How do I stop thinking that I won't be able to do better than my ex? Keep in mind she's like a 9 out of 10...

How do I stop thinking that I won't be able to do better than my ex? Keep in mind she's like a 9 out of 10. WHAT THE FUCK

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What happened user

Dated girl for a bit
Rejected girl different views on certain things
Smoking hot body and face
Colored eyes
Felt like I made right decision at the time
Flash forward months later
Have fucked multiple women
Still obsess over this one girl
Cant stop looking at pictures of her
She has a bf and is in another state now so no point
I need to forget her
The depression won't let me reach my goals

I thought the same. Was single for 5 years, found someone else who, to me, is a definite 13/10 that completely blows away my ex. Is my ex still hot af? yes. is she hotter than my current gf? not by a longshot. You'll find someone better.

time heals

That's fucking rough, the only way out would be to find someone better. Don't kid yourself, it will take time. As you said u had different views, these will come in handy if you actually want a long lasting relationship.

It seems fucking other chicks wont do anything. Find something that you enjoy and grind that to the fullest.

I assume so but brother it's hard to find another smoke show. I'm glad that you are happy though. Very motivational thank you.

I find it hard to grind at thinks like school or the gym because I can't stop thinking of her. If I could just wipe her from my memory I would be doing great.

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By the way I am 24

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Delete the photos, block the socials. I've been cheated on. Its tough but it passes. You just have to let go.

This may be the answer sadly for me. Hopefully I can find a girlfriend without thinking "That other girl I used to date is way hotter". I'm dating a girl and have had the opportunity to have many GFs in life so I feel lucky in that regard. I think where I messed up is that I just push women aside too quickly. I'm a womanizer and it's time I come to terms with it. In my hunt to conquer them all I passed up and didn't fight for one who I now realize was worth it. I will now take your advice and delete everything.

Hi KingCobraJFS. Your 8 year dry spell is not going to end by making a thread.

OP here.
Honest question to incels. Why don't they hire a hooker? There's nothing wrong with a hooker.

That's how I had to do it, I'm by no means a womanizer. But if you have access to all the photos and shit, it will just haunt you.

>Doing better than my ex
Get out of that mentality and grow up.
Relationships are not achievements.

How long did it take? And were there times where you just REEEEALLY wanted to see a pic of her? I have those times and I can't help myself.

This is a very mature answer thank you. As a womanizer this is where I fall short. I respect your criticism

Hooker in my area

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I guess perhaps, the fact that I was cheated had some resentment instilled in me.

However, I can say that there were many many sleepless nights, It took me a good 7 months. However, I do not believe this chick was ever "the one" so for that I can't help.

From the sounds of your situation, this chick was not the one for you user, appearance wise maybe. But it's mutual, "the one" isn't just for one side.

I guess her ability to move it proof enough, she was not.

Great point. Her ability to move on is very telling. However I also moved on very quickly and we only dated shortly. But your point is not lost on me. I am wishing you the best.

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The woman in your pic farts. And just the thought of her farting is so hot.

Is the farting thing a meme? I thought it was a meme.

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Scarcity mindset. Don't have a defeatist mindset. Half the population is girls, there is always a better girl out there, you just gotta keep your chin up and keep searching.

I do not think most incels crave lustful sex, but intimacy and genuine desire with a partner, not a one night stand which are hollow and empty in comparison. Just my take on it, I could be wrong.

Same to you user

user right on brother very motivating. Thank you Any Forums I thought you were all just gonna call me a fag.

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