How do I get over a fear of butt stuff as a homo

How do I get over a fear of butt stuff as a homo.

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I don't get it, a fear of what?

Why be afraid of it in the first place

Why would you fear butt stuff? How can you be gay and not know butt stuff feels good?

Butt stuff, as it putting things in there

Don't go too big lest you become incontinent. Only normal human sized dicks and objects. Always with plenty of lube and warm up.

If you have that fear then don't do it, just put your dick inside the butt of your partner and everything will be fine.

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I am a somewhat bi man who recently broke up with an ex and wanted to experiment - was going to try the real deal but i have haemorrhoids and every time i try to finger myself it just feels 1) uncomfortable 2) like a finger in my ass and nothing really other than awkwardness. I had set up stuff with another man to try it but ended up chickening out and now i'm in a straight relationship again dammit

Thanks, I guess trying fingers initially I always just thought I was doing a poor job at it.
The akward thing is I do to be fair. It's just been anxious about it in the akward sense, living with other people it's not like I can even order any toys to make the process easier

Damn, I feel ya. Bianon aswell. Maybe see if you can get some medicine for that. + You can always ask your gf if she'd be willing to try pegging

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yeah she is actually into the idea and has brought it up herself a few times. Tbf yeah why not try it not - i am a deviant and want that so-called euphoric prostate stimulation but last time she tried to finger me (she had said ' don't worry, all boys love it' before doing so) i lost my erection in like two minutes and she started crying so, not the most invigorating experience.

She's like half my body weight too so could be kind of cute to watch her fuck me

Btw lots of sex toy places do it with discrete packaging so i wouldn't let that stop you - we got a vibrator and a butt plug, all came with no problem and couldn't tell from the packaging

Hopefully something works out for yous. There isn't just one way to enter the back door afterall

And I'll have to think about it, thanks. I've always just jacked off as a bi guy who hasn't had much romantic luck uet and never really tried stuff with my butt. But living with nosy mfs I always thought ordering something would just result in a "hmm whachu got there"

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Hopefully one of you anons help me get over my fear eventually kek ;)

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Your first time will always be messy so make sure who you are with is understanding.

Hopefully comically messy though, always gives me a laugh seeing stuff online where the dick keeps slipping out. You can almost add stereotypical comedy sounds to it

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>haemorrhoids

Unsolicited advice but here you go: get a bidet attachment for your toilet. Costs 60$ or so, absolutely worth it. Also stop pushing so dang hard on the shitter. Hemorrhoids can result from pushing a lot. Maybe also get a stool to raise your legs for better evacuation. These might not fix it immediately but it'll help.

Source: had uncomfortable butt for a long time, no longer

Just imagine that youre taking a big shit for hours on end.

I suppose you're right. But I guess in reverse