maybe getting over her. Here's what you do, and what I wish I would have done. Find someone else, stop caring, do something else, whatever. Just move on. Now, in that time I started and am almost finished with a master's degree, but i did so because it's medical research related and was concerning a health condition she had, so still ended up fucking myself over a bit kek.
Sebastian Cooper
Man I'm starting to think that whole thing about better to have loved and lost is bullshit. I just wanna go back to before I knew this feeling existed.
Yea I was in the process of moving with her cause she wanted to move back to her parent's country in the UK. We were gonna start something together there. Now she's half way across the world with a new dude she met there.
Hey, at least I didn't move and your degree's still good regardless right? Silver linings.
I wish I could do something. I was finally shaking off this bullshit self pity till a back injury now I can barely walk. Just at home high on oxys and drinking alone. This feels like fuckin limbo.
James Rogers
>Man I'm starting to think that whole thing about better to have loved and lost is bullshit. I just wanna go back to before I knew this feeling existed. Nothing is worse than the feeling I have. I just want to die. I feel like it’s too late for me to even try. Go and get another girl, you’ll be ok user.
Caleb Sanchez
Work on yourself. eat good, work out a bit, meditate/relax, hows work going? focus on that pick up an old hobby you had and just go for it.
Time will sort you out mate, but work on yourself a little bit, give yourself some self-love, no, i dont mean hurr durr jackoff and goon all day. Do productive shit with your time :)
Brody Clark
4 year habit is a hard thing to break. Usually you just trade one addiction for another. But on the bright side, at least you don't own the ho half your shit
Samuel Robinson
Minecraft servers await
Jace Thompson
>Is love real A breakup is like having a emotional choc, dude.
Jacob Perry
Oh man just read 12 Rules for Life and become a chick magnet.
Haha yea I learned that the slow way man. Too much drinks and porn threads took me to rock bottom till I finally came out of it. Was working out daily and got a new job till I injured my back a week ago. No work, no exercise, nothing for the past week. Xrays come back Thursday and till then I'm just sitting in this chair mixing oxys and Baileys. Everything sucks right now but hey, normal part of life right?
I did at first but I'm finally starting to replace it with better things. Sad part is, I thought that would make me feel better. It does about myself, not at all over missing her.
Big true. So much dubs in this thread too. Lot of wisdom here.
Jayden James
is 12 rules for life the one by jordan peterson?
Christopher Jackson
Hey OP! i think you should try doing what this guy teached. many people have been able to get there exs back and much more realneville.com/text_archive.htm
